How do you know if a guy is interested in you? Just because he hasn’t said those three little words doesn’t mean he isn’t crazy about you, but how can you tell without risking embarrassment of asking? Here are my telltale signs he likes you...
1 Glances
You catch him looking at you, whatever you are doing.
2 Jealousy?
You catch a glimpse of hurt when you talk to him about a hot man you met last night, or Brad Pitt. Double score if he then talks about a hot woman.
He calls and texts you even when he is out with his friends. You know he’ll be getting grief for this, so it’s a sure sign that he likes you.
4 You're Invited
He talks about festivals or gigs he wants to go too, and waits for you to say you’ll go with him. Double points if he actually invites you, especially if they are later on in the year. Making plans with you is a big hint.
5 Getting Personal
He knows your birthday, and where you live, off the top of his head. Double points if he knows your dress size.
6 Thinking of You
He texts you randomly. Messages that have no purpose show that he is thinking about you, which is always a good sign.
7 Pays Attention
He listens to your compliments. Maybe he wears the shirt you like more, or he left his hair longer because you like it better like that?
8 All about You
He doesn’t notice when pretty girls walk past. While this doesn’t tend to last, it’s a good sign for now.
9 Details
When you go out, he pays an interest in where, whose going and what you’ll be wearing. He might try and make himself sound bored, but really he’s seeing if you’ll be dressing up for (hot) Tom from Marketing.
He understands your mood swings, and doesn’t hold them against you. Double marks if he brings you a hot water bottle, or chocolate.
11 Memory Game
He remembers your friend’s names, and tries to remember all the gossip you share with him.
12 Just Because
He buys you flowers, or a coffee, or anything, just because.
13 Thoughtful Gifts
He buys you a birthday present that you actually like, not just the default maltesers.
14 Complimentary
He compliments you.
15 Touchy Touchy
He’s not afraid to touch you. Whether it’s a cuddle when you’re feeling down, or just touching your hand or arms while you’re talking, he’s showing you a big sign.
16 Right by Your Side
He cancels his plans for you. Arranging after work drinks? Suddenly his meetings been rescheduled, and he’s there by your side.
17 Up for Anything
He is willing to do girly things with you. Double points if you can make him sit through Sex in the City.
18 Exposes Himself
He talks about his family. Men are fierce protectors, and he’s exposing himself to you.
19 Flying Solo
He stays single, despite Gemma from Admins advances...
20 What's His is Yours
He lets you borrow his stuff, like a stapler, or his meeting room, or his spare toothbrush...
So give him a mark out of 20, and see how high he scores. If it’s over 15, try some mild flirting to test the water. If it’s fewer than 10, try to include him in your life more, from talking at work to going to the pub. Spending time together will increase his chances to impress you!
Have you got a sure-fire way to tell if he’s into you? Please tell me!
Diana How do i know yhis man im crazy about likes me? he is a therapist and we have to wait 2 years before being aloubd to have anything to do with eachother
Jade A boy that I like friend came to the table I was sitting at and me and my friend kept laughing and smiling when he walked away I looked up and I saw him smiling and looking at me. But, when I turned around and saw the boy I like I was still smiling and when I turned around his friend looked sad
Sera_29 I dont know why I did this. Maybe because I thought someone will answer me, but it seems no one will. I know that not every one got an answer, but HELP!!!! PLESE!!!! I am desperate for an good answer, not like ago and ask him or anything. I want an answer that drives him to talk to me, without me flirting nor talking nor walking past him many times. I know guys enough to know that, if a girl who interest will not me in their mind. But a girl that not plays hard to get, but seems interest. A guy will do anything that are there to do to make her notice her. If he truly want her, and not just a playboy for him. Just remember IT IS A DIFFERENCE E BETWEEN TO PLAY HARD TO GET! AND TO SEMM NOT INTRESTED!!!!
Sera_29 I HAVE NOT DONE IT BEFORE, BUT I GAVE IT A TRY. NOONE ANSWERED ME!!!
Sera_29 PLEASE HELP ME! @layla @jesike @jessica @christy @ Sara @gracie @nikamennite @someone @cassidy @dJ @audrey
Sera_29 PLEASE HELP!!!! There is a guy who I have liked since 6 grade, I am in the beginning of 9, and he is so handsome. I have not talked to him even. He is the most popular guy in the entire grade. And all the girls have or has a crush on him. The teacher made me and him partner with another guy. We always look at each other, and when we meet each other's eye, we look away. But when we are together, we never DARe to look at each other. He is friend with everyone on Facebook and insta, but after WAY too LONG we asked to be friends. Now, in 9 grade, we don't look at each other, and I don't know if I like him. Maybe a little. And there is a new guy in my grade. He is sosial, but I have not talked to him. I am a shy person, and what a guy to make the first move. How can I make him even TALK to me. I am not popular, but I am sosial when I know the person. I NEED HELP? PLZZZZZZZ.
layla there is also a guy who will sit next to me and like he might be leaning slightly against me
layla what does it mean if a boy pulls you underwater by your ankle
layla ok so this could mean nothing but this guy I like asked me to swimming with him I went and he grabbed my ankle and pulled me under he also asked to borrow my goggles so I couldn't see anything
Jesike OMG AM GONNA FAINT this are the signs his done he texted me on sunday to hang with his friends and him and he gets jealous I don't get why he would like me am mixed and he has brown hair hazel eyes and like 2cm taller than me and 4mounths 8days older than me I know am obssessed at least know I know he his
layla @Jesike, its aight to be obsessed sometimes u just gotta role wit it
Claudine How is knowing my dress size double points??? That's something I would like to keep from him as long as possible 😰
layla @Claudine, so true lol I think its because when guys go shopping for clothes if they like you they will buy the most sexy they can find
jessica this is jessica please respond
jessica boyfriend broke up with me a month ago i was mad but know i am sad and want to date him again but i do not know if he wants to date me again wat should i do?
Jesike @jessica, hey Jessica it might be hard but start with apologizing then ask to be friends and b4 u know it your dd8ing again
Lisa So, I need some advice. There is this guy I've known for about 2 and a half years. We go to church together. We have talked almost everyday for 5 months. I am crushing on him HARD. It's like I can't go 5 minutes without thinking of him. He has invited me over to his house where we watched a movie and played some video games. He gave me his hat and I've had it for about a month. He sits beside me or near me when we go anywhere. And I have met his entire family and he is going to go watch a kind of girly movie with me and some of our friends soon. But, I am still kind of unsure about how he feels about me, even though his friends and my friends, and mutual friends say we would be cute together and have said he like me but I don't know if I should take action or wait for him to say something. Any advice is welcomed!
KC @Lisa, First of all, a guy that is open about showing you to his family and friends means that he wants this relationship to be official. But then, you can observe the people around him, what they say, to figure out more about him. Sometimes in a relationship, there are people that just forget to say those three words. There are people that are more comfortable taking actions than say something to express.
tiarra allot like a boy likes me
tiarra when boys stare at you that means that they like u
Christy Also, @gracie, from what I hear maybe it's better to talk to him. But what would I kno, I'm 15 3/4 to be exact 😂😂😊
Christy So hi, please reply. I REALLY need the help there is this guy that's been staring at me for a while now. He's said "what's up" once and has stared at me for the past 2 weeks. He's also runs track with me so it's hard to avoid him not that I want to. He's incredibly funny and actually kinda cute. He's very popular mad may or May not have a gf cause they keep breaking up. Not only that he's really nice, though he hangs out with "Mean Guys" he's really sweet. What should I do?
tiarra @Christy , he likes you allot talk to him he may ask you out
Sarah I also figured out later that him and 6 of his guy friends went out to dinner to hang out and for a while talked about me and him. I never said directly that I like him. I'm not sure what that means??
tiarra @Sarah, that's good he likes you talk to him
francevvip @Sarah, Because when a girl likes a boy, the performance will very obvious.
Sarah There is a guy I met recently at a competition. We exchanged phone numbers and have been texting since. We spent 8 hours talking last Friday and figured out around 9 pm he had an essay to finish by midnight, but he still insisted on talking to me. He doesn't text first though, so I can't figure him out.
KC @Sarah, You see, through the process of texting, you get more and more into it, but then you just don't want to take the initiative because you don't know what to say, how to start a long happy conversation. You have worries and doubts on how the other party may think.
gracie asdfghjkl PLEASE HELP I am a young girl who needs help. I am 16 to be exact, and there's this guy who has been looking at me, around like November, and we've been stealing glances at each other since then. But, recently he's stopped looking at me. Today at lunch, he was stealing a few glances but I don't know. HOW DO GUYS THINK? DO YOU KNOW WHAT IT MEANS?
Christy @gracie, the same things happening to me. Though he's been staring at me without really like stoping for certain amounts of time, he's still watching me. Tho this guy is like someone i least expected to look at me.
NikaMennite hey I don't know how this all works but I have a question...theres this guy I had dated since a week before thanks giving of last year(2014) til like a week before feb. 14th ....he called it off because I wanted to get alittle bit more serious by having him let people at work know we are dating but that bothered him...and not only that he didn't tell me he was still legally married but separated and he said he had too much to deal with and he thought he could handle a relationship..and he is 29...and at work he acts like we are still together because he stares at me all the time and when ever a guy comes around me he is always right there...so im getting like mixed signals here...what is everyones opinion on this???
KC @NikaMennite, This is a very irresponsible behavior. You may want to think about what you think of as a healthy relationship, and what are your expectations. His actions may not necessarily be out of love, but just possession, to feel like owning something, to be in power
Someone So the guy I like told me he liked me but he wants to keep it quiet for a while cause his parents want him to focus on school more than anything but sometimes he acts like he likes me and other times he acts like he just want to be friends, but he doesn't act like he likes other girls. I just don't know if he still likes me or not?
KC @Someone, Ask him right out, and ask for what you want from him, otherwise there's no need for this
Rachael I like this guy and I know he likes me too because we have been texting back and forth for a while and he told me that he liked me, but he wants to keep it quiet for a while because his parents want him to focus on school and he got out of a bad relationship a few months ago and now he sometimes acts like he likes me and sometimes he acts like he's my older brother IDK what to do
KC @Someone, Try to get to know him better. But if you've only texted and not really communicated face to face, there's a problem. It seems unreasonable, how someone is ready for a new mate after a terrible relationship and also dating doesn't necessarily affect studies. What's there to be afraid of confessing if you doing something
Cassidy Okay, there is this guy and we're friends but I feel like there is something else there. I catch him looking at me, when we talk he looks me in the eye, he always talks to me, when he's mad he talks to me about it and etc. I don't want to ask him if he likes me, but I want to know. If there is something there, I want to pursue it and not stay in the friend zone. But if there isn't then I still want to know because then I can stop liking him and making scenarios in my head. I don't want to ask him and nobody knows that I like him because I don't want him to know I like him if he doesn't like me. If anybody has any advice, please help me!
KC @Cassidy , Ask him do you like me, and if it seems that he doesn't like you back, you can just say just kidding, in a joking way so your relationship wouldn't be awkward
Lilianna This guy always glances, looks, and stares at me sometimes .o.
Dj My boyfriend says he loves me but his sister said that he is just dating me till he finds someone else! What do I do!?!??!
KC @Dj, Follow what you feel. If you have doubts for your boyfriend, you don't have to give all of yourself to him, don't be too serious. If you have doubts, then your relationship isn't stable
Audrey So there's this guy, I always catch him staring at me and I see him pretty often and my friends keep telling me that he likes me but I can't really tell. There was also this one time when he followed me twice. But the even bigger problem is, is that I don't know him. And my friends also tell me that what if he's in the same situation that I am? What if he thinks that I don't like him back? I'm also really scared to talk to him cause I'm really shy and I don't wanna get rejected by him because I have a huge crush on him. I've been asking my friends for advice and they just tell me to go up to him and go say hi but I just don't have the courage to do so. I don't know what to do! And I really, really, like him. Some of my friends know him too.
KC @Audrey, Do you have self inner contradiction or something? If the guy said that he liked you, then you should at least try it out
anon okay so i really like this boy and theres a chance he might like me but its summer break and i want to text him but im afraid he might find it weird cause we never really talked at school... what do i do???? help please!!
Hailey I just got out of realationship and we still like each other wat should I do
Jade so my friend always says" i luv u jk" and he told his friend today to tell me im hot. Im confused.. does he like me??
Jade btw im 11 turning 12 in june
Jade There is this guy and he is my friend and he always says "i luv u.. just kidding." and he told his freind to tell me tht im hot. Im confused.. Does he like me?
Jade There is this guy and he is my friend and he said one day"i love you.. just kidding" and he said to his freind to tell me that im hot. " Does he like me?... Im so confused idk..
Soha Can nyone really help me..!
amiyah1 @Soha, maybe we can work as a team it kind of scarer when u at a new school
Soha Hey!! So here's it. I'm new to the school n know just a few.. Outta them there's this guy who's my bff's really good friend n talks to her everyday... But I made a mistake being SHY, I didn't say him I or something on our very first meeting. It's been 6 months now, that I we know each other but have never said even a "hi" to each other! I like him and wanna be friends with him but afraid if that would be awkward as I've never spoken to him n suddenly going on to talk would seem creepy... Pls. Suggest me something...
sarah is a good thing to hold hands and kiss with a guy even tho he has a gf....its happend to me alot with my ex and i
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kiara there is guy i like very on but him tell me he like me but. well just saying we are nurdys,he ask me if i can help him on math work but he has a bert grade then i do.i did on of the worst thing in the world i told him i like him so .i get shy and haven't talk to him sents
shiphrah hi ok there's this guy I have ben talking to for a while and he asked me was I looking for a bf and gf relationship with him what does that mean ?
kly I really need some advice! I really REALLY like a guy, he is seventeen and i am almost sixteen. we dont see eacother often but we hang out whenever we can, he teases me a lot, and i tease back. ive never thought too much of it til this year, he asked for a bracelet i had made and he hasnt taken it off hardly for six months, i know because he wears it when photos are taken, well the last time i saw him he actually held onto my wrist/hand in a awkward sort of way. he shared study books with me, and all sorts of things. then my dad said we cant text each other. we can group chat, but he hasn't wanted to do that. i feel like this messed things up. do you think he liked me? or was it in my head? could he still like me (if he ever did.)
Katelin he will also impress me and try and make me jeolus by flirting with a girl in front of me in class!! and then he turns around and always looks at me and stops when he sees me .
Katelin omg!! i have a crush in middleschool at aae in apple valley. his name is issac bussame i soooo have a crush on him idk if he feels the same he used to never do this before but he's been sitting by my freinds at the second table right next to me and my freinds. he does this everyday. he stares at me and he will also look at me like forever. and he will make it look like hes talking with my freind but really hes satring at me. when i called him the first time his name in class he immmediatly looked at me and anwsered me. he even one day i saw him at lunch go over at my freinds table and sit and talk to them. and then it also looked like he was looking for me.
ali So me and this guy stayed afterschool one time, and after everyone left it was just us two..we were running around being silly playing games and then we ended up sitting really close to each other on my schools stage. we kissed and almost made out lol then he had to go home and left. after that we kind of acted towards each other the same we always have. I don't know if he likes me or not..he has complimented me before, I have caught him looking at me, and he told his best friend about the kiss lol. so yeah, does he like me ? or was it a heat of the moment thing ? p.s I am 16, he is 17
Beegirlay i am 14 years old and there is a kid in my class his name is vernon and i like hjim a lot but hjow do i make him like me cause i tried acting cool cause he is a very popular kid I'm my school i go to valley high school I'm in 8th and so is he i talk to him a lot and we always make each other laugh and he is kinda perverted but so am i i mean aren't we all? like shoe said jokes and stuff! i mean butj i never felt this way until i came back me and him talk every day now and he is the only reason i like school i mean really he is like the angel of heavens and i just want him to like me the same way i like him he makes me smile and giggle and i and kinda popular but not as much as he is I'm known for.. i don't know i just get along with a lot of people i guess but yeah can some one please help me!
Kalyn So there's this boy and he and I used to date and it was big deal because everyone was asking if I was dating him and then we broke up and I still don't know if he likes me he shows signs like staring teasing but he also has a gf and we are best friends he gave me a note that said I like you but I don't know if he meant it beacuse I was crying and he always tries to make me happy he stares at me all the time he gives me funny faces he does that thing with his eyebrows but I don't know if he likes me PLEASE HELP???????
Kalyn So there's this boy and he is dating someone he looks at me during classes and everything but his girlfriend and I are best friends plus I've dated him before but he stares at me and whenever I look at him he makes a funny face at me we talk a lot he always says he's gonna break up with her but he never does. He always says he doesn't like me but he always tries to get a chance to talk to me. What should I do?? How do I know if he likes me??
Grace What to do when you have a strong texting relationship with someone and then you see them at school and don't have the confidence to say hi?
jenna @Grace , I have the exact same problem! it is so frustrating! It drives me insane! Just try to put yourself in their shoes. Imagine you were really shy and you liked someone. It would be nerve racking to talk to them in person. Texting gives confidence. They probably do like you, in fact a lot since they are nervous!
Kelsey1127 That was great 10!!!!!
Girl I like this guy and all my friends says that he likes me. He always invites him to walk with him to class or just to his brother . Does he like me?
adel hi.. i have a crush to a guy. he didnt even know me and we dont have something in common.. we are in different college. i rarely meet him.. how i can make him like me?
Janea Hiya! I'm a senior in high school and I live in Texas. I have this crush on this guy in my school that called me pretty and hugs me all the time. We used to Office work together and laugh and he would try to sing me Spanish songs in English. But he called me his bestfriend, then he got transfered out of Office Work and got into a new class, but he has a girlfriend that he says he loves but hes always calling me baby and stuff. Does he like me or am I just overreacting?
jemiah He doesn't know me and I like him
Carls There's this boy at my stables where I keep my horse and we talk now and again and we have a laugh, he speaks to me on snapchat sometimes and tries to make conversation when I see him face-to-face. I like him but I aren't sure if he likes me😞
Prim So there is this boy named Luke that I like and I have known him for 5 years now and he's also my next door neighbor. I've liked him in 5th grade, not in 6th, and in 7th (now). He's in my homeroom and I always catch him looking at me. He's really popular and I used to be popular but in 6th grade I drifted away from those people. Anyways he's sort of a gentleman when he's near me and he whenever he makes the class laugh, he always looks at me (I'm guessing to see if I'm laughing or not). But a lot of other girls like him and he's pretty hot so I don't know if he likes me cause he can choose from literally any girl he wants. Can you help me figure out if he likes me or not and if he doesn't, how I can make him like me? Thanks, Prim
Prim Ok so theres this guy that I really like since 4th grade (now in 7th) and he's also my neighbor. Anyways, he's in my homeroom and he's always looking at me whenever I look at him. He's also sort of a gentleman whenever he's around me. I also always catch him staring at me at lunch. But I feel like I don't even have a chance with him cause he's really popular and I used to be popular but then i drifted away from those people and I not popular but I'm not a total geek either. We don't talk that much but we're always smiling at each other. How do I figure out if he actually likes me... Please help :) thanks Prim
Awesome Hi I like my best guy friend and I really wanna tell him but I am scared what if he breaks our friendship and doesn't like me plz tell what should I do?
Aliza Maggie just stay calm. I'm sure you'll find a great guy
Maggie So I like this guy who I know from elementary school but I don't think he likes me that way. The only thing is that he dated this one girl who looks almost he same as me. So why doesn't he like me? Its not even like she's nicer than me cuz she's not. Why do guys only ask out th mean people?!?
Grace Can you help me see what this sign ment? I was walking by a guy I like at a sports event. (I'm 13 he's 13 or 14) he's a bit taller than me and as he walked by me he kinda bent his head down to my height a little then smiled and grinned at me. You know when you can't stare at the sun? He kinda had that effect on me. I couldn't stay looking at him while he walked by. I kept looking at him for a few.short seconds then kept having to look down.But after he was passed.me I looked behind.me and he was too and we had eye contact. I smiled he grinned and I was the person to break the contact.
MedeaYCirceVolcaloid I once fell really hard for my guy friend. then I tried so hard to find out his feelings. I even got my friends to 'help'. they found out, and went to his side. I later found out that he liked me but didn't want to date me.🔽😅😪😪😓
jessica i think he likes me and i like him 2 what should i do?
sarah @jessica perry, maybe have a friend ask him out for you...
jessica there is a guy at my school and he is also my bredren other people say it looks like he likes me also he flirts with me alot but he flirts with other girls to i am not in class but in the mornings when i talk to my friend that is in his class he ask me how i am doing i need alot of help
Starie Hi guys...Well,I just moved to australia and my sister's new best friend's got a really hot brother who is 2 years older than me and we hang out once a week but we don't talk much.Yesterday as we were sitting on the couch he was playing with my hair and stuff and next week we are going on a trip together...I really like him and I think he likes me too..what should I do?
Marissa @Starie Laiho, make a move or be like you jnow we should talk more. also on the trip try and spend a lot of time together
Jubilee this article would be great, if all of the pictures actually had captions.
Kiema Gurl he def likes you!! Ask him wassup
Kiema TODAY I REALLY SAD! On top of that its raining which makes it a little sader. I think i messed up with a guy that I was talking to by telling him iam guarding my heart. I dismissed the situation after I didn't get the response i was looking for from him in regards to me telling him I've to guard my heart after that I told him i was over it and he asked me. What am i over. Seriously. So i feel like me expressing myself got me nowhere and i stop texting him. He hasn't texted me all day and either have i texted him. I figure he doesn't care about the fact of the matter of me saying I'm guarding my heart. If he did why hasn't he called or texted me!? 😩😢
Connor I need some serious help! I have liked this guy Charlie for about a year, but he is one of those guys that has never had a girlfriend and doesn't get it when someone or to be specific me is trying to show that I like him! I can use any help anyone has cause I am seriously struggling
Ham Okay so there's this one guy that came to our school in fifth grade and it was kinda like love at first sight and he came down and sat right next to me and he found out that I lived down the street so we hung out like every day. So after endless days and conversations about who we both liked and stuff, it was obvious that we both liked each other. There was already tensions between his brother and now, according to his dad, I am not supposed to see them anymore or come by their house and stuff. It was all my mom's fault but that doesn't matter but the point is I think that somewhere deep inside he still likes me. I mean I know I still like him but it's hard because now we are in eighth grade now and we hardly even see each other and we don't have any classes together and all that. But when we do see each other it's like all is right in the world. Over the summer he admitted that he liked me he said that he HAD a huge crush on me then quickly changed the subject. I don't know where to go form here and I wonder if that is a sign? I need some advise wether it is like starting conversations or what, but ah please help.
Lexi @Lexi, I forgot to add that he is very popular and many of the popular girls seem to like him. But he's not dating anyone