10 Signs He's Playing Games ...

By Jennifer

10 Signs He's Playing Games ...

So there’s this guy. You’re totally into him, but you can seem to nail him down. Does he like you? Does he LIKE like you? Or is he just playing games? Here are the best ways to know for sure:

1 He Always Calls at the Last Minute

If he calls and asks you to go out at the last minute, then you might not have been his first choice — someone else may have cancelled on him, so now he’s asking you. Why else would he call you at six o’clock on a Friday evening and ask if you want to go out that same night? A guy who wasn’t playing games wouldn’t dare wait until the last minute to ask you out on a Friday night!

2 He Never Wants to Go out

Does he ask you to come over, or want to come to your place, but never wants to actually go out anywhere? Then he might be hiding. If he’s seeing another girl, then he might be afraid to run into her or her friends if you go out.

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3 He’s Always Sending Calls to Voicemail

If he constantly sends his calls to voicemail when you’re together, or he’s getting and ignoring a lot of text messages, he might be avoiding someone — like his girlfriend.

4 He Doesn’t Want You to Meet His Friends

A guy who is serious about you will want to introduce you to his friends and family, and will want to meet yours.

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5 He Doesn’t Want You to Stay

If he never wants you to stay the night, or to stay at your place overnight, he might have somewhere else, or someone else, he needs to spend the night with. Like a wife or girlfriend.

6 He Freaks if You Leave Anything behind

If he does let you stay the night, but freaks out when you leave a bobby pin or an earring or a t-shirt, then he might be worried another girl will see those things. Otherwise, what guy would even notice if you left a hair pin behind?

7 He’s Hot and Cold

One day, he seems deeply in love, crazy about you, totally into you. The next time you see him, he’s standoffish and distant. This is a sure sign of a guy who is playing games with you.

8 He Won’t Call You His Girlfriend

If he won’t call you his girlfriend, or introduce you as his girlfriend, then he doesn’t see you as his girlfriend. He sees you as someone he’s casually dating, or as just a friend with benefits.

9 He Never Talks about the Future

If you can’t pin him down on plans for the holidays or spring break or even next weekend, then he probably doesn’t see you in his life for that long. Player! Time to move on!

10 He Doesn’t Share

You tell him everything, your hopes and dreams, your favorite color, EVERYTHING. But he won’t tell you anything! Is he mysterious, or a game-player? You guessed it. He’s probably playing games.

So annoying, right, ladies? I hate it when guys play games! But for every guy who’s a player, there’s another guy behind him who is courteous, gorgeous, AND into you! So move on!

How can you tell when a guy is playing games? What’s your sure-fire sign? Let me know, so I can add it to my list of things to look out for! Thanks!

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Men maybe be pigs but at least its better than being a psycho woman.

another thing is when he never talks first, like you always have to or you's don't talk atall really.. but one night, instead of chasing after him, i stuck with friends..most of them being fellas. after a while he was hugging round me all night. i felt great, give it a try girlys ;)

@sheila - Am not sure about life but we are pigs. B-)

Regarding #10. I would just like to say it for the record. ZENNY DOESN'T SHARE FOOD. And no I am not playing mind games. You telling me your secret doesn't amount to you digging your fork into my cheese cake. No euphemisms there. Honest to god.

Vanisha, I'm with you on that!!

If you catch him in the middle of a lie, then he's a player. I was "Dating" (if you can even call it that) this good looking older guy and one night as he was bringing me home I caught him texting someone named Leah. I called him out on it and asked who it was that he kept texting and he said Daniel. I asked him if Daniel was spelled L-E-A-H and he said what do you know her? I told him yes just to call his bluff and he asked me what her last name was. I knew her from highschool and told him her last name and he's like "No, she's a friend." Ladies if you catch them in a lie dump them. They're not worth it if they're dishonest.

I totally am experiencing number 7,8, and number 4. Totally am not into the guy because he's doing those mind games with me. I think I'm better off alone. He probably enjoys making me feel confused and like I'm not worth it. =(

Yeah Meream, Such bastards around. But I guess we have to live with them! Both parties can't live without each other!

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