I was married for six years when I found out my husband was having an affair. I was devastated, but when I looked back, I knew I ought to have seen the signs. How to tell if your guy is cheating? Here are some ways…
1. He Starts Taking Better Care of Himself
If he starts working out, or wearing nicer clothes, he may not be doing it just for you. He might be doing it to impress someone else.
2. His Taste in Music Changes
If his iPod used to be full of Death cab for Cutie, but now he’s listening to Kenny Chesney, he might be seeing someone who is encouraging his new taste in music.
3. He Spends a Lot Less Time with You
If he blows you off on your usual date night once in a while, that’s one thing. But if all of a sudden he doesn’t want to spend any time alone with you, he might be feeling guilty.
4. He Has New Friends You Haven’t Met before
If he is always talking about friends, male or female, that he’s never really mentioned before, they might actually be HER friends.
5. He Hides His Cell Phone Texts or Calls
If he’s always sending calls to voicemail when you’re together, or if he takes his phone in the bathroom with him, you may need to wonder.
6. He Treats You Differently
If he seems distant or on edge or is more critical of you than usual, he may be trying to get YOU to dump HIM. He might be stressed about school or work, but typically, if a guy starts treating you differently than before, something else is going on.
7. He Accuses YOU of Cheating
If he was never the jealous type before, but suddenly starts treating you with suspicion or jealousy, he might be transferring his own guilty feeling to you. This is a typical sign of guilt, and you should definitely be on the alert!
8. He Kisses Differently
If his kissing style changes suddenly, he might be trying something new, or he might have learned something new from someone else.
9. His Friends and Family Start Avoiding You
If his sister used to be your BFF but now she’s not taking your calls or meeting you for coffee or shopping anymore, she might know something you don’t know. His friends and family won’t rat him out, but sometimes their behavior can signal a change, too.
10. He Blocks You from MySpace or Facebook
If all of the sudden you can’t see his Facebook wall or MySpace page, he may be hiding messages from another girl. Why else would he block you, unless he’s hiding something?
The best way to find out if your man is cheating is to ask him, of course. And if he has been unfaithful, you might be tempted to blame the other girl, but it’s not her fault. It’s his. So dump that loser and find someone who really appreciates you!
Want to know more about how to find out if he's cheating, check out these 10 Obvious Signs of Cheating … Is He a Cheater?
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