I hear so many of my friends talking about how they met a guy and had wonderful sex and then the guy only calls or comes by when he wants sex. OK honey what you need to know is that what you had with him was a physical attraction that magnified feelings of a deeper nature. Now let me make myself clear he is not a bad guy, for the most part, he was simply thinking “it’s just sex what’s the harm in that”. So here are some super signs to look for to see if it is just sex:
So many women and men are having this type of relationship thinking that it’s more and it’s not. It’s Just Sex.
They call you around 10 pm or later asking if you can come over or if they can come over around midnight. A lot of people think “oh they are just really busy” no they are calling for a booty call. It’s Just Sex.
Yes staying at home is nice sometimes but there is a whole world outside of the bedroom. It’s Just Sex
Think, do you even know if their parents are alive, do they have siblings. If you don’t know it might just be sex.
Are you bummed out about your family and want to talk about it and they don’t want to hear about it. It could be just sex
Do you only swap sexy texts or photos? Some relationships are like this but others are Just Sex.
Only going to their house/apartment or vice verse might just be sex.
They come over at midnight have sex and then around 2 am they want to go home or send you home. Oh yeah it’s just sex.
Ever hear that old saying “a couple that eats together stays together”.
Normally you want to rest a bit and maybe talk. When they all of a sudden they want you to leave it’s probably just sex.
There are so many other things going on that you could talk about.
It could be Just Sex
Ever call then and setup a time to meet and you end up having sex. It’s Just Sex.
You see them and you know they saw you and they turn away. It’s Just Sex.
Only spend enough time with you to have sex. Then It’s Just Sex.
No matter how busy he says he is, if was serious about the two of you he’d make an effort to spend time with you outside the bedroom.
He makes sure the two of you never get too close emotionally by keeping things from you. If you tell him you like it when he does a certain something, he’ll stop because he wants to keep things casual emotionally.
Has he ever straight-up told you that he’s not interested in anything serious and just wants to play the field? He wouldn’t be saying these things if it weren’t true!
If it’s not about sex, all communication is likely to come from you. Are you the only one suggesting dates? Are you the only one who tries to start a real conversation when the two of you are together?
If you get visibly upset about the lack of communication or closeness between you two and doesn’t care, he probably doesn’t care about you, either.
Or should I say he has multiple sex partners that he’s not very private about. If the guy is openly having sex with multiple partners, it is definitely not a relationship.
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