Not sure if he’s a long term boyfriend? Don't know how serious your relationship is? Wonder if it's going to last? Then take a look at these clear cut signs that'll tell you if he truly is a long term boyfriend!
Snapshot Survey
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1. He Remembers the Little Things ...
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From exactly how you like your coffee to your desire to find another Raggedy Ann doll, he brings these things up in your conversations because he actually listens to everything you say. Not only is he paying attention, he’s also trying to find ways to realize your desires. That’s one of the key signs that he’s a long term boyfriend
2. He Tells You Why He Can’t Accept Cheating ...
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When you have in-depth conversations about relationships, he says a lot of things that you want to hear. It’s when he talks about loyalty, however, that you really begin to appreciate him. He refers to third parties trying to interfere in the relationship as parasites and goes on and on about how unforgivable cheating is. He makes it clear that that type of betrayal is unacceptable, which puts your mind at ease.
Frequently asked questions
It's all about the little things he does, like making future plans or introducing you to his family. When he talks about 'we' instead of 'I' in future scenarios, that's a big clue he sees you in his future!
When he genuinely listens to you, remembers details about your life, or supports your dreams, he’s showing signs he cares deeply and sees a future together.
It helps in aligning your life plans and emotions. Knowing you both are on the same page can make you feel more secure and confident in the relationship.
Absolutely! A supportive partner can boost your mental and emotional health by providing love, companionship, and reducing stress. It feels amazing to have someone reliable by your side!
Yes, sometimes actions like saying ‘I love you’ can be misleading if not backed by other long-term indicators like commitment or building a future together. It's important to see the bigger picture.
3. He’s a Family Man ...
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He’s tight with his own family and cherishes his mom in a healthy way. When it comes to weekends, he’d prefer to hang out with family, rather than party up a storm with his friends. This behavior is indicative of what he foresees in his own future. A man who loves family wants to start one of his own and there’s nothing sexier than a family man.
4. He Makes You Laugh ...
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It’s like any other night and the two of you are watching TV in the living room when all of a sudden, he makes a comment about what you’re watching that’s so funny, you spit out your wine. So when the passion starts to wane somewhat or you’re down in the dumps, this is the man you want to have by your side, making you laugh for all your days.
5. He Drops Everything when You Need Him ...
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If he’s standing atop a mountain getting set to paraglide and you call, crying, and tell him that your dog just died, he’ll hop into his car and make his way to you as quickly as he can. He’s your rock, your safety net, the one you can rely on when the chips are down. When your man becomes your sanctuary, you know you’ve hit the jackpot.
6. He Can Make You Orgasm, in Multiples ...
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You’ve been with a few guys and some were hits and some were misses, but this guy hits a grand slam every time. He’s attentive, takes his time with your body and makes you feel like you’re the sexiest woman on Earth when he makes love to you. The two of you are like a hand and a glove that fit perfectly into one another. And while some nights are gentle and sweet, others are rough and animalistic. It’s always something new when the two of you have sex.
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This guy is the ideal long-term boyfriend. He is attentive, passionate, and always willing to try something new. He takes his time to make sure that you feel special and sexy, and his love-making is always memorable. He knows how to make you orgasm, and often gives you multiple orgasms.
He is the perfect mix of tenderness and aggression, which makes every night unique and exciting. He is also very romantic and knows how to make you feel appreciated and loved. He always makes sure to do something special for you, whether it’s surprising you with a thoughtful gift or taking you on a romantic date.
He is also a great listener and is always there to lend an ear and offer advice. He is supportive and understanding, and always puts your needs first. He is also reliable and dependable, which makes him a great partner for the long-term.
He is also a great communicator, which is essential for a healthy relationship. He is open and honest about his feelings, and is always willing to talk things through. He is also a great problem-solver and always looks for ways to make things better.
7. He’s a Strong, Protective Man ...
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No matter the situation, he will never cower into a corner and wait for the trouble to pass. He protects you like a gentleman and puts you first every single time. Whether it’s a guy who’s harassing you at a bar or strong winds that seems to be pushing you to the ground, this guy always shows you that he’s got your back.
8. He’s Honest, Even when It Hurts ...
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Most guys will tell you they’re honest, but when it comes down to it, they’re just telling you what you want to hear because they want to avoid trouble. The honest guy is the one who tells you the truth even when it hurts. He’ll tell you that you’ve gained weight when you ask and he’ll be honest about the fact that he finds other women attractive. His intention is never to hurt you, but to help you understand that while the truth is not always a fantastic thing, it is a necessary thing.
9. He Prefers to Hang out with You ...
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Given the choice of hanging out with the boys, his family, with you, or even alone, he always
wants to be around you. He not only adores you as a girlfriend, but he appreciates you as a friend. You’re someone he can confide in and be himself around without worry. He trusts you wholeheartedly and enjoys your company immensely.
10. He’s Always on Your Side ...
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You could be arguing that the world is flat with everyone you know and even though he knows you’re wrong, he will never take someone else’s side in public. When you’re out together, he’s your rock and will never make you feel alone or stupid. He will, however, let you know he disagrees with you in private (see, he’s honest). But when you’re out and about, there’s nothing you could do or say that will make you wrong in his presence.
11. He Wants to Spend the Holidays with You ...
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When he tells his parents he is starting a new holiday tradition with you and your family, you know he is ready for a commitment. He is letting go of old traditions and starting new ones with you. This is a very big step for him, so be sure to take notice!
12. You Become His plus One ...
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He recently received a family member’s wedding invitation in the mail and asks you to be his plus one. This is a very big step. He is finally ready to introduce you to his extended family, even his grandma Betty, who is constantly asking him when he’s going to settle down! He could have chosen to go alone and not deal with all of the stress of everyone asking about you, but he chose to ask you to be his plus one!
13. He Gets Emotional …
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That moment when he isn’t afraid to get emotional in front of you is the moment you know he is a long term boyfriend. Even if it’s just a few tears while watching “The Notebook,” showing his softer side is a sign that he wants to show you who he is, and a sign that he wants you to see all of him.
14. He Talks about His past ...
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When a guy starts to tell you about his past and shares his secrets with you, he is opening up to you and trusts that you will keep his secrets. This is a very good sign that he is ready to become your long term and even life partner.
15. He Surprises You ...
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Men don’t like surprises and sometimes they forget things like birthdays and anniversaries. So when he surprises you with a weekend getaway, a gift of something you were looking at together, or even a day to the spa, he has really put thought into doing this special thing for you. So take note that he wants to do thoughtful things for you and is ready to make a commitment.
Is your guy ready to be your long term boyfriend? Have you picked up some of these signs lately?
Comments
Mariana: I've been missing articles about relationships, so thank you for this one! I can say my boyfriend is a long term boyfriend. We're together since 2005 and to answer your question I'll share some things following your list ;) : 10. He SOMETIMES remembers the little things; 9. He really tells me that he can't accept cheating, and that in our relationship there's only space for two; 8. Even if he doesn't feel the need to be with or call his family everyday, and if he does like to party with friends, for him the concept of family is everything and he dreams a lot about having his own family. 7. Maybe humour is not one of the best qualities I find in him, but he makes me laugh, and his laugh is amazing! 6. He's always there when I need him. 5. :) 4. He's very sensitive, yet he knows how to make me strong when I'm feeling fragile. 3. He's honest, but he sure says things just to please me when he wants something. 2. We spend a lot of time together. 1. Here I may disagree with you, because sometimes he lets me know when I'm wrong and gently tries to make me understand it. I don't feel stupid, but I grow everytime he does it: it's not good to have your boyfriend supporting you when you're saying a great mistake ;) And also we both may disagree in public, I may be with a group of people arguing that the world is flat and he may be saying that the world is square =p It's all about how you do it! Sorry about my English, I'm portuguese :)
Ross: Hi jenna,youre ex put you on a string while he was waiting signals from the other woman whether its a good sign or bad. He kept you just in case he gets \"dry spells\" and when everything goes well with the other woman,he will drop you like a hot pie. Trust me,im a guy. been there done that.
vanisha: haha aww that was cute... i know a guy that fits these :]
reema: hello there...i strongly agreed with the words shared here and i liked it a lot..anyways my man and i were not in good terms now...its been 3 weeks already..he's good, sweet, he did everything just to appreciate me, lot's of surprises and i don't have any idea what to do in return..his some kind of workaholic, seeing each other every Thursdays and the rest work but at least we spend time together..what i really don't like about him is that no matter how busy his day was, he's always present in the club.. even though we went together in the bar by thurs night he is still present following night...this attitude of him really freaking me out..i don't know how to react..now no communication at all,i saw him at the bar dancing, flirting with other girl and he keeps telling me their all just friends...and came up to my mind what am i then?!..please do advice me..
Iignaj: Everything on this list is what my boyfriend, now my fiancé is. At first he wasn't attentive, but in time, he became one. When I'm sick, he goes out of his way to make me soup and take care of me. Though he's most of the time broke, he still saves money so he can give me a good present on my bday/Xmas/anniv. He's always with me, if not, he's with his family.., I'm so blessed :)
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