20 Pros and Cons of Having Sex ...

I remember what a serious issue it is to decide wether to have or not have sex in high school. And when I decided to write a post that would have both pros and cons, I must admit – it was kind of hard for me to come up with 10 pros, being a girl myself.

I am now married to the one I lost my virginity to and am glad that I was his first as well. However, many friends of mine had a very different experience where having sex actually ruined their relationship with the guys they loved. So, if are thinking about having sex for the first time, you really need to think this all through.

And before you do, please consider these 20 teen sex pros and cons below:
10 Pros of Having Sex …

10. Of Course It is Rather Pleasurable Later on. It Will Be Even More Pleasurable if It is Done out of Love

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9. When You Have Sex with Your Partner, You Are Going to Feel Closer to Them. Just Make Sure You Use Protection

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8. When You Have Sex as a Teenager, You Are Obviously Responsible and Know That You Are Responsible for What Could Happen…are You?

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7. The Two of You Are Going to Be Sharing Memories Together. when You Have Sex as a Teenager, This is Something That is Very Memorable and You Will Not Be Able to Forget It. Are You Ready for That?

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6. You Will Get to Experience Someone in a Way That You Would Not Normally Be Able to Experience Them

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5. As a Teenager, You Will Be Able to Learn What You like and Dislike during Sexual Intercourse

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4. You Will Get to Learn What Sleeping with Someone is like

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3. You Will Be Able to Learn What to do and Will Be Gaining More Experiences

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2. When you sleep with someone one your wedding night, you will not have to worry about having to experience, because you had it as a teenager. This is even better if you marry the one you lost your virginity to

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1. The Two of You Could Be Spending the Rest of Your Lives in Each Other’s Life Simply Because You Had Sex…

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10 Cons of Having Sex …
10 Cons of Having Sex …

10. You Will Have a Sexual past. when You Get out of Your Teenage Years, That Sexual past Could Come Back and Haunt You. for Those Guys out There, How Would It Be to Find out the Girl You Slept with as a Teenager Had a Child without You Knowing and Five Years Later, You Found out the Truth? for Those Girls, Why Would You Want to Put Yourself through This Risk?

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9. This One is Intended for Girls…when a Guy Sleeps with You and Tells You That He Will Take That Responsibility if Something Happens, You May Want to Think Twice as Their Hormones May Just Be Raging. No Boy (that is What They Are) is Ready to Take on a Responsibility as Big as a Baby

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8. Of Course, You Are at Risk of Contacting Some Type of Sexual Disease, Even if You do Use Protection, Your Chances Will Still Be There

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7. You Will Be Risking Pregnancy Even Using Protection

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6. If You do Not Have Sex with Someone, then You Will Be Labeled as “hard to Get” and That is Good, Because That Means All of Those Good Girls and Guys Will Come around to Date You

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5. If You do Not Sleep with Someone as a Teenager, This Means That You Have Good Morals for Yourself

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4. The Wedding Night Will Be Wonderful and Will Be Very Memorable, Especially if the Both of You Are Still Virgins

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3. You Will Be Saving Yourself for the Right Person to Come in Your Life, Which Really Does Mean Something

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2. You Will Not Be Putting Your Heart on the Line…oh and You Will Not Be Grounded by Your Parents when They Find out. Yes, They Will Eventually Find out, Trust Me

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1. Most of All, You Will Have Something to Wait for. You’ll Have Something to Dream about and Look Forward to

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Oh, did I mention the first times around it's SO painful, you'll find yourself crying (with pain) during the sex and asking yourself why you wanted to do it in the first place. And also, if you consider having sex with a guy just to make him fall for you, it's not going to work. All you'll do is lose virginity and any chance of having a real relationship with him.

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Now, guys and girls, you tell me, when you look out the pros and cons of teen sex and you compare them together, which ones look the best? Honestly, I am not going to make your decision as everyone is different, but I think the cons side looks better …
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