7 Ideas on How to Dump a Guy Nicely ...

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7 Ideas on How to Dump a Guy Nicely ...
7 Ideas on How to Dump a Guy Nicely ...

Ok, so you know it’s over, but you haven’t told him yet. Do yourself a favor and get it over with. There’s no point playing ‘girlfriend’ if your heart is in the wrong place. So how do you break off nicely? Here goes…

Meet him

Don’t break the news to him over the phone. Not only it is rude but he’s always going to wonder about what went wrong. Give him a chance to hear it from you directly. Email and SMS is even worse. Invite him home or go for a walk together. Either way, sit him down and explain how you feel. Be honest!

Answer why?

Most men are intelligent. He will want some kind of an explanation. Don’t just say ‘It’s off’ and walk away. This was the guy you fell in love with once. So be kind to him and explain why things didn’t work out for you. You owe him some kind of explanation especially if you’ve been together for a while.

Blame yourself

It’s easier and kinder to blame yourself for the break. You could say ‘It’s me, I’m just not ready for somebody as nice as you’ or something to that effect. Don’t lay all the blame on him or you’ll soon be having a fight rather than a conversation.
Let him think
Once you’ve told him, don’t expect an answer immediately. If he’s in love with you this will probably be breaking his heart. So respect that and let him be. Don’t shower him with questions or a hundred ‘I’m so sorry’s'. He will need a few minutes to let it sink in. Give him that time to think about what’s happened.

Let him talk

He may want to explain things especially if he did something wrong. Hear him out but don’t have that ‘Oh, I wish I had known’ look on your face. If your mind is really made up then let him now this is the end of the road. Avoid getting trapped into the loop again. A firm yet gentle ‘no’ is the best for both of you.
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Just friends?**

That’s great if he wants it that way. But make sure you tell him how you want to keep the relationship. If a clean break is what you want, be clear that he understands that. If you want to go on as friends, but he doesn’t, then respect that and move on. Don’t sob uncontrollably on his shoulder as you’re the one breaking up with him! Remember?

Don’t hold on

Let him go. If he wants to leave, then let him. Don’t keep pulling him back into conversation. He probably just needs a good drink and some sleep!

Make sure you leave the relationship where it belongs, in the past!

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"Let him go. If he wants to leave, then let him. Don’t keep pulling him back into conversation. He probably just needs a good drink and some sleep!" yeah right...

what if it is a distance relationship, and we cant really meet at the time that i want to break up with him. how do i do it nicely through other means other than talking in person.

Hi....I was wondering if you could give me some advice. I've been going out with a guy for about three months now. I like him, he makes me happy, and we're great together. I recently found out that he's bisexual. I have nothing against that or him. It's not fair for me judge him based on who he is. He hardly ever calls me, we never hang out, I barely see him outside of school, and I rarely get the chance to just sit down and talk to him. He's either always busy or he's at his mom's house and she absolutely hates me. For what reason, I don't know. That's just what he tells me. I don't know whether to break up with him or not. I like him, but I never see him. What's the point of dating someone if you can never be around them? It's like being single, except your tied down. I don't like the fact that he's sexually attracted to guys while he's dating me. His best friend is a guy, I'm pretty sure and he's fallen for him before. My friends all say that he cares about me, but he never shows it. I suppose he could be a little shy in that area. What should I do?

Hi I'm I have been crying over my boyfriend I gave a second chance to he broke with me for the one he love for five years but they were always off and on is there away I could send him a message saying she I breaking up with him that don't seem fake I need help

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