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10 New Things to Try in Bed ...

By Melanie

Who said that a datewas only about a dinner for two, then a quick shag when the night ends? Have some fun with your partner! It is about celebrating your love afterall. Let those hearts and sparks surface over your bed. Are you looking for something new to try in bed? How about these 10 new things?...

10 Dinner for Two

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I am not talking about just any dinner for two! I am talking about making yourselves. Nothing sexier than the two of you in your birthday suit, cranking up the stove. I guarantee the stove will not be the only thing getting hot in the kitchen! If you want to take things further, cook up some dessert that can be put on the body. What are you waiting for? Look up a recipe NOW!

9 Box of Treats Baby!

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This is a great way to get your sexy back. Get a cute box and wrap it up in red paper and then tie it with a ribbon. Place lots of toys that have been wrapped individually. Be inventive and include a long wide piece of satin (for the eyes), a thinner long piece (for the hands). Another thinner, long piece (for the feet). Include a feather with a certain task, such as “tickle me” and some bondage tape with another task. I could go on but you get the point ;) Unwrap them one by one and come up with innovative ways to use them.

8 I Love You Notes

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Try posting some I love you notes everywhere including your body. This is perfect for guys, because they do not have lingerie. Make a trail of love notes that lead your partner to the bedroom. Stick the final post on you or somwhere close. You can have post it’s such as “slip into this,” “eat this chocolate” or some naughty actions. Let your imagination run wild ;)

7 Dress to Impress!

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Girls, it is important that you dress to impress. Even if you do not do it any other day of the year, do it on your datenight! Guys love to see their partner dressed up in lace and satin and other luxurious fabrics. For an added visual pleasure, try wearing some gorgeous shoeswith it.

6 Leave a Note on Your Bed

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How about whisking your partner away to a secret location. Leave your partner a note on the bed. The note should point to a specific location and a certain time. Perhaps leave something behind, such as a sexy black thong to make the wait even more suspenseful and full of sexual tension. Make sure you tell him how to dress for the occasion! This works perfectly if you have booked a hotel or have some other romantic date planned.

5 Turn the Lights on!

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Have you ever had sex with the lights on? Why is it that many have to turn the lights out before they have sex? I like it with the lights on! And it doesn't have to be blaringly bright. Try candles! Tons of them! They're bright enough to be able to see your partner and dim enough to cover areas of your body that you're not comfortable with!

4 Playing Horsey

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Men love it when their girl puts on a sexy costume and pretends to be someone else. My tip for your hot date? Buy a cowgirl outfit and dress up for that special occasion. Perhaps a denim skirt, over the knee boots, stockings and a sexy black bra. Your partner is definitely going to enjoy watching a cowgirl do what she does best! Need I say more?

3 Seduction

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Take the lead. Set up in a comfortable area with candlelight and lots of cushions. Straddle your partner so that the both of you are face to face. Undress your partner slowly while you are kissingand whispering sweet nothings into his ear. Leave the underpants on! This makes things last longer. Blindfold your partner and tie satin ribbons around the hands. I’ll leave the rest to your imagination…

2 Sex Games

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Have you taken a look at all of the sex games that are lingering around today? There are many great games. One is called Nookii, which is mischievous, but very very sexy nonetheless. You also have Twister bed covers. Seriously, get in the mood for games and take your pick!

1 Break out with the BOOK

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You do know what book I am talking about, right? You know, the book that is full of sexual positions that you can try. There are so many out there. Perhaps once you and your partner get into this, you won’t only be trying new positions in your bed!

Those are my 10 new things to try in bed with your partner. Well, some of them may not actually take place in your bed, but trust me, they will end up leading to your bed! What do you do in bed to spice things up? Please, share your tricks!

Top Photo Credit: Paula AnDDrade

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