20 Tips to Make a Guy Fall Absolutely in Love with You ...


20 Tips to Make a Guy Fall Absolutely in Love with You ...
20 Tips to Make a Guy Fall Absolutely in Love with You ...

Spring has sprung, and love is in the air -- so are some fantastic tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you! Whenever the weather starts getting warmer, we all start wishing we had a special someone to spend time with. Sometimes, it can be tricky to find - and get! - that great guy you've been wishing for. So, here are my top 20 tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you! It's all about confidence, being yourself and really putting yourself out there!

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Be Yourself

person, photograph, portrait photography, grass, photo shoot, All of my tips on how to make a guy fall in love with you surround being yourself. If you're fake, it doesn't matter if you get a guy to fall in love with you, because he won't really be in love with the real you. So, my first idea is to always be myself, no matter what, so a guy likes me for me. After all, you would hate to fall in love with a guy that isn't being himself right?


Being authentic is the foundation of any strong relationship. When you're genuine, it shines through and creates a deeper connection. Pretending to be someone else might attract someone initially, but it's unsustainable in the long run. Also, it's exhausting for you! Embrace your quirks, your sense of humor, and your unique way of looking at the world. Honesty in who you are is incredibly attractive and helps you find someone who appreciates the real you, not a persona. Remember, true love is about acceptance and loving each other's true selves.


Optimize Your Appearance

clothing, supermodel, blond, model, photo shoot, Whenever I'm trying to be more attractive to someone, I always optimize. Now, this doesn't mean I starve myself to look thin, buy tons of new clothes, or get a dramatic hair cut. Instead, I just try to make myself look my best. This means a cute outfit that emphasizes my best features, combed and fixed hair, a little makeup, a clean bright smile, and a spritz of light perfume. I do this for myself, so I can be confident in who I am.


When enhancing your look, focus on what feels authentic to you. Find the styles that suit your body type, the colors that compliment your skin tone, and accessories that add a touch of your personality. Don't get swayed by extreme trends; consistency is key. Grooming is also essential – ensure nails are tidy, your skin is moisturized, and your overall presentation is polished. All these little details add up and make you feel irresistible, which radiates confidence – an attractive trait in itself. Remember, the goal isn't to transform who you are, but to present the best version of yourself.



red, umbrella, flower, Guys love to talk about themselves, and they think a girl who actively listens to them is so charming. So, I always listen more than I talk when I was trying to attract a guy. Talk about yourself, current topics, news events, etc about 20% of the time, and let him control the conversation about 80% of the time. If he is attune to women, he will ask you questions too and it'll develop into a nice little back and forth conversation!


Laugh a Lot

clothing, costume, pattern, outerwear, Having a sense of humor is really important when you are trying to attract a guy. Laughing at his jokes and even knowing how to take a joke can really make a guy feel like he knows a girl instantly! If you've got a crush, laugh it up a little with him and see how he responds!


Humor is infectious and creates a connection that is undeniable. When you share a genuine chuckle or even a giggle, it breaks down walls and builds a bond that's hard to ignore. It's not just about laughing at his jokes though; being playful and bringing your own wit to the table shows him your vibrant personality. Not to mention, it's a subtle hint that life with you could be filled with laughter and joy. So, let your guard down and don't be afraid to show off your funny side—it can be incredibly appealing.


Have a Great Attitude

person, painting, photograph, photography, portrait photography, In my experience, guys like girls with cheerful, sunny dispositions. No one likes to hang out with a pessimistic, negative person. So, I always try to look on the bright side of life and be a "glass half full" person when I'm trying to catch a hot guy. People always tend to look my way more often and gravitate toward me when I've got a smile on my face! So flash those pearly whites!


Be Sweet

blond, hair, person, woman, close up, Sometimes, I can be catty... all girls can be. When I'm with my girlfriends, we'll gossip or trash some other girl for being rude or trashy, but that's not a nice way to act. And, let me just tell you, I've learned that this kind of behavior doesn't attract guys. Boys are drawn to girls who are sweet and don't gossip, so keep cattiness and snotty comments to yourself around your new guy. The occasional catty comment is okay, but keep it to a minimum!


Continuing with the sweet-as-honey approach, remember that kindness is key. Whether it's praising a friend's new dress or smiling at someone in the hallway, these little acts of kindness don't go unnoticed. Guys often take note of a girl who radiates positivity and seems approachable, not someone who's constantly involved in drama or speaking ill of others. Keep in mind that spreading sweetness and light around you can make you irresistible—it's like a beam of sunshine that everyone, especially that special someone, wants to bask in. So go ahead, compliment sincerely, and let your warm heart shine through.



human positions, sitting, painting, photo shoot, dress, Some of my friends used to think flirting was beneath them, but I'm telling you - it works. Guys just love to be showered with attention and treated like a king. So, toss your hair a little bit, throw your head back and laugh, grin a lot, and look up and him from under your eyelashes. Even those these old tricks might seem tried and true, they're tried and true because they actually work!


Remember to maintain a sense of mystery and playfulness when you flirt. It's not about being overt or overly aggressive; it's about the subtle, teasing glances and the playful touch when you pass by him. Make him feel like he's the only one in the room when you're conversing. Keeping eye contact for just a second longer than necessary can send his heart racing. Flirting is a fine art, and when done with taste and a hint of shyness, it can be incredibly impactful and make him eager for your next encounter.


Be Different

person, man, people, male, painting, Trying to be unique and different is a way I've always tried to interest guys. I don't want him to think that I'm just like all the other girls out there... instead, I want to be seen as charming, witty, and smart. So, I don't talk about all those same old topics, like school gossip. Ask him about how he feels about current events or newsworthy stories and show him you're worldy!


Dare to dive into conversations that break the mold. Discussing books, travel, and even quirky hobbies can enchant and engage. Laughter is your secret weapon; a shared joke or an amusing anecdote can create a memorable connection. Present your passions with confidence – whether it's astrology, marine biology, or street art – and illuminate the unique tapestry of interests that make you, undeniably you. Remember, it's about showcasing the kaleidoscope of your personality – letting him glimpse the spectrum of your individuality is what will truly captivate.


Be Witty

pink, man, male, portrait photography, vehicle, Everyone has a bit of charisma to them and a witty side, why not show that? I know it can be difficult sometimes, if you are around your crush, but don't get too tongue-tied and just go for it! Remember when I said that a guy likes a girl with a sense of humor? Show that side of yourself to him and be confident in who you are!


Engage in playful banter, and don't fear letting your quirky remarks slip out—it will undoubtedly catch his attention. Remember that laughter is a staple in creating a close bond, so even if you're feeling shy or nervous, let your natural wit shine through. If you're quick on your feet with a joke or a clever comeback, you'll not only entertain, but also intrigue him. Keep it light-hearted, and he'll appreciate your refreshing sense of humor. After all, laughter often paves the way to the heart.


Initiate Physical Contact

close up, hand, beauty, jewellery, Guys love physical touch, and touching someone is a quick way to develop intimacy. So, when I'm trying to attract a guy's attention, I will look for ways to bring physical touch into play. For instance, I touch his arm lightly when I'm laughing at a joke, or I'll slap him on the knee playfully if he says something funny, or I'll touch his hand while I'm explaining something.


Bring Him a Treat

toddler, woodland, child, hand, The old saying that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach isn't just an old saying for no reason- it's totally true! I always bake a little treat for a guy when I'm trying to make him fall in love with me, and then I just surprise him with it on a random day. When my husband and I were first dating, I left a bag of treats in his locker before every football game. He just loved it!


Cooking or baking for someone is a personal gesture that shows you've invested time and effort into doing something that will make them happy. Whether it's a batch of homemade cookies, a hearty lasagna, or even his favorite store-bought candy, it's the thoughtfulness that counts. Presentation matters too—wrap it up nicely or leave a sweet note to add an extra touch of care. And remember, it doesn’t have to be fancy, a simple treat can still be a grand gesture of affection.


Give Him Freedom

person, photograph, tree, man, male, When a guy's trying to determine if you're girlfriend material, he will test you a little bit. My advice at this point is to give him his freedom, and that will send him right back for more. In my experience, if any guy ever got the impression that I'd try to tie him down, he'd be gone lightning fast. So, let your guy know that you value and respect his time with his friends, playing sports, or whatever it is he does in his spare time.


Men appreciate their independence, and by showing that you're comfortable with him having his own hobbies and social life, you're demonstrating trust and a laid-back attitude that can be incredibly appealing. Encourage his personal growth and reassure him that you're not there to clip his wings but to soar alongside him. Trust me, the space you allow him will be filled with thoughts of you, as distance can indeed make the heart grow fonder. Remember, a relationship flourishes when both partners can maintain their individuality while also sharing a life together.


Let Him Call You

United Kingdom, Moscow–Washington hotline, telephone booth, city, red, When I'm trying to get a guy, I play a little hard to get. I don't call him all the time, try to track him down, or generally make myself a bother. I want him to think that I'm too busy out there having a great time to bother with him, and that he better get in touch with me quickly if he's interested in sharing any time with me! Let him do the pursuing, and he'll be much more interested in you.


Naturally, it's a balancing act; while giving him space to chase you, make sure you hint at your interest. A smile here, a subtle touch there – keep the connection alive. Don't let the game of cat and mouse become extreme. A little mystery goes a long way, but he should feel encouraged knowing his advances won't be in vain. Remember, you're aiming for an enthralling dance, not a chase that leaves him questioning if you're even on the dance floor.


Practice Mirroring Strategies

bride, woman, wedding, man, wedding dress, Okay, this seems a little creepy at first, but just hear me out. Whenever I want to impress or charm someone (not just guys, but anyone), I do a little physical mirroring. What this means is taking whatever physical action that person does, waiting about five seconds, and then copying the motion. For instance, if your guy rests his elbow on the table, wait five seconds, and then put your elbow on the table. Sounds silly, but it works! It creates a connection between me and the guy that he just can't explain.


Mirroring goes beyond just physical gestures; it's about subtly mimicking tone of voice and even breathing patterns. When done subtly and naturally, it can make the person feel more comfortable and in sync with you without them realizing why. This psychological trick is rooted in the idea that we are drawn to people who are like us. So by reflecting someone's body language, you're essentially saying "we're alike" without uttering a single word. Remember, the key is subtlety—no one wants to feel like they're being parodied or mocked.


Make Eye Contact

person, painting, portrait photography, photography, photograph, Staring deeply into someone's eyes quickly ramps up the intensity of the connection between two people. So, if I'm trying to get a guy to fall in love with me, I stare deeply into his eyes while we're talking. Now, don't look too long, or you'll appear to be a stalker... but you definitely want extended eye contact. Remember the scenes in Twilight where all the sexual tension developed between Edward and Bella just based on eye contact? That's what I'm talking about.


Eye contact is like a secret weapon for sparking romance. Timing is key, though. Hold his gaze to show you're interested, then glance away to keep him intrigued. When you lock eyes again, give a soft smile—it's like a magnetic pull for his heart. It's not just about making him feel seen; it's about creating that electrical connection. Trust me, a few seconds of meaningful eye contact can speak louder than a thousand words. Just think of it as an unspoken invitation that whispers, "I'm here, and I'm interested in you."


Don't Appear Desperate

clothing, person, model, photo shoot, hairstyle, Guys want someone that is confident and someone that is secure in themselves. Even if you aren't confident, don't worry, there are tons of ways to build it. Start small and just go from there. I know not appearing desperate is hard, but if you appear to have it all together and even play hard to guy? Your crush will like you even more!


Projecting confidence can be a real game-changer when it comes to attraction. Start by acknowledging your self-worth; remember, you're a catch! Engage with your interests and talents—this not only boosts your self-esteem but also makes you more intriguing. If the thought of playing hard to get makes you nervous, practice subtle cues like maintaining eye contact, sharing a smile, and then delicately shifting your attention elsewhere. This shows you're interested but not hanging on their every word. It’s a delicate balance, but when done right, it leaves your crush longing for just a bit more of you.


Be Trustworthy

Be Trustworthy Guys love someone they can trust. I learned the hard way that telling my girlfriends every thing about a new guy in my life wasn't the best idea. Word always gets back to the guy that I've talked about what he told me or told details about our time together, and he always bolts. So, discretion is the best policy. Don't tell your girls every little bit of your private conversations, and your guy will trust and respect you much more.


Being trustworthy also means being dependable and consistent in your actions and words. When he sees that you're a rock of confidentiality and honesty, you become irreplaceable. It's not just about secrets; it's about being a person who does what they say they will do. Whether it's showing up on time or following through on promises, these are the building blocks of trust. And when he realizes you're as reliable as you are respectful of his privacy, you'll be someone he can envision a future with. That's a sure way to deepen your connection.


Leave a Little Mystery

clothing, person, hairstyle, outerwear, When I am trying to attract a guy, I don't want to be an open book to him. I've found that guys like a little mystery... they keep coming back for more if you leave more to find out. Think of your information, history, interests, etc. like a treasure hunt... give your guy little clues, but don't let him find the treasure right away. He'll want to keep calling and asking you out just to learn more about you!


Be enigmatic and alluring by sharing snippets of your life in bite-sized stories that make him yearn to hear more. Like a good series with a compelling cliffhanger, let your conversations have a sense of continuance that entices his curiosity. Practice the art of subtle storytelling and selective sharing; it's not just what you say, but also how much you reveal that can turn simple chatter into an intriguing puzzle he's eager to solve. Remember, a touch of mystery can be irresistibly captivating.


Be Supportive of His Interests

photograph, photography, art, portrait photography, photo shoot, Guys love it when a girl takes an interest in what he likes to do. Even if you don't necessarily like what he is into (like video games or sports!), just give it a try -- that way you can have some common ground. Guys, that also means that you'll have to take an interest in your girl's interests too! A relationship is a two way street.


Discover what he's passionate about, whether it be hiking, painting, or a genre of music. Show genuine curiosity by asking him to tell you more about it, or even better, to show you how it's done. This could lead to shared experiences and memories, deepening your connection. Remember though; it's all about balance. Being supportive doesn't mean pretending to be someone you're not. Find those interests that you truly can enjoy together, and you'll both appreciate the time spent engaging with each other's hobbies.


Hold off on the Physical Intimacy

clothing, footwear, yellow, shoe, leather, My last tip has to do with physical intimacy, or making out, heavy petting , or sex. If you truly want to make a guy fall in love with you, you've got to hold out on stuff like this for as long as you can. Most guys I dated and are friends with just go after a girl for the thrill of the chase at first. It takes time for them to realize that they actually care about the girl. So, hold off on physical intimacy to give your relationship a chance to develop first. Steve Harvey has written a hilarious book that talks about this exact idea!

There you have it... my top twenty tips for getting a guy to fall madly in love with you. Hopefully, with this beautiful weather we're having, we can get out of the house, get flirting, and meet some great guys! Do you have other tried and true tips for catching that great guy? Share them below!

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