15 Ways to Be Completely Sure a Guy is into You ...

By Melanie

15 Ways to Be Completely Sure a Guy is into You ...

Guys can be a bit hard to read at times and that's why it's pretty difficult to be completely sure if a guy likes you. Throughout my teen years of dating, it was hard to tell if a guy was being sweet just to “get some” or if they were being sweet because they actually liked me. If you are in a confusing relationship or for those future confusing relationships, I would like to give you 15 ways to be completely sure a guy likes you, so listen up girls and get ready to know if that guy you are dating really digs you or if he is just playing you...

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He Tells Someone about You

So you've been flirting with this guy and he's been flirting back. Does it mean anything more to him? If he really likes you, he is going to tell someone about you. If he tells a mutual friend that he would like to get to know more about you and also asks others questions about you, he definitely likes you. His questions show that he has more than a casual interest in you.


He Has "that Look"

Even though the guy is sitting way across the room, that look he gives you will say it all. If he looks at you with wonder in his eyes and is always making eye contact with you, this is a good sign. After all, eyes are the windows to the soul, right?


This look is more than just a passing glance. If the guy is making consistent eye contact with you, and it appears to be more than just a casual glance, then it's a good sign that he is interested in you. He may even be smiling or blushing when you make eye contact with him. If he looks at you with a sense of admiration and wonder, then it could be a sign that he is really into you. His body language can also tell you a lot about how he feels. If he is leaning in toward you when you talk or if he is constantly finding ways to touch you, even if it's just a light brush of your hand or arm, then this could be a sign that he is into you.


The Conversation You Share

If he's interested in more than small talk with you, this could be a sign that he totally likes you! He'll try to find common ground with you and ask you questions that allow him to get to know you better. You'll know that he's a good listener if he uses that information you told me in another future conversation.


He Shows up Unexpectedly

If he shows up out of nowhere, then it is obvious that he really likes you. Guys will always try to pop up "coincidentally" to get your attention. Whether he's hanging out by your school locker, joining the same extracurricular club you're in, or just catching up with you outside, he wants you to notice him. This is major effort from his side!


When a guy is into you, he'll go out of his way to make sure you know it. One way he might do this is by showing up unexpectedly. Whether it's at your school locker, your favorite extracurricular activity, or just when you're out and about, if he's appearing out of nowhere then it's a sure sign that he's interested in you.

This kind of behavior shows that he's willing to put in the effort to get your attention. He's likely trying to make sure you know that he's around and that he's interested in you. He could be trying to make sure that you notice him, or that he gets the chance to talk to you.

It's not just about showing up at unexpected times, though. If he's always finding ways to be around you, whether that's asking to hang out or just saying hi in the hallways, then it's a sign that he's into you. He's likely trying to get to know you better and make sure that you know he's interested.


Are You a Happy Person?

The reason I ask is because if you are a happy person, then who would not like you? Of course he likes you! If you always appear sad and depressed, then now may be the time to start working on that. Take a look at your body image, your future, the resources, the possibilities and your plans and stay positive! Change is hard but if change can make your life happier...why not!

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Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.

Bruce Lee

He Babbles on when You Are Talking

The both of you talk and talk without allowing any form of silence. Girl, this is a good sign that he is into you. Silence is death. There is nothing worse than sitting there completely silent. Lack of communication is a definite relationship deal breaker! When a guy is trying to connect with you, he will babble on and hope that he gets your interest.


One of the most obvious signs that a guy is into you is that he talks and talks without allowing any form of silence. When a guy is trying to connect with you, he will babble on and hope that he gets your interest. This is a good sign that he is interested and trying to build a connection with you.

It is important to note that lack of communication is a definite relationship deal breaker. If you're not able to communicate and connect with one another, it can be difficult to build a strong relationship. That is why it is so important to have meaningful conversations and be able to talk openly and honestly.

Another sign that a guy is into you is if he is willing to spend time with you. If he is willing to make plans and take you out, it is a good sign that he is interested in getting to know you better. He might also make an effort to learn more about your interests and hobbies, or ask you questions about yourself. This shows that he cares about you and wants to learn more about you.


He Tries to Relate to You

In many ways, the guy tries to relate to you. If he tries to relate to you, then that definitely means that he is interested in you. When guys are interested in you, they share their experiences, interest and even their pet peeves with you. That is him setting up compatibility. The morestuff you do together, the better you will relate with each other.


He's Always Smiling at You

When a guy is into a girl, he will constantly smile at her. Do you catch him doing that? When a guy smiles at you, that is generally indicating some type of approval. A smile is one of the best self-esteem weapons you can find, so use it. Don't be shy!


He Admits Something Embarrassing to You

If the guy admits something embarrassing to you, then he is into you. Some guys will share oddities about themselves in order to break the ice and to show you that they are real. And most importantly it shows that he is absolutely comfortable with you.


Makes Fun of You in a Harmless Way

When a guy is into a girl he may make fun of her in a harmless way. This may be his way of trying to get you to laugh. If he starts cracking some jokes at something you have said or did, then this is his way of showing you that he is comfortable with you. Of course, if you think it's getting out of hand, let him know.


His Body Language

Is he always leaning in really close? Is he always finding excuses to touch you? Well, his body language is saying that he wants to be near you! Even if he's just got his arms around you, he likes being close to you. Relaxed body language means he's at total ease with you.


He Befriends Your Friends

If he goes out of his way to find common ground with your friends, it's a big sign that he likes you. He's interested in knowing the people you surround yourself with! Plus, he's probably trying to sneakily ask your best friend questions about you!


He Invites You to Family Functions

Men tend to introduce women who they see themselves being committed to to family. He sees you being apart of his future and that's why he has no problem with you meeting his parents! He wants them to get used to the idea of having you around, he wants you to be a part of the family!


He Keeps up with You on Social Media

I think a lot of people agree with me that social media is the easiest way to let someone know you like them. For example, if he's following you on Instagram and constantly "liking" all of your photos, it's a good sign! He likes keeping up with you and how you spend your days!


He Says It

Here's your best sign yet. If he comes out and tells you, that's great! When a guy is really interested, he won't be afraid to admit it. Let him know that you feel the same way!

I hope these 15 ways help you deal better with those mixed signals that boys are oh-so-famous for. Any other signs that you have noticed when a boy is really into you? I'd love to know!

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theres this sophomore I'm crushing on but he confuses me if he likes me he's always staring at me his friends teases him hes always Smiling My friend heard a conversation which was that he liked a girl and that my friend was her best friend Me but he said no and he's happy it isn't me because hes trying to get another girl but he he still does things around me hes outgoing with every other girl but me he tends to avoid eye contact and stuff

okay is this page still running bc I replyed like 4w's ago and noones said anything #confused#

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I really like this guy and I have liked him for about three years now. I caught him looking at me loads of times during class, and when I looked at him, he would just hurriedly look away. I used to chat on facebook for three hours late at night, and while chatting, he kept on trying to relate me to, and he cared about me in lots of different way such as telling me to sleep when I got a nose bleed, and telling me he preferred girls like me, rather than popular girls.... He always tried to talk to me during class, face to face, and on facebook, I was the one who started the conversation. But after a while, he started chatting to me first. I was so happy. I am pretty sure he told his friends about me because one day, one of his friends saw me, and he was like "oh Allison, there goes your crush. Aren't you going to look at him?" He said it in front of everyone so they all looked my way. The very same day, my crush deleted me on fcaebook. I was heartbroken, because i thought we really had something going on between us. but the fact that he deleted me on facebook so easily, with any second thoughts just broke me. but after that, his friends started to tease me and him continuously at school, and they kept on telling me that he liked me... After he deleted me on facebook, he started to look at me, and he tried to talk to me in class, but I was really cold to me. So I was feeling really depressed because I got rejected before I started anything... but my friend told me that she was in class the other day, and my crush and his friends were sitting close to her, and she told me that she heard them talking about me, and when my crush's friend asked my crush whether he likes me or not. My crush stayed silent with a face that said something like "can we plz not talk about this here?" look. Also, he needs to wear glasses, but he doesn't when he has class with me, and he takes them off when he sees me coming. But I really dont know if he likes me or not. And I really want to ask whether he likes me or not because my friends keep on telling me that they think it wasn't my crush who deleted me on facebook... they say it might be his freinds who hacked into his account and deleted me on facebook. I don't know what happened, and he keeps on coming near me as much as he can, but I don't know what he is thinking because I dont want to get hurt again.. Does he like me or not? I really don't know. PLZ help me.

I'll be frank. Conversation is misleading because I've been in a situation plenty of times where I thought wow these are deep questions why is he asking them all and then I turn around and he's playing the field. I'd go with the look. You can't hide true feelings when you look at someone :)