20 Tips on How to Tell if a Guy Likes You without Asking ...

How do you know if a guy is interested in you? Just because he hasn’t said those three little words doesn’t mean he isn’t crazy about you, but how can you tell without risking embarrassment of asking? Here are my telltale signs he likes you...

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Glances

clothing,footwear,fashion,spring,gentleman, You catch him looking at you, whatever you are doing.

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He always seems to be around when you're in the same room. He looks at you with a certain intensity in his eyes, like he's trying to figure out what you're thinking. He often smiles when you make eye contact, and he always seems to be interested in what you have to say. He may even blush when you talk to him. He may try to make physical contact with you, like brushing past you or touching your arm when he's talking to you.

He may also try to find ways to be around you, like asking to hang out with you or joining the same activities you do. He may even try to get your attention by doing things like complimenting you or making small jokes. He may also try to find out more about you by asking questions or talking about your interests.

When you're not around, he may ask your friends or family about you, or he may bring up topics that you've discussed in the past. He may also try to keep up with you on social media. He may even try to find out more about you by doing things like searching for your name online or looking you up on social media.

Jealousy?

clothing,denim,jeans,outerwear,spring, You catch a glimpse of hurt when you talk to him about a hot man you met last night, or Brad Pitt. Double score if he then talks about a hot woman.

Just Saying Hi

clothing,person,man,male,gentleman, He calls and texts you even when he is out with his friends. You know he’ll be getting grief for this, so it’s a sure sign that he likes you.

You're Invited

white,blue,clothing,footwear,snapshot, He talks about festivals or gigs he wants to go too, and waits for you to say you’ll go with him. Double points if he actually invites you, especially if they are later on in the year. Making plans with you is a big hint.

Getting Personal

clothing,leather,fashion,model,photo shoot, He knows your birthday, and where you live, off the top of his head. Double points if he knows your dress size.

Thinking of You

clothing,footwear,leather,street,boot, He texts you randomly. Messages that have no purpose show that he is thinking about you, which is always a good sign.

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When he sends those little, seemingly insignificant messages, it might just be a casual way to keep the conversation going, but it's also a hint that you're on his mind even when there's no pressing issue to talk about. It's the digital equivalent of a gentle nudge or a warm smile across the room—a subtle yet clear signal that he values your connection. Whether it's a meme that he thinks will make you laugh or a simple "how's your day?"—these small gestures indicate he cares enough to make an effort throughout his day to reach out.

Pays Attention

person,sitting,human positions,conversation,NII, He listens to your compliments. Maybe he wears the shirt you like more, or he left his hair longer because you like it better like that?

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He's not just nodding along; his focus is on you. When you share stories or opinions, you might catch him leaning in, a subtle sign of his interest. His response is more than just a polite acknowledgment—he asks follow-up questions, relates your experiences to his own, and remembers those small details you mentioned in passing. It's as if he's bookmarking parts of your conversations, eager to continue where you left off. This attentive behavior is his way of showing he values your thoughts and enjoys being your confidant.

All about You

person,clothing,red,woman,photography, He doesn’t notice when pretty girls walk past. While this doesn’t tend to last, it’s a good sign for now.

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Details

clothing,footwear,fashion,supermodel,photo shoot, When you go out, he pays an interest in where, whose going and what you’ll be wearing. He might try and make himself sound bored, but really he’s seeing if you’ll be dressing up for (hot) Tom from Marketing.

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Sweet and Understanding

fashion,hairstyle,formal wear,龜黎む, He understands your mood swings, and doesn’t hold them against you. Double marks if he brings you a hot water bottle, or chocolate.

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Memory Game

photo shoot, He remembers your friend’s names, and tries to remember all the gossip you share with him.

Just Because

spring,fashion,photo shoot,model, He buys you flowers, or a coffee, or anything, just because.

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Sometimes it isn't about a special occasion or a grand gesture. It's the little things that sparkle through the routine of daily life – when he picks up your favorite snack on the way to see you, or texts you a song that reminds him of you. These are the moments that signal something deeper; a thoughtfulness and an intuitive understanding of what brings a smile to your face. It's him being tuned in to the subtle details that make you unique, and that's a sweet sign he's truly into you.

Thoughtful Gifts

flower,flower arranging,flower bouquet,plant,floristry, He buys you a birthday present that you actually like, not just the default maltesers.

Complimentary

clothing,fashion,supermodel,model,photo shoot, He compliments you.

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When a guy is into you, he'll often find ways to compliment you, whether it's about your appearance, your intelligence, or your sense of humor. It’s his subtle way of showing that he appreciates you and pays attention to the details that make you unique. Note the sincerity in his voice; genuine compliments come from someone who truly values your qualities. And if his words make you feel special and seen, it's a signal that he’s not just being polite—he's interested.

Touchy Touchy

dress,leg,fashion,photo shoot,model, He’s not afraid to touch you. Whether it’s a cuddle when you’re feeling down, or just touching your hand or arms while you’re talking, he’s showing you a big sign.

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Physical contact is a way many express affection and connection. If he's seeking opportunities to be close to you, brushing against you in passing, or playfully poking you as part of a joke, his body language is speaking volumes. This tactile behavior indicates comfort and a desire to be nearer to you. It’s as though each touch is a wordless communication saying, “I want to be close to you,” and it can be a very telling sign of his growing interest and attraction.

Right by Your Side

wedding dress,clothing,gown,dress,bridal clothing, He cancels his plans for you. Arranging after work drinks? Suddenly his meetings been rescheduled, and he’s there by your side.

Up for Anything

clothing,person,human positions,lady,sitting, He is willing to do girly things with you. Double points if you can make him sit through Sex in the City.

Exposes Himself

hair,beauty,hairstyle,fashion,model, He talks about his family. Men are fierce protectors, and he’s exposing himself to you.

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When a man starts sharing details about his loved ones, it signifies a deep level of trust. He considers you important enough to let you into his personal circle, showing that you occupy a special place in his heart. By telling you about his parents, siblings, or even the quirkiness of his family traditions, he's bridging the gap between acquaintance and confidante. Be attentive and acknowledge this; it's his subtle way of saying you mean more to him than just casual conversation.

Flying Solo

photograph,person,woman,photography,beauty, He stays single, despite Gemma from Admins advances...

What's His is Yours

photo shoot,interaction,kiss,romance,gentleman, He lets you borrow his stuff, like a stapler, or his meeting room, or his spare toothbrush...

So give him a mark out of 20, and see how high he scores. If it’s over 15, try some mild flirting to test the water. If it’s fewer than 10, try to include him in your life more, from talking at work to going to the pub. Spending time together will increase his chances to impress you!

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Where Thoughts and Opinions Converge

So I have known a guy through the internet this year (April) and we started texting each other and chatting.. He texts me A LOT during the day and always sends the messages first. Then he started to send me hearts and mentionned that he wanted to kiss me and even said that he dreamed about it. But he already told me before that he has been liking a girl for approximately 5 years.. Then one day a good friend of his asked me if I liked him. I actually didn't know my feelings and wasn't sure. So I told her i didn't. In the beginning of all this I just liked him as a very good friend.. But now it seems like I officially have feelings for him, but it's like he started to be distant from me since that day.. Apparently he thinks that I don't like him the way he does and started to text me less. First, I'm not sure whether he really likes me or not, and what should I do about all this?

I once fell really hard for my guy friend. then I tried so hard to find out his feelings. I even got my friends to 'help'. they found out, and went to his side. I later found out that he liked me but didn't want to date me.🔽😅😪😪😓

there is this guy i know in one of my classes. lately when in class he is always around me and talking and making jokes. just today we had to run outside and it started raining. i was going the opposite direction of him but he started running with me. i started complaining because my hair was getting all wet and he tried to use his hand to help protect me from the rain. when we got inside he offered me a hug for no reason and we went on. while waiting for class to be over he came to me again and started talking and gave me another hug. i was walking down the hallway and he poked me to one class and then after the last class of the day he saw me and put his arms out for yet another hug. he ended up asking about how i was doing with my boyfriend even though i dont have one and he thought i did cuz i went with my friend to homecoming. im not sure if this means anything but i would like some help. does he like me at all?

This guy i like raps and curses a lot aroun me. I always see him looking at me out of the corner of my eye, but two problems. 1.) im friends with his sister 2.) i only see him like once a week or so. What shud i do?

I liked this guy and he liked me too. I could tell! But then all the sudden, I hear he's with someone else! But he still flirts with me and stuff. He doesn't really have that relationship with his date. So, does he really like me or should I just move on?

Hi! I'm really comfused with a guy at my church, i've known him scince last year when i started coming to this church, he stares and sometimes smiles at me right away after church is over with. The only time we ever talk is when were playing games in the youth room upstares. He's fine with talking to the other girls at church but with me, he just stares. There's a ping pong table upstares that all the youth like to around the world, whenever we play he comes and likes to stand behind me. When ever I do a spike he always shouts, " All right!!" Two months ago, my youth group and I went to the dirty dash, I was walking with my youth group leader and one of my friends to the dirty dash, when we see him and his older brother walking around trying to find the right path to the dirty dash, they decided to join us. When were walking along, he's on the other side of the group than me, but a minute later he came around and started walking right next to me like 6" away! I felt like he was happy to walk next to me (: Whenever he talks to his buddies most of the time he has his body facing me, he'll have his hands in his pockets and his feet pointing towards me, (I hear that's one guys body languages that he likes me) but if hes body isn't facing me, he'll be laghing and sometimes he would laugh and smile at me. Last year I had a dream about him doing the toe dance (strange I know) and told a couple of my friends that I thought that I could trust (little did I know) they went off right away and told his sister! I'm pretty sure she told him because that day he was smilling like really big! But here's another reason why I think she told him was because recently at youth group I started doing the toe dance in front of him and I could see him glancing at my feet (he was sitting on the ground) and streched out his leg and started doing the toe dance and looked at me to make sure I was looking. There are many other stories about us but i just picked out the ones that are at the top of me head. Please help! Does he like me?

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