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Ash is right. The best thing to do is ask.

i have this guy who is very close to many guys and he cant even get rid to one of his friend who is known to get paid for service.. you know, gays are everywhere and some guys are being wise and abuse guys who are paying for just a sex activity.. But Ive read lately that once a guy had sex with the same sex, he falls to bisexual curious type. And then, there are times and most of the times, my guy and this guy are fond of joking around about gays things. They even tease each other to be gays and i just dont undersatnd and it made me think of something hidden issue between them. There are some instances too that makes me realizes he spends more time withhin guy friends. But the only thing and really make it a dilemma for me is that, he is very active in bed with me. And I can make HIS hard in seconds too but who really knows?. I can be cover up too like what every other girls are thinking.

To the person above me... I had a good friend that said he was homophobic also.. and alot of the same things you mentioned. I found out a few days later he was dating my best friend :/ It probably varies from person to person, but why don't you just ask him?

Ok so I've known this guy for about 8 years. We used to date in undergrad and we both needed to grow up so it didn't work out. But we always kept in touch flirting here and there. Recently he reached out to me and we talk a great deal since his last relationship failed. He told me it didn't work b/c there were red flags: arguing disrespectful, blah blah. He told me that he doesn't like to date a lot of women where he lives because he has a fairly high profile career and doesn't want to be seen as a playboy. Now, I have a very close guy friend who came out after we left undergrad. He mentioned to me that he thinks the guy I want to get with may be gay. He said he never heard anything and never saw anything questionable years ago or now but he is suspicous. He said I should observe him closely and maybe just ask. I'm so confused because I've always had such a strong attraction to this guy. But I'm wondering if I should trust my friends instinct. What to do?

I think my boyfriend is gay! He has never had too many girl friends and has said that he feels like he is closer to girls like friend wise and as far as clothes and stuff he seems straight but he did say something about a near gay experince but said he didn't do anything what should I think?

I need some help here. I've been dating a guy for about three months now and our relationship has been perfect. He told me that he's in love with me and we've talked about moving in together. He's talked before about how he wants to get married and have kids. Both of our past relationships ended around the same time, so it was like we found each other at the perfect time. Anyways, when I first met him, he introduced himself and has sort of a high voice, so I wondered if he was gay. He has had previous girlfriends and says he was in love with his most recent ex girlfriend and that he was absolutely devastated when she broke up with him. He has had many sexual partners, all female. He said that after his ex girlfriend broke up with him, he didn't care if he broke girls hearts, he just wanted to play the game. He and his friends joke about being gay all the time, and sometimes will even say he is gay, although it always seems like he is joking. Sometimes he even calls me gay as a joke. There aren't any other signs that would make me think that he might be gay besides his sort-of high voice and always joking around with his guy friends about being gay. He cares about his body and loves to work out to make himself look good, but doesn't dress in a way that would come off as gay: usually a t-shirt and jeans. He doesn't primp excessively or gel his hair up or anything like that. We have great sex, he does things to me without me having to ask him to and always tells me how much he loves me and is super romantic. But I just can't help but wonder, because he jokes about it with his friends so much, if he actually could be gay. Is there anything I should be worried about, or am I just being neurotic?