10 Ways to Get Noticed by Your Crush ...


10 Ways to Get Noticed by Your Crush ...
10 Ways to Get Noticed by Your Crush ...

Having a crush on someone can be hard and frustrating especially when he does not even know that you exist! I think that every girl has felt this way at some point or the other. Have you felt it before? How did it turn out? Did you have any luck? Well, I would like to lend you a helping hand and give you 10 ways to get noticed by your crush...

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Make a Positive Impression

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In order to get noticed, it is important that you make a positive impression. Agreed that it is easy to say something to goof things up when you are nervous but try your hardest to be on your best behavior. Also, acting silly will get you noticed for sure but for all the wrong reasons. Stay away from the things that will make you look bad and shed some light on yourself. Some positive light!


Make Small Talk with Your Crush

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There is nothing like some small talk tobreak the ice with someone new. Make sure you put yourself in situations where you can make small talk with the one you have a crush on. When you see him or her, then make sure you speak with them. Say something like hello and ask how their day is going. You know, do that simple chit chat. It may not seem like much at the time but it is an important step in getting to know him/her better.


Make Eye Contact

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Your eyes are the window to your soul. It is therefore extremely important that you make eye contact and smile while at it. Making eye contact is usually a good way to get someone’s attention and tolet him know you like him. Just remember not to stare!


Be Flirty, but Not Too Flirty

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It is perfectly fine to be flirty. However, it is important that you make sure you are not too flirty. Don’t go throwing yourself at the person you have a crush on and certainly do not cling onto them. You don't want him thinking you're easydo ya?


Flirting should have a touch of subtlety; let your body language and eye contact hint at your interest rather than spelling it out loudly. A playful joke here, a warm smile there—these small gestures can pique someone's interest without overwhelming them. Keep the mystery alive as it's part of the charm. You aim to stir curiosity, not to unveil the entire plot. Remember, a little tease goes a long way and overdoing it can spoil the allure you're trying to build.


Become Part of Their Circle

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What do you think about becoming part of their circle? If you find it hard to become friends with him, pick someone from his circle of friends and get to know them instead. This is usually easier as you won't be as shyand will give you a better chance of getting to know the crush.


Let Him Know You Are Available

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Of course, it is important to let the crush know that you are available. Speak with one of your friends when he/she is in hearing distance and tell them how you do not have anyone to go to the dance with or something similar. Also, if you have common friends, make sure you tell them. The news is sure to reach him eventually especiallyif he likes you and is trying to find out!


Learn What He Likes

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In order to get noticed, it is important to learn what he likes and what hishobbies are. When you learn what he likes, if you like it too, then let him known that you enjoy doing it. For example, I like playing video games, I love playing Halo 3 on XBOX Live, so if I had a crush, I would invite him to play it with me. In this case, I will be inviting my husband to play it with me tonight.


Look Good

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It is always important that you look good. Chances are, if you look your all-time low, all the time, then your crush may not take interest in you. I'm not saying dress like someone you're not but it wouldn't hurt to make an effort. The better you look outside, the more confident you will feel on the inside. Also, look cheerful! You have no idea how much that can help.


Impress Your Crush

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Little things can go a long way in impressing him. I personally think this is a great way to make yourself stand out and be noticed.One way to do this is to make the first move. Most guys like a girl who can take control. Just remember to not come on too strong. Stay confident when you talk to him and pick topics that you are comfortable with. A compliment is always a great way to let him know you like something about him and it will melt his heart like silly putty.


Have Fun

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Of course, it is important not to forget about yourself. You should make sure you have fun. Show him that you are the fun type of girl. Go out with your friends to places you know he is at andhave fun with them. Just don't land up everywhere or you will look like a stalker.

These are 10 ways to get noticed by your crush. When you are trying to get noticed by the crush, it is important that you do not act shy. You could also ask him for his e-mail address and messenger add so that you can speak to him online. That is what I did! What about you, how do you get noticed? Do you have a problem with shyness? Tell me about it!

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HEY GUYS! k so umm....i have a problem... so like, im in grade ten, and ive NEVER EVER been shy, i swear i can talk to ANYONE, but the thing is...i cannot talk to this one guy i like. LIKE WHAT IS THAT^ i dont know why, but he passes in the hallway and i look away. urgg. like, i have a suuper small class, (like 45 ppl) and i can talk to EVERY SINGLE ONE of them, exept him. like im sure he<s noticed that SOMETHING is up, cuz like, I DONT TALK TO HIM. but i just really dont know what to do. ive never had this problem before and i need help. i know everyone tells me to NOT BE SHY and stuff. but woooooow lol its harder than it looks! haha but guys, if you could help me, THAT WOULD BE SOOOOO AWESOME! (btw...i cant tell you if he likes me or not because i know for a fact that HE is suuuper shy, so that makes things harder haha) XOXO THANKS!

Thanks you guys now i feel much better :) ^_^

Hi guys, i am 10th grade. There is a boy in my class, that i really like. Sometimes when i am around he pretends to be the good one, he tells he don't smoke and tries to study hard. We sit together in some classes, and if  my knee touch his knee totally accidentally,  he doesn't mind, so i just leave my knee there and he does the same. He pays attention if i get a better grade and stuff. If i would ask sth he would take his time helping me out. Also I catch him starring at me directly. When he tells a joke, or tell sth he always look at me, straight to my eyes and smile, but the strange thing is that he looks at my eyes till I look away. Although we don't talk on facebook or twitter, phone at all. Am i just making this up, or there is a tiny bit of chance he is just shy, and thinks about me the same? Well, I think I am in love.. Oh and on the end, we always have a free class at thursdays together, so we sit together in dinning room. We play "alias" or hang out. This day is the best day on my week. I baked an apple pie yesterday because I wanted to bring it to school for him and others. And the such a fail is that he don't like apples. :(  Well anyway I would love to hear your opinion about this, and I would really appreciate it!  Elisa.*

@jesike could u plz help me with my prob? Plz....

Im a 14 yr gal stdyin in grd 9...............n i have a crush on a guy.....................tnk so he dsnt crush on me.........n ma bst frn n ma enemy also crush on him............so wat shld i do now 2 impress him?????????????????????:(

hello, so there is this guy that i used to go out with, but back when we were going out i didn't like him at the time so i broke up with him in front of everyone and i heard he was really sad. I even heard he had cried. After breaking up with him he probably hated me and that was when i realized i actually did like him. Its been about 2 years since that incident happened and all i can do is think about him and dream about him while he was off with other girls, even including some of my friends. He is leaving after this school year and I know i need to tell him how i feel about him, but how i dont want to tell him and then he says he doesnt like me. I'd be heartbroken if that happened. on the other hand though, he is leaving soon so i wouldnt have to deal with seeing him everyday. What should I do? How should i tell him i like him?

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