10 Ways to Find out if He's Cheating ...

By Jennifer

10 Ways to Find out if He's Cheating ...

I was married for six years when I found out my husband was having an affair. I was devastated, but when I looked back, I knew I ought to have seen the signs. How to tell if your guy is cheating? Here are some ways…

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1 He Starts Taking Better Care of Himself

If he starts working out, or wearing nicer clothes, he may not be doing it just for you. He might be doing it to impress someone else.

2 His Taste in Music Changes

If his iPod used to be full of Death cab for Cutie, but now he’s listening to Kenny Chesney, he might be seeing someone who is encouraging his new taste in music.

3 He Spends a Lot Less Time with You

If he blows you off on your usual date night once in a while, that’s one thing. But if all of a sudden he doesn’t want to spend any time alone with you, he might be feeling guilty.

4 He Has New Friends You Haven’t Met before

If he is always talking about friends, male or female, that he’s never really mentioned before, they might actually be HER friends.

5 He Hides His Cell Phone Texts or Calls

If he’s always sending calls to voicemail when you’re together, or if he takes his phone in the bathroom with him, you may need to wonder.

6 He Treats You Differently

If he seems distant or on edge or is more critical of you than usual, he may be trying to get YOU to dump HIM. He might be stressed about school or work, but typically, if a guy starts treating you differently than before, something else is going on.

7 He Accuses YOU of Cheating

If he was never the jealous type before, but suddenly starts treating you with suspicion or jealousy, he might be transferring his own guilty feeling to you. This is a typical sign of guilt, and you should definitely be on the alert!

8 He Kisses Differently

If his kissing style changes suddenly, he might be trying something new, or he might have learned something new from someone else.

9 His Friends and Family Start Avoiding You

If his sister used to be your BFF but now she’s not taking your calls or meeting you for coffee or shopping anymore, she might know something you don’t know. His friends and family won’t rat him out, but sometimes their behavior can signal a change, too.

10 He Blocks You from MySpace or Facebook

If all of the sudden you can’t see his Facebook wall or MySpace page, he may be hiding messages from another girl. Why else would he block you, unless he’s hiding something?

The best way to find out if your man is cheating is to ask him, of course. And if he has been unfaithful, you might be tempted to blame the other girl, but it’s not her fault. It’s his. So dump that loser and find someone who really appreciates you!

Want to know more about how to find out if he's cheating, check out these 10 Obvious Signs of Cheating … Is He a Cheater?

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Am Natasha, are married for 35 years now. We were living happilly though sometimes there were little disputes between us. But recently its about 3 years ago, he told me he is going to work for a certain man named Kristian as his boss to help him in his business after retiring as government officer. After a certain time he told me that Mr. Kristian will give him someone to help him in the job. One day he told me its a lady named Nadine. Times past by and one day someone told be that my husband is going out with a lady everywhere as the job was to be on the move looking for clients, they were eating together in restaurants, doing shopping together, when I asked for explanations he got angry and dont want to reply to me. I did my investigations and found out that the said business was really for them both. That he is doing business with that lady and the company bears their initials both. I always asked him what the initials means he gave invented names. But everyday he says that he doesnot love the lady and only doing his business and the lady is his associate. But am getting depressed day by day and everyday I am seeing something to quarrel with him. He does not want to end business with that bitch. He says they signed an agreement. But the thing is that I feel totally devastated when I learnt about what he did behind my back. He did not let me know anything he was hiding it from me until I discovered about it myself.

Matt Gross of Houston Tx (formally Middletown Ny) is a sociopath and pathologica liar. Matt will lie and cheat on you. Matt is also no longer a pilot and does not work. HE will lie and say he worked for Homeland security but its not true. Matt is always trying to get his ex wife back and is a constant pest to her. He will also talk bad about you and try to use you for your money. Dont trust this man; Run as fast as you can. He will act charming and sweet. Even protective over you. HE always buys his women a bottle of mace. But its all lies! Does he hide his phone? Does his stories never add up? Does he talk a little too much with MIchell Berguex of Verde woodson park? SHe is a snake in the grass so dont trust her. Ever feel like he has something to hide or that he is not being honest with you? Please go with your gut instincts and run away from him.

Hello um I been in my relationship for about 5 years and he now starting avoiding me and doesn't want to sleep at home. He says he sleeping in his car. He says its because I crowed him with questions and he tired of me being detective that's I get under his skin to where he doesn't want to be around me. But some signs could that he really be cheating or yes I could really be driving him away. He says there no one else so I don't know what to do.

I been merry for 19 years we have 6 kids together but every time we go out dancing he think he could talk to women well he is out side the club smoking is that ok is it normal please help

k well i got out of a 13yr abusive relationship and thought i found the man of my dreams. He was so into me and told me about how his ex had cheated on him so many times and really hurt him. well we have been togeather 7mths now and things are starting to change. he never answers his phone when i call or text him when im at work, he used to always want to spend time with me and now he seems more focused on video games and stuff. and the biggest thing that bothers me now is that twice he hs takin his kids home to his ex"s house(who lives 5min away)and is gone for over an hour to do it. then he tells me i have no reason to be mad at him for it. i just dont know what to do, i do love him and im just so scared to find out that he is cheating on me with his ex.

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