21 Signs It's Just Sex and Not a Relationship ...

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21 Signs It's Just Sex and Not a Relationship ...
21 Signs It's Just Sex and Not a Relationship ...

I hear so many of my friends talking about how they met a guy and had wonderful sex and then the guy only calls or comes by when he wants sex. OK honey what you need to know is that what you had with him was a physical attraction that magnified feelings of a deeper nature. Now let me make myself clear he is not a bad guy, for the most part, he was simply thinking “it’s just sex what’s the harm in that”. So here are some super signs to look for to see if it is just sex:

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Every Time You See Each Other It’s Only to Have Sex

hair,person,facial hair,action film,screenshot, So many women and men are having this type of relationship thinking that it’s more and it’s not. It’s Just Sex.

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This type of relationship is not uncommon, but it is important to remember that it is not a healthy or sustainable one. It is possible to develop feelings for someone you have sex with, but it is unlikely to lead to a lasting relationship. People in this type of relationship should be aware that it is not likely to evolve into a more meaningful one. Additionally, it is important to practice safe sex and to be aware of the potential risks of having sex without a committed relationship.

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Only Comes over at Night

had,adult,sleepover., They call you around 10 pm or later asking if you can come over or if they can come over around midnight. A lot of people think “oh they are just really busy” no they are calling for a booty call. It’s Just Sex.

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This behavior is an unmistakable signal that their interest in you isn't about emotional connection, but rather a physical one. If it's always after-hours and never during daylight – think about it, are brunch dates or afternoon walks in the park ever on the agenda? Likely not. It's a relationship that's operating on their time, suiting their needs, and it's all about the convenience of it. That's not partnership; that's a call of desire. In your gut, you know there's no depth to these encounters.

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Doesn’t Want to Go out Anywhere

face,human action,hair,nose,cheek, Yes staying at home is nice sometimes but there is a whole world outside of the bedroom. It’s Just Sex

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Never Talks about Family and Friends

Talk,me,,talk,talk,me,, Think, do you even know if their parents are alive, do they have siblings. If you don’t know it might just be sex.

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In a real relationship, sharing details about one's inner circle is a given. It's a way to let someone in, to make them feel included in your life. If you're in the dark about even the most basic details of their personal life, it's a pretty telling sign. Conversations that evade anything deeper than surface-level topics can indicate a lack of emotional investment, which is a red flag if you're looking for something more meaningful than casual encounters.

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Doesn’t Want to Hear about Your Family and Friends

black and white,photography,monochrome photography,film noir,darkness, Are you bummed out about your family and want to talk about it and they don’t want to hear about it. It could be just sex

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Phone Conversations or Text Messages Are Only in a Sexual Nature

you,want,see,picture,sweaty, Do you only swap sexy texts or photos? Some relationships are like this but others are Just Sex.

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You Only Meet at Places Where Sex Can Occur

furniture,bed,bed sheet,Hey,guys!, Only going to their house/apartment or vice verse might just be sex.

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No Sleepovers

person,man,male,muscle,mouth, They come over at midnight have sex and then around 2 am they want to go home or send you home. Oh yeah it’s just sex.

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This behavior points to a clear-cut arrangement where emotional ties aren't on the table. If you find that pillow talk is non-existent and the bed is quickly cooled after the deed is done, it's a strong indication that you're in a hookup scenario rather than a blossoming relationship. It's all about physical satisfaction—once that's achieved, the connection seems to fizzle out, literally by night's end. If you're longing for a cuddly morning-after, you may need to adjust your expectations with this setup.

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9

You Don’t Eat Together

hair,black hair,face,person,eyebrow, Ever hear that old saying “a couple that eats together stays together”.

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This adage underscores the intimacy of sharing meals, a basic human connection bonding us through the ritual of eating. When your encounters are solely bedroom-based, skipping the dinner table talks, you miss out on this fundamental form of closeness. It's not just about the food—it's the conversations, the laughs, and those tender moments that weave the fabric of a relationship. If all you savor together is the physical, it might be a sign that you're in a casual fling rather than a nourishing partnership.

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They Take a Shower Right after Sex and Send You on Your Way

face,mouth,sense, Normally you want to rest a bit and maybe talk. When they all of a sudden they want you to leave it’s probably just sex.

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Never Talk about Life outside the Bedroom

person,speech,speaker, There are so many other things going on that you could talk about.

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12

You Only Have a Cell Phone or Beeper Number

face,person,nose,man,male, It could be Just Sex

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13

When You Talk It’s Only to Setup a Sex Time

screenshot,action film,midnight,special effects,fictional character, Ever call then and setup a time to meet and you end up having sex. It’s Just Sex.

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14

They Avoid You in Public

anime,the,weekend,don,know, You see them and you know they saw you and they turn away. It’s Just Sex.

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Only Spends a Couple of Hours with You

person,screenshot,facial hair,Global, Only spend enough time with you to have sex. Then It’s Just Sex.

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There is No Quality Time

hair,person,hairstyle,long hair, No matter how busy he says he is, if was serious about the two of you he’d make an effort to spend time with you outside the bedroom.

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17

He Keeps His Distance

person,screenshot,Wait.,What?, He makes sure the two of you never get too close emotionally by keeping things from you. If you tell him you like it when he does a certain something, he’ll stop because he wants to keep things casual emotionally.

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He Tells You so

image,Damn,it,,just,really, Has he ever straight-up told you that he’s not interested in anything serious and just wants to play the field? He wouldn’t be saying these things if it weren’t true!

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You Initiate All Communication

meal,Why,won't,you,talk, If it’s not about sex, all communication is likely to come from you. Are you the only one suggesting dates? Are you the only one who tries to start a real conversation when the two of you are together?

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He Doesn’t Care if He Hurts Your Feelings

person,human positions,sitting,professional,DON'T, If you get visibly upset about the lack of communication or closeness between you two and doesn’t care, he probably doesn’t care about you, either.

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21

He Cheats

face,person,beauty,hairstyle,brown hair, Or should I say he has multiple sex partners that he’s not very private about. If the guy is openly having sex with multiple partners, it is definitely not a relationship.

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hey, This is my situation: I meet my guy friend over a year ago. At first we just talked here and there. We would go out in groups of friends. Three months later he discovers his wife is cheating. She tells him she wants a divorce. He is devasted and seeks any girls company. He turns my way because he's always been attracked to me. We spend New Years night together with other friends. It feels strange on my part. I was in love with a guy,fwb(friend with benefits) I was just having sex with. I told my guy friend I couldn't and wouldn't do anything with him, because there was someone else. My guy accepted and understood. Not to mention the fact that he was still married...helloooo. In Febraury of of this year we did kiss twice, i had a lot of beer in me, another friend dares us to kiss. It was a great kiss. Which change things. Although my fwb was still in the picture, i continued to hand out with my guy friend. Guy friend and I made things clear in March that we were just friends and nothing woukd ever happen. We are now in November, fwb has been out of the picture since September. Guy friend divorce went through in October. Guy friend and I hung out all summer long as just friends. he is my best friend now. Take him everywhere with me. We shop together. Our kids hang out all the time. We party together. He meets girls and i meet guys. We fight like an old married couplez, but cant stay mad or away for more than a day. Lately my friends that we both hang out with have been noticing that he's been looking at me differently. I tell them no he's not into me. He texts me when he's on business trips to say hi. friends do that. I joke when i say i have the prefect relationship with my guy friend without the sex, but its true I do. Now I'm not exactly sure if I should be doing anything. I like him, but I don't want to ruin our great friendship. I'm starting to see what my friends see. My guy friend and I have cuddled on warm afternoons. When we do go out to clubs, bars, and fundraisers, He makes his business to stay near by. When drinks a lot he's all over me. well at least tries to be. I push him away because I know its the booze talking. Im not sure if I should leave things as they are or try. Its just so weird, we have reached a point in this friendship that I feel could either end it take a different path for the better. I say this because he doesnt admit he feels anything but is showing sign that he wants more...not sex. for example I'm not allowed to talk about fwb, for my own good. I go on a date and he always ask me to do something on the night of my date when i told him the day before. Interupts me when I am telling him about my date. Needs to let me know about every girl he meets. It doesnt bother me, I encourage him to meet new girls. He always, at a bar or club has to show that he came with me. This Halloween wknd, friday we were both invited to a friend party. I was a sexy kitty. When he took one look at my costume all he said "are ypu planning on going on the train to the city like that...it's see through" I in return said "duh it is a costume party." He wasnt invited to the costume party i was going to but made it his business to come with me, and proceed to we call "cock block" which means block any guy from approaching me. I know this long but i need advice. i wouldnt mind dating him if I knew for sure it wouldn't ruining our friendship. He's just getting over a divorce, I'd like to see him get out there mess around with girls, even if it makes me jealous. He needs to know exactly what he needs and wants. Live the single life. Im not what he needs right now. Am I just protecting myself from getting hurt here?

A girl told me that she was my best friend and that she loved me but she just wasn't ready for a relationship. Yet after she gave me hug the night before and I felt really loved

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Meet this guy from sa an we been chating for th past week now... Really like him but he doesn't tell me if he likes me or not.....we chat almost every time an he send me kisses Thursday he is coming to Namibia for a business an he would love to take me out to dinner do you guys think i should sleep over at his hotel just to make out no sex he didn't suggest it thore......or is it too soon?

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