Have you ever asked yourself how you could get your friend fall in love with you? For many, it seems like a complicated situation and depending on the person, maybe it is. I never made my friend fall in love with me as I didn’t like any of my friends that way, so I got advice of one of my good friend who didn’t mind sharing some of her tips with me. While it’s hard to get someone to fall in love with you when the chemistry just is not there, if the chemistry is there, then these 10 tips will help you make that friend fall head over heels for you!
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10. Your Appearance
You should work on your appearance. Whether you admit this or not, men are generally interested in the way a woman looks. In fact, they almost always consider looks first when it comes to asking a woman out on a date. With this thought in mind, make sure your 6 Hottest Hairstyle Trends for 2010 ... @✨Olga has been properly kept and your 5 Tips for Whiter Teeth ... @Amanda, 5 Skin Care Tips for Each Skin Type ... @Amanda and Health: 12 Tips for Beautiful Nails @Moms' are taken care of. Get your friend fall in love with you by first starting with your appearance.
9. Learn Interpersonal Skills
If you have better interpersonal skills, people are going to naturally like you. You will need to know how to handle people in different situations. To give you an understanding, some of those skills include making others feel important, being friendly, avoiding conflicts when possible, never criticize, telling someone they are wrong without being blunt and thinking of the other person.
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By honing your ability to relate to others, you craft an aura of magnetic charm that's hard to resist. Remember to listen more than you speak—it's not just about waiting to talk, but truly hearing them. Showing genuine interest in their stories, dreams, and concerns makes them feel valued. Working on your empathy, understanding their emotions, and adapting to their needs builds a profound connection. Express your appreciation for their unique qualities and achievements; doing so can spark deeper emotions and foster an affinity that goes well beyond friendship.
8. Be a Good Listener
When the friend speaks with you, you should show them just how good of a listener you are. Give him or her your full attention as they are talking to you about something.
7. Talk about Problems
Do not talk about things that are boring. Talk to the friend about things that are going on in their life. Figure out what is bothering the other person. By doing this, the other is going to want to open up to you and that is a definite way to start.
6. Be Yourself
In order to get your friend fall in love with you, you should not try being someone else other than yourself. Yes, I know, you would like to act like a TV star, but by doing this, you are not showing your true self. How can someone fall in love with you fully if they do not see you for who you are?
5. A Sense of Humor
When it comes to certain things, it is always good to have a sense of #Humor. Watch how the other person responds when you are trying to get a smile to sweep across their face. If you are dealing with a serious matter, then do not annoy them with your efforts. However, in order to change their mood, do some flirting. You might need to improve your skills so why not, practice on any of the chat lines available online.
4. Dress Nicely
Guys and girls love it when the opposite sex dresses up nicely. It is a great idea for you to find clothes that accentuate your style and make you look great.
3. Be Someone Who is Happy
I like people who are cheerful, but not too cheerful. You should not overdo this one.
2. Do Not Play Games
The worst thing you could possibly do would be to play games with the other person’s heart. You do not want to be a friend and a lover at once, so you should choose between the two.
1. Do Not Push Yourself
You may think it is a clever idea, but pushing yourself on your friend is a big no-no, especially when it is clear that they are not into you. You will look dumb doing this very thing.
By using these 10 tips to get your friend fall in love with you, if the chemistry is there, then the he or she is going to fall in love with you. Take note that this is going to take time. This is not something that is going to happen overnight. You may look at the calendar and see that it took a total of three months. It is all about getting the other to fall in love with you. It just goes without saying that sometimes, the best is worth waiting for. What do you think? Do you think it is possible to get someone to fall in love with you? Do you have any additional tips that you would like to share with us?
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Saidie: PLEASE HELP ME . i have a crush on a boy of my class. we’re good friends and he teases me a lot . and he gave me a nickname which he thinks is really funny ;) well we have a lot of fun together . but the problem is , he flirts with a girl of my class who has a boyfriend . and his friends think that he has a crush on that girl . thats so depressing :( the situation is really confusing because one day he flirts a lot with that girl and the other we have a lots of fun and we talk a lot . and he wanted me to join the basketball training (he plays basketball a lot) altough he knows i hate playing basketball beacause i am not good at sports. well he is pretty confusing . PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME . i am desperate and don’t know what to do ;( ;( ;( ;( AND I FORGOT TO ADD THAT HE IS VERY VERY SHY!!!
Anonymous: hi thank for the tips, i already done all the 10 step, and he kinda acted little weird... but i dont know it very complicate to me...
Shashank: the girl i love the most thinks that she could be a good friend.....but i want her to fall in love wid me.....is it possible....plsss tell me ...tips or somethng.!!!!!! other prblem is she knows dat i love her.....but she dont....'cse i cant xpress it properly......!!!!help help!!!
saima: Hi! I am kinda dating my friend who consider me as his friend but i consider him my BF. when we started being friends he was trying to act like he loves me and now that i am in love with him, he says its not very easy for him to fall in love. And he will only keep me his friend. I need your help. I want him to love me more than anything.
jammie: hey i need major help cuz i like this guy and we have been friends since last year and he has had 2 girl friend since i've known him and they have both told me that he wasn't that nice to them but hes really nice to me so i don't know? and i asked him out once but he said no cuz the week before when he was my bff i told him i was emo and depressed then he said i wasn't normal and i should try to be normal but now hes saying screw normal i should just be myself. I soooo confused and need help! him and his girlfriend just broke up and i want to ask him out again but i don't know if its to soon. Plz help soon!
Saleh: Woow..! Thizz is a nice post... and i really dont need these tipz.... coz i m already in love without these tips and we r continuing thiz.... And these soo gudd tipz for otherz.. And I just love these..
Cynthia: I go to school with him people keep saying we look cute together whenever we see each other we smile we make each other laugh and next we both got accepted in the same school and he touches me & flirts but he's never admitted he likes me and I'm confused 😕 & if he doesn't like me it'll break my heart if our friend ship ends.😭
sehela: Well that is kink of help ful but i am 10 an i am already dating but the problem is that i am scared that he is going to go for my best friend but i dont really know so can i have more advise
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