10 Ways to Get a Guy ...

By Melanie

10 Ways to Get a Guy ...

Okay, so you have decided that it is time to get a guy. You are tired of spending those nights by yourself and with the girls. Sure, guys may think that girls are mysterious, but it truly is hard to read what a guy is thinking and deciphering his signals. I have 10 ways to get a guy that I would like to share with you. So, get into your best dating outfit and take notes!

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Just Be Yourself

People in nature, Photograph, White, Gown, Dress, You have thought of many things, but have you ever thought of just being yourself? This is something that I have noticed many girls ignore. Many of them try to be the type of girl they think a boy would like. You want aguy to fall in love with you for who you are, not who you aren’t. Besides, you already have a lot of experience being you!


Dress Appropraitely

Street fashion, Trench coat, Clothing, Coat, Fashion, What you wear and where you wear it says a lot about you. The key is to be comfortable and be appropriate For example, if you're going hiking, don't wear heels or really short shorts and definitely do not wear your favorite8 Best Lipsticks ... @Katie or any other form of heavy makeup. Also, wear something that suits you and that you know you can carry off. And remember there is a fine but definite line between sexy and slutty.


Be Smart, like You Really Are

Photograph, Sitting, Turquoise, Stock photography, Photography, Everyone was born with a brain. However, many do not realize that they have the power to use it. When a man has a conversation with you, they do not want to hear about town gossip. Of course, you do not have to be a doctor or anything along that line to attract a man, but try to put some thought into your conversation. I have personally found that this works great. If you are interested in sports or video games, then that is great. Just remember that you should say what you want to say and not what you think he wants to hear.


What is Your Hobby?

Vacation, Summer, Fun, Sea, Leg, Do you have something that interests you? For instance, some of my hobbies include video games, fashion designing, readingbeauty blogs, anything to do with art, ham radio, gardening and so much more. When you allow a man to see what your21 New Hobbies to Try ... @Jenniferare, you are allowing him to see that you are an interesting individual. This is also a great way to see if you have similar interests.


Do You Have Your Eyes on a Guy? Make Sure He is Not Taken!

Fur, Sitting, Long hair, Fun, Photography, Before you start doing the things and trying to get a guy, it is best to make sure he does not have a girlfriend. You may also want to make sure yourbest friend is not crushing on him. And above all, make sure he’s not married!

Famous Quotes

Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.

Bruce Lee

Common Friends Can Help

Street fashion, Fashion, Event, Dance, Fashion design, If you like a guy and the two of you have common friends, the best way to get to know him better is to ask your friend to introduce you to him. Maybe the three of you could hang out till you feel comfortable with him. Also, a common friend knows a lot about both of you and can stop you if he/she thinks you are too different to be together.
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Play Hard to Get

Footwear, Costume, Leg, Joint, Ballet dancer, I do not know what it is, but from past experience, guys dig girls that are not easy to get. Therefore, I have come to the conclusion that you should play hard to get. Don’t come off as some easy girl that any guy can have. Guys like a game of cat and mouse every once in awhile. Pretty soon, he will ask you out...trust me.


Be Nice to the Guy

Vacation, Fun, Recreation, Sea, Gesture, Of course, unless you are in kindergarten, you should be nice to him. No throwing pine cones at him on the playground, no throwing his books in the trash and laughing. Don’t pester him. After middle school, this type of flirting should have vanished. You can still flirt with him, but in a nice, grownup way.


Smile at Him

Hair, Face, Eyebrow, Hairstyle, Chin, A smile does not take much at all. Smile at the guy when he is passing by. If he smiles back at you, do not think that he is automatically interested in you. However, a warm smile on your end may be enticing to him and it may make him notice you.


Dress Nicely

Blue, Yellow, Joint, Neck, Fashion, Guys have a tendency to like girls who have a good sense of style. But don't change yourself completely just to get a guy. A little tweaking on the other hand doesn't hurt though. Apart from this, also use a great scent of perfume. Just one thing… make sure you do not overdo that perfume. You do not want to suffocate him when he walks past you.

I believe that there is someone out there for everyone, so if you are trying to get a guy, it will happen… eventually. What you need to do is have some advice and do not overdo any of these things. If you need any more advice, feel free to ask me. Or do you have some tips to share on how to get that guy?

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okay so my boyfriend never really plays much attention to me out of school he treats me more like a friend that a girlfriend.He had reacently just got out of a 5 month relationship wit his ex. And im starting to wonder if we should be together or if he got back wit his girlfriend that goes to another school . I really like him but i just dont know if theres the trust or just if we are close enough to be in a relationship :(

Just be yourself....is enough :)

I was thinking about that rule that you should never talk about other guys in front of him. How about mentioning someone just once to see how the guy you are flirting with reacts? :)

also.. don't try to get tooo close.. it might scare the guy away :S

I'll try just you get sick of waiting but i guess the wait will be worth it.