i'm gay. but nothing in this list applies to me, i relate to nothing listed here. i don't do any of those things. whoever came up with this list obviously fell for the false "stereotype" of what it is to be gay. 3 thumbs down on that checklist. the questions are irrelevant.

heyy.. iv been in such a difficult situation and sort of the same as what some of the girls on here have also said.. i was with my boyfriend for just over 2 years, complicated at times and on and off, as we couldnt bare the fact for being seperated from each other.. but yeah about 7 months ago, he had told me he was gay… completely crushed me? but at the same time confused me a lot, as he did not show any sign of being gay at all. i cant help but still have feelings for him as he has been my first love and first of everything and he says same for me? thats why it had been so hard for him to just walk away ... anywhooz, .. as this was a surprise to a lot of the people he is close to, especially me, could this possibly be just a phase..? we have such strong feelings for each other, but can't seem to get this issue resolved..

So I'm a straight girl. I know this guy, he's so gorgeous (think of Lucas Grabeel non-HSM) bright bue eyes, blond hair. He prefers to dress nicely. He cares about his hair, showers, gels it up and stuff. We played baseball one day and he changed shoes to play. What do I do?

hi sheila, this is victoria.. i asked an advice from you few weeks ago. i've got a news, its confirmed, he is bisexual. i opened his facebook without him knowing it ofcourse, i saw several messages from gays from the past, he also had a relationship with a gay. i confronted him yesterday, he told me that it was already his past and that he loves me. i told him that i love him so much that i will accept it but i am afraid in the future. i am confuse, i love him soo much, but im scared he might be tempted again and still have an affair with gays. i saw one of those who left a message to him, one was already with a wife and another with a gf, though my bf's reply to them were just pure civil and without any flirt or whatsoever. still im so afraid, can you give some advice please. its possible he might get tempted even if he loves me right? what should i do?