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10 Tips on How to Tell Your Boyfriend You Want to Have Sex ...

By Melanie

Any relationship could stay on the friendship basis forever. However, at some point, the togetherness could become more than friends. During this time, sexual feelings start to enter into it. Have you been thinking a lot about having sex with your boyfriend? How to tell your boyfriend you want to have sex can be tough, if you are a shy person and you do not know how to tell them. It would be tough if you did not have the tips that I am about to give you! Honestly, it was not hard at all to tell my boyfriend that I was ready, but that was because I was open with him and truly in love. Continue below on the 10 tips on how to tell your boyfriend you want to have sex.

10 How Long Have You Been in the Relationship?

First of all, you need to consider how long you have been in the relationship. Do you honestly care about him and love him? Are you going to regret this decision later on? If you are completely ready, then continue forward.

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9 Talk about Sex in General

With the next conversation with your boyfriend, you should talk about sex in general. This means talking about friends having sex, celebrities having sex and get his opinion on it. This conversation will make that question seem less out of the blue and could create a specific opportunity for you to ask him in a way that will not be awkward.

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8 Do Not Force the Issue

When you are too pushy on the guy, this can be rude. If the other is not interested, then you will need to wait until they are ready. If you are too pushy on the situation, it could make you look like a nympho.

7 Give the Other Respect

If it starts to feel weird to the boy and he asks you to stop, then you should follow up on this request in order to make them feel comfortable with you.

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6 Heavily Flirting

There is nothing more clear to a guy than heavy flirting. Teasing him and driving him wild is definitely going to lead to sex if it is something that he wants. Heavy flirting is a definite sign that you would like to have sex with the boy.

5 You Should Both Be Honest and Open with Each Other

The both of you should be honest and open with each other. You should have also had some intimate approaches, including making out, hugging, kissing, etc. This way, he is not going to be caught off guard.

4 Send Him a Hint

There are some ways that you can send him a hint without actually coming out and speaking the words. When you are alone and know that no one will be around for awhile, try making out with him and taking things further.

3 Speak with Him Online

Sometimes, I have a problem getting my true feelings out. However, when I am online and talking to someone on messenger, my true feelings can easily be typed. If you are too embarrassed to do it in front of him, then you can ask him online. This way, he will not see you when you blush or he cannot see your face when he says no. If he says yes, then the two of you can talk about that first time together.

2 Show Him You Love Him

It is a good idea to show him that you love and care about him. Tell him just how much you care about him.

1 Just Come out and Ask

If everything else seems to fail, then just tell him that you would like to have sex. This is easier than beating around the bush and hoping that he will take the hint. Guys can be a bit dense at times and may think you are just sending wrong signals.

If you are under the age of 18, make sure it is legal for the two of you to have sex in your state. The laws vary from place to place. In Canada, it is legal to have sex at 16. However, in the USA, the age of consent is generally higher. How to tell your boyfriend you want to have sex can be easy if you are truly in love and sure about it. You may want to read another one of my blog posts about the pros and cons of teen sex. Did you have a hard time telling your boyfriend that you would like to have sex with him? With me, things just happened and it was very easy.

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