Having a crush on someone can be hard and frustrating especially when he does not even know that you exist! I think that every girl has felt this way at some point or the other. Have you felt it before? How did it turn out? Did you have any luck? Well, I would like to lend you a helping hand and give you 10 ways to get noticed by your crush...
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10. Make a Positive Impression
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In order to get noticed, it is important that you make a positive impression. Agreed that it is easy to say something to goof things up when you are nervous but try your hardest to be on your best behavior. Also, acting silly will get you noticed for sure but for all the wrong reasons. Stay away from the things that will make you look bad and shed some light on yourself. Some positive light!
9. Make Small Talk with Your Crush
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There is nothing like some small talk tobreak the ice with someone new. Make sure you put yourself in situations where you can make small talk with the one you have a crush on. When you see him or her, then make sure you speak with them. Say something like hello and ask how their day is going. You know, do that simple chit chat. It may not seem like much at the time but it is an important step in getting to know him/her better.
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8. Make Eye Contact
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Your eyes are the window to your soul. It is therefore extremely important that you make eye contact and smile while at it. Making eye contact is usually a good way to get someone’s attention and tolet him know you like him. Just remember not to stare!
7. Be Flirty, but Not Too Flirty
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It is perfectly fine to be flirty. However, it is important that you make sure you are not too flirty. Don’t go throwing yourself at the person you have a crush on and certainly do not cling onto them. You don't want him thinking you're easydo ya?
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Flirting should have a touch of subtlety; let your body language and eye contact hint at your interest rather than spelling it out loudly. A playful joke here, a warm smile there—these small gestures can pique someone's interest without overwhelming them. Keep the mystery alive as it's part of the charm. You aim to stir curiosity, not to unveil the entire plot. Remember, a little tease goes a long way and overdoing it can spoil the allure you're trying to build.
6. Become Part of Their Circle
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What do you think about becoming part of their circle? If you find it hard to become friends with him, pick someone from his circle of friends and get to know them instead. This is usually easier as you won't be as shyand will give you a better chance of getting to know the crush.
5. Let Him Know You Are Available
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Of course, it is important to let the crush know that you are available. Speak with one of your friends when he/she is in hearing distance and tell them how you do not have anyone to go to the dance with or something similar. Also, if you have common friends, make sure you tell them. The news is sure to reach him eventually especiallyif he likes you and is trying to find out!
4. Learn What He Likes
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In order to get noticed, it is important to learn what he likes and what hishobbies are. When you learn what he likes, if you like it too, then let him known that you enjoy doing it. For example, I like playing video games, I love playing Halo 3 on XBOX Live, so if I had a crush, I would invite him to play it with me. In this case, I will be inviting my husband to play it with me tonight.
3. Look Good
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It is always important that you look good. Chances are, if you look your all-time low, all the time, then your crush may not take interest in you. I'm not saying dress like someone you're not but it wouldn't hurt to make an effort. The better you look outside, the more confident you will feel on the inside. Also, look cheerful! You have no idea how much that can help.
2. Impress Your Crush
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Little things can go a long way in impressing him. I personally think this is a great way to make yourself stand out and be noticed.One way to do this is to make the first move. Most guys like a girl who can take control. Just remember to not come on too strong. Stay confident when you talk to him and pick topics that you are comfortable with. A compliment is always a great way to let him know you like something about him and it will melt his heart like silly putty.
1. Have Fun
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Of course, it is important not to forget about yourself. You should make sure you have fun. Show him that you are the fun type of girl. Go out with your friends to places you know he is at andhave fun with them. Just don't land up everywhere or you will look like a stalker.
These are 10 ways to get noticed by your crush. When you are trying to get noticed by the crush, it is important that you do not act shy. You could also ask him for his e-mail address and messenger add so that you can speak to him online. That is what I did! What about you, how do you get noticed? Do you have a problem with shyness? Tell me about it!
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mindy: I have a really big crush on my good friend, but he only like as a friend, i tryed to get over him many times but never worked, what can i do to get my crush to like me?
Kyra: A shy, but fun loving 9th grader- Hey there! Yeah... I met my crush through our favorite site, and now we're text buddies. We're close to the same age, but he doesn't know that I like him. Also, he lives in a entirely different state. What do I do?
ashley: erm im kinda shy in classs and i need help wih this guy his my ex bf we broke up last month and we still like eachoter cuz yeserday we kissed and he put his arm around me and we cuddled :) but he has girls all over him at school and it makes me feel well jealous and well convinced tht he dosnt like me but on fb he sent me a message saying he wants to get back together cuz he relised we w ere great togther so wht shall i say yes ?
MaRio: Hey :-) , I have a crush on a girl who in the same grade of mine , it is like a dream to me , but the problem is she is popular and im kind of outsider , love to be alone and that kind of stuff , and the other problem when i tried not to be outsider i didn't find words to talk , you know i talk to many people freely and there is no problem , but when i talk to her i become speechless ,even when i am chatting with her i don't have words to say , the chat always ends early , you know when i see her at my sight my heart start beating very damn fast , and i cannot think of anything i just concentrate on her , One day when i was talking to my friend she passed by and said hi ...my friend noticed my face became so yellow as if i am afraid , he asked me "why ?" i told him that i am afraid of saying a word that may hurt her feelings , and sometime i say to myself " give yourself a break how she could look or even think of you when all those people around her , these people can talk to her freely but you not , and they can see her whenever they like , i always see her at the weekend so i wait for weekends , i even have a pic of her on my phone just to stare at it when i Miss her , Guys you may find me rediculouse but after every day and night i can't accept the fact that I am going to Lose her noway , cause i am outsider , my Idea about talking to girls just to make them laugh , and respect her ..that's all but all the people who she is talking with take to her easily , and they sometime call her some undesirable speech , but she don't mind at all .....i am afraid of Losing her ...Plz Guys i wanna anybody's help =((((((
Lola: Ok so theres this boy his nmae is ****** and like we talk on he fone and hangout outside of school but then when we get in school he calls me ugly and makes fun of me i dont get it usaully on the fone and stuff he calls me adorable preety ect... i dont know what todo..and he has all the boys in my school like inder his arm and tells them not to like like me its so cinfusing helpp!
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