Places to Meet Eligible Men become more and more scarce these days. Heck, even eligible men as they are have become a rare species. And what do we single ladies do about this? Well, my guess is it can go 2 ways - either we sit and wait for the good men to sweep us off our feet or we simply take the first step toward our destiny and check out the best places to meet eligible men to see if our future boyfriends or husbands might be there? Well, if you are like me and you are choosing the second option, let's get ready for some action and take a quick look at this fabulous list of 44 Best Places to Meet Eligible Men!
1 The Bar
This may be one of the oldest ways to meet a man, but it still works. Free flowing beer makes it easier to approach your target! However, if 'commitment' is on your mind, then look elsewhere!
2 The Market
Whether it's the shopping mall or the supermarket these places are loaded up with good looking folks. Chances are you'll find someone who lives in your neighbor and likes coffee the way you do. A bookstore is another place to meet someone with similar tastes - at least in literature!
This is the latest method of meeting single 7 Things It's Okay for Men to do ... @Melanie. There are several online dating sites where you can check out profiles and photographs. The best one I've heard of is PlentyofFish.com, because all the services there are free. But there are others like Match.com, Chemistry.com (Limited time offer - 7 Day Free Trial) or Perfectmatch.com that too seem to be pretty good, although you'll have to spend some money on membership. Online dating became a relatively safe method as you can get to know your date before you go out with him.
Church is a good place to meet men who share the same faith and moral grounding. If you're a single mom, this may be a good place to find serious 7 Things It's Okay for Men to do ... @Melanie who are looking for a life partner rather than a night out on the town.
5 The Water Cooler
If you can get past the gossip, the office is a place where romance can be sparked. Being in such close proximity with colleagues can lead to an office romance. Finding someone of the same intellectual level may be easier at the workplace than at the bar!
6 Newspapers
Check out the newspapers for announcements regarding neighborhood picnics, square dances, tours and special events. These are great places to meet new people, especially single men! Go ahead strike up a conversation. You might end up meeting your spouse.
7 College ...
If you're taking some classes at the local college this could be an opportunity to meet eligible 7 Things It's Okay for Men to do ... @Melanie. There are seminars and short courses that you can participate in. Not only can you get an education but you can find that perfect someone perhaps sitting right next to you.
Get your friends to help if you're serious about finding a man. Attend parties where there is a good mix of singles. Be friendly, outgoing and be seen! You can even throw a party yourself and tell friends to bring their friends along.
9 Gym
While you exercise your muscles you can exercise your heart as well. The gym is a great place to meet single men, specially the hot men! You'll know in advance that they value their health and you know what to expect when thir expensive suit comes off, so that's a good starting point!
10 Favorite Diner or Restaurant
Notice the guy who's having dinner by himself at the far corner table? Well, what you waiting for? Get a waiter to introduce you or do it yourself. Either way, make a move.
11 Work
Either in your office or in the accounting on the 19th floor there must be that cute, nice, good-looking guy who makes your heart tick. Figure out where exactly he works, what's his name, if he's available, and let the flirting beging! Who knows, maybe the guy in the next cubicle is the one you were looking for all this time!
I know they say that relationships that started on vacation never last, but that was way back in the 20th century! Now that air fares are getting lower and lower and Internet live video chats is the most common thing out there - why not to give a great man you met on a vacation a chance? Who knows, maybe in a couple of months you'll decide you want to live together?
13 Parks
When I say parks I mean day time, safe places downtown, where people go to get some fresh air during lunch break, after work or on weekends. For your own safety, please don't stay there after dark. But during the day, you'll be surprised at how many young good looking men spend an hour or so sitting on a bench reading, working on their laptops or just watching other people. Just sit next to the one you like the most and if he is in the mood for conversation, you'll know it!
14 Airplane
These days we spend a good couple of hours every month flying here and there. Next time you have a flight, look out for cute guys who might too be flying the same plane. And who knows, maybe your seat will be next to his!
Any party is always a fun way to meet people but with a house party, everything is so much more in your control and it's comforting to know that common friends are involved. So throw a fun little party, invite all your friends and tell them to invite their friends (preferably single). You never know who you may end up meeting and if nothing, at least they'll be grateful for the awesome party!
16 Acting Workshop
If you're not shy and love an audience, why not join an acting class. You will meet tons of taleneted, fun, outgoing men and you'll have a ready excuse to flirt with them. What? You're only playing your part! Besides, you'll figure out quite early on who you do and do not share chemistry with and the rest will be history.
17 Art Exhibits
They say that without art, the earth is just "eh". Sorry I read that somewhere today and had to share. Back to the point, art exhibits are one of the best places to meet eligible men. Whether you are an art lover or not, an exhibit will give you an opportunity and an excuse to chat with different men, get to know them, perhaps flirt a little and if the chemistry is just right, maybe you could take the party elsewhere.
18 Book Club
If you love reading, one of the best ways to meet like-minded men is through a book club. Think about it. You read, you share opinions, you find similarities, you hit it off, you fall in love...Okay, I'll stop.
19 Blood Drive
This one is definitely not for the squeamish! If you watch The Office, you've probably seen the episode where Michael runs into this pretty woman while donating blood and hits it off instantly. That could be you. Strike up a conversation with someone who's next to you or if you see a cutie by the snack table, ask him what he recommends for strength building.Who knows, you may end up deciding that dinner is the best option. And even if you don't end up meeting someone, you've at least helped save a life.
20 Rock Climbing Center
If you're adventurous, a rock climbing center is one of the best places to meet eligible men. According to a study, nearly two-thirds of wall climbers are male so imagine your chances of meeting someone wonderful and exciting. Plus rock climbing is fun with lots of scope for "accidental" touching and flirting and such. Ah I'm just a pervert sometimes.
21 Wine/Scotch Tasting
If a bar is much too loud and chaotic for your liking, how about going to a wine/scotch tasting event? It's a lot calmer, quieter and not to mention, sober. Whether you actually know your wines or feign innocence, you are bound to meet an eligible bachelor or two. Besides, it gives you plenty of time to "work the room" and figure out your options.
22 Running Club
A friend actually met his current girlfriend through a running club so if you're into outdoor sports, find a local running club, put on your shoes and get out there! Men in running shorts are so cute and if nothing else, at least you'll get back in shape.
23 Community Service
Giving back to the community is always a great thing and who knows, your karma might actually earn you an eligible man. There are plenty of places where you can volunteer so take your pick and give away. At the end of the day, you know you're going to meet someone who cares...
24 Weddings
I know that the common belief is that all single men at weddings just want to get laid but I beg to differ. Some of them are perfectly charming, pre-bride approved gentlemen that are out there looking for eligible women. You just need to give them a chance. Just don't get too drunk and you'll see what I mean.
25 Dance Class
I know you're probably wondering why dance classes are on the list of best places to meet eligible men since they usually have more women than men but it's definitely worth a shot considering you will be forced to physically interact with potential hotties. If you feel the chemistry and if the small talk is intriguing enough, hang back, get to know him better and see where it goes...
26 Laundromats
The only thing that makes the idea of laundry bearable is the possibility of meeting a cute guy and if you run into someone who fits that description, do not hesitate tochat him up. What could it hurt right?
27 Jury Duty
It may sound boring but think about this. Other bored, possibly wonderful eligible men could be out there and they have nothing to do but chat you up. Sound good? So yep, don't ignore your civic duty the next time you receive a summons in the mail.
28 Ski Resorts
You might probably need to wait till winter for this one, but hey, it's great to have a B plan if you will be looking for a hot date to take to all the Holiday parties. Knowing how to ski is not necessary, you can try and learn, but if you just go to the resort to relax or have fun with your friends, you'll be surprised at the dozens of sporty good looking eligible men having a hot drink in the bar after an exhausting day of skiing. And is there a more romantic place to find the man of your dreams than under the stars in the middle of snow covered mountains?
29 Reality Shows
If all else fails and I mean ALL else, reality shows like the Bachelorette seem like a fun way to meet a lot of men who want to make you the center of their attention. I mean, who wouldn't want that! Oh wait, this is about eligible men... I need to cut down on T.V.
30 In the Navy
One of the best places to meet eligible men is, unquestionably, the Navy. Even if you don't want to make the commitment of joining the Navy, you can make yourself available during shore leaves and Fleet Weeks. These men are brave, handsome, and generally dying to get away from all those boys!
31 Walking the Dog
Most guys love dogs, so when you're walking your pooch, you've got a great opportunity to meet one. Big dogs like Labradors and Retrievers are always a great draw, but if you have a little dog, don't worry. Many men have a secret love for the little dogs as well. If you're friendly and make eye contact (and if your dog doesn't try to mark his territory in an awkward spot), you should be golden!
32 The Hardware Store
You'll be surprised at what a great place it is to meet men. First of all, almost all the clients are men and so are the sales assistants. And being a woman, you'll find it natural to ask for help that cute stranger who will gladly explain you the difference between this and that tool. Who knows, he might ask you out for coffee to continue the conversation...
33 The Tech Store
Tech stores are men magnets. I do not know a single guy who would pass on the opportunity to come and take a look at some new weird plasma TV or sound system or whatever it is he's read about on his favorite tech blog. So take it from me, most customers in tech stores are also men, and many of them are very good looking. Now, you'll surely see a couple of married guys (of course), but you'll be surprised at the number of single guys browsing these stores. Give this one of the best places to meet eligible men a try and you won't regret it.
34 Museums
Now, I know this might sound a little cliche, but what's the best way to meet someone, when you are visiting a new city than going to a local museum. There are hundreds of single men who, just like you, want to check the museums off their lists when they travel to a new city and believe me, they'll be happy to have a conversation with a cute girl, especially when there are so many conversational pieces around. Museums are also fantastic for meeting artsy guys and foreigners, so if you are feeling adventures, this is the place to meet eligible men.
35 The Bowling Alley
I know you probably think, how old the guys in the bowling alley would be? 60? 70? But don't be so quick, I have personally seen a couple of times guys coming in in groups for a little game. And may I say, some of them were very cute.
36 The Golf Course
Ditto on this one, although golfing can be quite a bit more boring than bowling. The difference is, the course isn't so loud and crowded either, and you can really get a chance to talk to a guy. If he looks really into the game, let it pass, but if he's with some friends and they're chatting together as much as golfing, go for it!
37 Casinos
Although loud, casinos can also be great places to meet eligible men. You don't want to talk to a guy when he's right in the middle of a heavy game or anything, but if you're both playing Blackjack, if you're sitting at the slots, or one of you is throwing dice, then you can start a conversation. It'll be casual, but that can lead to other things.
38 Concerts
Concerts are a fantastic place to meet eligible men, especially if it's your favorite performer. You will instantly have an interest in common and when you are a fan of something it's so easy to bond with the other person. The connection sparks instantly, so try this place to meet eligible men and see who you meet!
39 At a Club
Now, many guys just go to clubs to hook up. A lot of them aren't necessarily looking for someone to date. However, there are exceptions to every rule, and that is the only reason nightclubs made it onto the list. You have to have an eagle eye, but if you spot this guy, you'll be glad. He likes to dance and hang out and have a good time, but he isn't the boy who's only into ranking up as many one night stands as possible.
40 The Beach
The beach is not just a great place to meet eligible men, it's a fantastic place! See, guys who go to the beach generally fall into three different categories. They go alone, and depending on what you see them doing, that probably means they're single (so if you can think up an approach, do it!). They go with a group of guy friends, and again, you can typically tell by their behavior if they're single. Or, they go with their wives or girlfriends. If you see a guy spreading lotion on someone else, just play it safe and scratch him off your list!
41 At a Cigar Bar
I don't know many girls who like cigar bars, but I know plenty of guys who do! Sure, you're going to be entering forbidden territory, but it might well be worth it. These places have tons of eligible guys, and the kicker is, most of them think any girl in a cigar bar is automatically cool!
42 A Sushi Bar
Surprisingly, more and more men start loving sushi. And nowadays, when you pop into a nice such restaurant you see more men and women. Some of them are having business dinner, others are meeting with a friend, but there are those, sitting at the bar, having dinner after work on their own - and those are you could easily sit next to and perhaps strike a conversation if you feel like it. Or he'll be the first to talk, guys are usually like that - they catch your eye and they just start talking to you.
43 The Bookstore
Meeting men at a bookstore is just tops, especially if you're a big reader. You know he shares your interests, you automatically have plenty to talk about, and since most bookstores provide little chairs and comfy couches, you already have a cozy spot to get to know one another. What could be better?
44 A Networking Event
A networking event can be dull as hell or it can be fun and interesting. To make sure it's the latter, take a friend of yours from work with you, make sure your hair's done and you are dressed nicely and you'll definitely turn a few heads. A lovely place to meet eligible men, if you ask me!
So, do you ladies know about other great places to meet eligible men? Please do share ...
MellyMoi To the writer.. You are denying yourself and the reality as with deleting a realistic comment. You cannot not hide away from what it really is..
Huma Lmao these suggestions are insane agree w @kalila ! how about get a higher education and meet a hard-working smart and commited man! And get a top-notch education yourself!
Carm U can basically meet someone anywhere
glq This is one long article
Jeanette I meet my boyfriend in a chat 2 years ago. Is weird but chats isn't bad. lol
Lani look for a man friend to hang out on week end, walk at the beach and enjoy.
Cathy Don''t just want a one night stand,lets enjoy our self...
Kalila BAHAHA! A Laundromat?!! That has to be my favourite!!! Let's all go to the Laundromat so we can all meet the guy who can't afford a washing machine :SSSSS Who thought of these?????
Rudy Wait on God or you will suffer God has the perfect guy for you try this. Pray And hand it over to him completely without doubting at all and let him know you will trust in him to do just that. But do not feel bad marriages are being attacked by satan and nothing but pain and suffering you are not missing but pain and suffering. I understand you we need to be held the physical I been 6 months after 20 yrs its is hard sad and lonely. But God has called us to live in peace for now.
Wamakai What on earth HAVE I been doing this whole time? XD Thanks for the list - very, very helpful.
i POF is mostly for hookups! Ladies beware and be wise. Don't go for just the superficial, deceiving looks. Go further more than your eyes can see. :) Plus one more important thing: make sure that you're guy is cleared from STD, Hepa B, HIV and get real. Just saying. :-p
ShreyaGarg Nice layout of the site, and yes those are some specific places, where as a women there are good chances of meeting a man, I like the fact that you have placed the free dating sites without payment as a safe and working option to meet single men, as these days it is really picking up on sites like MeetOutside as well, great for the singles I guess, they can find dates online and no money is required.
ShreyaGarg Eligible are around us in offices, while we travel for work in local trains, when we go to gyms and the like, to meet single men in your city going to sites like MeetOutside is a good idea.
Nadia I'm feel lost and lonely after my long term boyfriend said goodbye. After all I've done for him, he just said goodbye to me via imessage. He was my best friend and soul mate. Wonder what I've done wrong, but it might be because of distance.
Neena Oops mean this article is bogus.
Neena "Heck, even eligible men as they are have become a rare species." - really, comments like these, that instills fear and desperation amongst women has to stop. There are plenty of men out there - and there's someone out there for everyone. Hold your head up high, ladies and keep your self esteem in check. This post is bogus
Sonali Men are everywhere, its just we have to guess which one is right for us, otherwise to check out using conversation, there are online sites to meet single men in your area for free
XoXo 😳
Annitte Hi! I'm 46 and I haven't dated anyone who seems to be able to tell the truth! although I'm 46 I look like I'm 26.. don't want any babies i.e.. boy toys
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Naty Basically you can meet a good man anywhere haha
Vonnyj Hi, I haven't been in a relationship in 5 years. All I did was work & finish college. I've lost 75 pounds over the past 2years. I'm really ready to start dating again but I have that fear of approaching guys. Guys flirt with me but there's that fear of rejection inside of me. I used to be overweight & my self-esteem was very low until I lost the weight. Any suggestions on how to get back on the market & meet the right guy?
Vonnyj Maybe at a hardware store on a Friday after work.
Shanerra I guess some people have had success, but the online dating is not for me. I\'ve encountered more flings than solid relationships.
Daniela The club one is so risky, but with some luck you CAN find someone amazing in a club! That's where I met my current bf and I think he could be the one :)
Shirley I met my present boyfriend online and 2 previous online being in your 40's busy life working and kids it's hard to meet someone, be careful and use it to suit you I found it great to have an online chat in the evening sitting on the sofa on my own and would totally recommend it through my experience and some of my friends
Jeanette Not secure for me the mens at the bar!! lol
Nomsa I am a single 36yr young lady with 2 kids. I am beautiful, sexy, strong, independant with a great job. I feel invisible to men, i dont understand it as I never thought I would reach this age unmarried. I feel like a failure as all my friends ae married. Im tired of being home alone with my kids and watching them grow till one day they leave me and im all alone. i have been dating a very abusive man for 6yrs who told me he hates me for being beautiful. I just want to meet a normal guy who will marry me and i always say, he will be the happiest man ever.. is this too much to ask for as people say to me, you gorgeous with well mannered kids and a great job and all... what do you need a man for... I NEED A MAN FOR COMPANIONSHIP AND FRIENDSHIP...
Taurus I've been single for 1 year now. As I was planning my Gfriends surprise birthday (tickets for dirty dancing musical+a romantic hotel) she finished with me. Thought i'd met the woman for life I loved that she was cleve+funny. We got on so great. I never cheated on her. While she seems to have met somebody ( very close to when she broke up with me) I cried for a long time. Right now I'd love to meet a woman to laugh with and go out with and get married to; but i'm holding back for fear of being stung again so badly. Us Taurus', we look tough and act it too sometimes, bur we are gentle giants.
Rudy @Taurus, Excuse me for this but I cannot keep this to myself as God says to share his word and let people know his statutes. Astrology is spiritism and that is a detestable thing to God he does not take that lightly stay away from that it is a deadly sin it sends you to hell. Repent ask for forgiveness and do not turn to that. Reason is the 3 astrologers looking for Christ when he was born were led by that star to find him so they could go tell king Herod and he was going to kill him but God intervened and told the astrologers not to go report and they did not. satan put that star he has that power.
Emily My aunt met her now husband when she called him about a dog walking service. Dog walking is definitely a great way to meet guys!
Gigi I usually look for love in all the wrong places.. 8yrs ago i found what i thought was the perfect man. Now, i know he cares for me but doesnt want to marry me ..when i asked he said never. Hurt my feelings like you couldnt believe. Im a good woman, honest, caring and i work hard. Ive been there for him through thick and thin, health wise but im not worth marrying? All i can say now is wow and kick rocks!
Denise Hey Gigi. That must have really hurt... but I hope you're doing well these days. No need to waste your time on someone who doesn't see your worth or who doesn't want the same things as you.
hammy i just broke up with my fiance.we have been together for over 3 years and i forgot how to date again....! any idea?
Heather Hi Hammy! I would start out slow. You don't ever want to just jump into another relationship, instead, feel the guy out. :)
Tess Hobby shop and sporting goods stores are neglected on the list. Also the local race track or auto events. Horse and dog races too but you may find a gambler
Nilda @franko, Hi have you met your special woman yet? Don't stop looking there are still many good women left. I hope it won't be as hard as wining the lotto! I have been there too, married twice to men who turned out to be uncaring.
Karen I started to read the articles looking for ideas as to where the good guys are. Dating sites do not work. It's an online "meat market" just as bad as a bar. You have a date you think it went well and they lie or disappear. Profiles are a bunch of bull. Want to play games ... Go on POF or zoosk or match for that matter. I don't know why these guys think they are so great. Some make online dating a career
Heather That's so true. I think if you take up a hobby, that's the best way to meet a guy. For example, going to a painting class, who knows who you can meet!
L I have not met a professional, decent, caring man anywhere lately. I suppose it costs too much to even buy a cup of coffee for a woman these days. What ever happened to romance?
Heather Hi L! I don't think that romance is dead, I just think that a lot of people forget about it. :)
Melissa Where I have met men: Outdoor Swimming Pool Beach: similar to above, I think the sun & swimwear must make people feel flirty. Club/bar: I have met numerous men in clubs, but generally they haven't lead to dates because I could tell after meeting them or sending txt messages that they only after want one thing. College & University: I used to meet more men when I studied, now that I work I don't seem to have as many men approaching me. Waitressing: This job seems to make men want to approach you even when you are wearing an unattractive uniform.
ali I am sorry about that ,,,, i am the same ,,,, looking for a good man ,
Hannah How am I supposed to send you links when your fb is gone... Here's what I was talking about last night ;) (via Twitter)
shakira dis was how i meet my bf....n now with problems n all...he just went MIA...lol!
Me The best way to meet a man is to not be desperately trying too meet a man. We can smell it on you, and it's a huge put off.
Heather So true!
Lisa From Lisa- Just be yourself,,,dont try too hard & if you open your heart to it..you would be surprised how things just happen,,,no matter where you are...the grocery store...on line at a bank or in a bookstore...or having dinner with freinds or a happy hour...Things happen when they are meant to...i do not believe people should be on a mission to meet a man...it only sends out the wrong vibe & men pick up on it... just do the things you like with your freinds or family & when the times right..he will appear.,,Most importantly..don't push it..if its meant it will be...
Fatima @Lisa Thanks for the advice so needed this! ☺
Denise Thank you for joining the discussion, Lisa!
anonymous honestly i think church is the best place.. because there are some hot guys at my church
Rudy @anonymous, Do not fool yourself a woman from my prayer group took ex to file false accusations of domestic violence on me and she was the abuser I refused to file charges and she went 2 days later and accused me of demonic things but I threw everything out and they still gave her house custody and everything and me 3yrs restraining order no contact. God says when he come he will stop and clean his house first why do you think because there wolves in the midst disguised as lambs. He also says that the first now to enter the kingdom of God will be last to enter.
Heather Totally true! Thanks for the addition anon!!
Anonamous I am a 28 year old woman, just recently broke up with someone after 8 months, I ve had numerous relationships, but this last one was the hardest to figure out by a long shot, he had very close relationship with his sister which put my nose out of joint cos most of the things he should have been doing with me he did with her instead. What didnt help was he lived with her and was very reluctant about having me round when she was there so therefore I only saw him friday/saturday nites most of the time or during college hollidays, at these times she would be at their mums. He then told me after we d been together 5 or 6 months he would go to Canada for 2 months in the summer if he hadnt found a job as he had family willing to put him up, I was really upset as he didnt ask me what I thought bout it or care bout being away from me for that long. I had a descusion about all this with him but he couldnt see my point and didnt seem to care so I split up with him shortly atfer and he has gone to canada...... By the way, I forgot to mention that a couple of weeks before telling me bout canada, he took me to spain, told me he loved me and said if I ever left him he d be really hurt! I can tell you he almost seemed glad when I finished it! What the hell was all that about?........
Sheila Hey! Yikes! He sounds really confused and the relationship he shared with his sister...definitely inappropriate. I think you should be glad that it's over because I only see it getting messier with time. We all get into one of those "wtf" relationships at some point. This sounds like it was yours. I hope you can move on with a positive attitude and give love another chance! X Thanks for stopping by AWS :)