7 Signs Your Spouse is Cheating ...

Affairs are constantly causing divorce today. Affairs are stunning and the pain of one can cut you like a knife. If you choose to, you will be able to learn from the experience you go through and become an independent woman. Since I am a girl, as usual, I am going to write this from a girl's perspective. However, guys, the same can be said about husbands who are looking for signs from their wife. Below, I am going to give you 7 signs your spouse is cheating…

7 Is He Paying More Attention to Appearance?

Is your husband wearing new clothes, making sure his hair is combed and using cologne? If this is not his normal type of behavior, then this may be a big sign that he is having an affair. Look for some other clues in his actions.

6 Has He Been Picking Fights with You Lately?

This is another sign to watch for. These fights are not normal. Is he being critical of you? My friends husband would get dressed, put his shoes on and brush his teeth. This was odd, because it was at night time. Then, he would go and sit down on the couch. As she was finishing up something, he would complain that she was ignoring him, then tell her he was bored and was going to visit his friends. Then he got up and left. Later, she realized that he was picking the fight purposely so that he would have an excuse to go see his friend. Only, his friend was not really his friend, it was his lover.

5 Is He Suddenly Too Nice to You?

If he is suddenly too nice to you, then you may want to watch out. He just broguht you flowers or jewelry for no reason. Is this his normal behavior? If he is normally nice to you, then that is good. However, if he is suddenly too nice to you, then he could be trying to assuage those pangs of guilt that he has.

4 Does He Hide His Cell Phone?

This is how some divorces start. I had a friend that tried to use her husband’s cell phone. She would not give it back and he twisted her arm until she did. He knew that she would discover those calls or messages to his lover. Ask your husband if you can use his cell phone and then watch his reaction.

3 Does He Stay up Late Surfing the Web?

If he is surfing the web and every time you go to his office, he exits everything he was doing, then this is not a good sign. He could be looking at porn, having cybersex or even messaging his lover. If you know about computers, then you could easily find what your husband has been doing by looking into his browser history. There are also programs that will allow you to monitor activity on the computer and find out what is going on.

2 Does He Have a New Interest in Hanging out with the Guys?

Did your husband just start a new hobby with the guys? Are you certain that they are guys? Is he gone at certain evenings during the week? You may want to follow him or use a GPS tracker to see what he is up to. It may become obvious that the buddy is really his girlfriend, especially if he never showed an interest in hanging out with the guys before.

1 He is No Longer Interested in Having Sex

Oh no, this is not good. Did he always want to have sex in the past and then he no longer wants to have sex with you? This is a pretty big sign, especially when it is mixed with the other 6 signs that I have just given you. This is all guilty husband syndrome.

Those are 7 signs your spouse is cheating. Of course, having just one of these signs does not mean your husband is cheating. However, having all seven of these signs may be a big deal that he is cheating. Have you ever been cheated on? If so, what were some of those signs?

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Terri I get this strong feeling that my boyfriend is lieing and cheating on me.
- Heather Oh no! Have you discussed it with him?
Nikita hi Jen... dont u think u hav given ur own answer? if he cheats on u once he would probably cheat on u again..i m not saying that people dont make mistakes or that people dnt change or regret but something like this like talking to his ex or even sleeping wid someone else is simply propose fully cheating.... if sumone cant forget his past he has no right to live in the present... u just leave him and tell him to live with bloody ex and never ever interfere in ur life anymore...
Jen Hi guys. I'm in a messed up relationship. My husband was cheated on me while we were dating and this was before we got married. After 3 years I forgave him then we got married. I gave birth to my second child and found out he's been talking to one of his ex. I confront him but he lied then finally told the truth when I proved to him how I found out about his affair. He promised he would never do that again. Right now our relationship is not going well because he always lie and break his promises. I'm going nuts and I really want to leave him because he won't stop hurting me. What am I going to do guys?
- Anonymous @Jen, just go away from him or u do the same..n them make him undrstand..if he doesnt then leave him
- Nikita hi Jen… dont u think u hav given ur own answer? if he cheats on u once he would probably cheat on u again..i m not saying that people dont make mistakes or that people dnt change or regret but something like this like talking to his ex or even sleeping wid someone else is simply propose fully cheating…. if sumone cant forget his past he has no right to live in the present… u just leave him and tell him to live with bloody ex and never ever interfere in ur life anymore…
- Sheila Hey Jen, The harder answer is often the right answer. If he wont stop hurting you and he wont stop lying, give him an ultimatum and if he still wont stop, you might have to seriously consider leaving him.
Lola It's hard to just trust your gut feeling sometimes, when I think the real problem is my insecurity and jealousy and it's just all in my head. It hurts.
- Cindy Im all confused right now... 16 yrs ago back when we were dating and not married (I was pregnant too) my hubby used to come home late and not turn up home after work, anyway one time I went for a check up at the doctor and went past his friends house and his car was parked there with someone elses car, i rang his work and they told me he had gone home for the day, I waited he didnt come home till 9pm. This time around Im so sure.. He tells me he would never cheat he has even broken down crying 2x or more and when I mention it he gets pissed, Ive even taken days off work to suss him out, and just pop in while on the rd to see what hes up to, Ive developed insomnia and feel so depressed. Im not sure what to do? I love him , and I take my vows seriously, but my gut instict tells me hes at it again? I feel like crying as I write this.
- Sheila What can I say Lola. Trust is paramount in a relationship and unless he is doing/has done something to shake that trust, you should be able to trust him blindly.
Re My brother came over with an old friend that I never did anything with my boyfriend goes to store left his phone there to re l ord is and the guy was trying to hit on me but denied him the whole time but my boyfriend thinks I did so something g with him and I'd never how can I get him to believe me and he made me show him my private and stuck his finger om it how do u tOe this
- Sheila Hey Re, If your conscience is clear, it's really your boyfriend's fault if he doesn't believe you. I mean, if he doesn't have a reason to doubt you but accuses you anyway, that's just awful Trust afterall is the basis of every relationship.
misty my husband is thinking about divorceing me when ya i cheated on him three years ago nw hes starting to regreat that he forgave me and hes always thinking that ive cheated again when i havent and when smone called on his phn he goes into the room to have the conversation or goes outside to smoke and its maken me think that the reasons why he's thinking about divorceing me is couse iethere hes haven a affair or i dnt nw im really confused
Bess My first boyfriend cheated on me and while some of these signs weren't there, I noticed he couldn't keep his stories straight. When I asked him about it he got mad at me. Lesson learned, trust your gut ladies!
- Sheila Hey Bess, Instinct is often your best friend. I guess sometimes we're just so afraid of finding out the truth that we choose to ignore that little voice that is almost always right.
Meream Oh scary thought. Number 1 is scary.