First of all, I understand that surviving high school can be veryhard, especially when it comes to those relationships. Don’t let anyone tell you that they are only schoolyard relationships. Sure, they may not always be serious, but for those of you that do get into serious relationships in high school, you should know that they will actually leave an impression on your life, whether they last or not.
So, are you a girl and you are in need of tips on how to make a guy like you? Then you came to the right place! Of course, you will never be able to “make” a guy like you, it is either there or not there.
However, there are some things that you can do that will open up those eyes and let them see the “true” you. Girls, since there is no magical wand that we can wave around, we have to take the hard route. However, I have decided to cheat just a tinsy winsy bit…
I decided to turn to one of my favorite guy friends who made it through those high school relationships. Take note that he was a super nova when he was in high school (lol). Anyways, I got him to personally give me 12 insider tips on how to make a guy like you. He said that those girls who used these technics on him, captured his attention every time… So here we go:
12. Get His Attention
In order to get a guy to like you, he has to first notice you. You need to try to get his attention first. If he looks past you each time, then just speak to him. Say “hi” and send him a smile. May be even a little “wink” before you walk away. When you walk away, he will be standing there wondering if that was a wink. He may think of it and try to figure out what that “wink” meant.
11. Get Closer
A good way to get him to notice you would be to join clubs that you know he attends, but make sure you enjoy those clubs as well. That way, he will see that the both of you have something in common. Don’t sign up for something that you do not like though, cause this should be something both of you enjoy, so that you could show how fun and smart you are all in one…
10. Wave at Him
When he waves back at you, then that means that he has noticed you. Don’t expect any guy to notice you, it does not always work this way. (I did this a lot. At first, you feel like a fool, but when you get that waive, you will feel special).
9. Flirt!
Girls, break out with that innocent look and flirt with him. Be playful, but do it in a friendly way. Just do not go overboard with it. Try looking at him until he looks at you. When he looks back at you, look away from him. THEN look at him again. (Yes, this is definitely some good flirting advice and I have personally used it more than once… In fact, this is how I met my husband! Actually, I met my husband by talking to my makeup – it’s a long story and I am focusing on you right now…)
8. Be There for Him
Let the guy know that you are there for him. You can find some way to let him know that you want to talk to him. Sometimes, texting works.
7. Play
Give him a note when you are in the halls or in class, think of something fun.
6. Use Internet
Ask him for his Instant Messenger address. Sometimes, talking online is the best route to take.
flirting is as far as i go and only if he’s flirting with me first lol… im not one to come onto anyone : / if something is gonna happen.. it WILL happen without me doing all of that :]
Vanisha,
These tips are really quite subtle and I bet they’d work! Coming on to anyone too strongly is obviously a no no. But you have to put a little bit of an effort to make him notice you me thinks…
But what if he plays football? I can’t really try out for the football team.
Amely,
That’s not the only way to make him like you. Like the post suggests, get him to notice you…smile, wave, befriend him all of that and I’m sure it will work out :)
i have a big problem the guy i like has a girlfriend what should i do??? n i realllyyyy like himm! :(
Janeth,
It’s simple. If he has a girlfriend, back off. You don’t want to be “that girl” no matter how much you like him. You’ll have your shot if they break up. If they don’t, it was never meant to be….
I think the number one way to get a man to like you is to flat out ask him out. There have been a few girls that I just completely wrote off. Thought they would never be interested in ME. It wasn’t until they made the first move that I even realized there was potential there. Sometimes the signals are too subtle and go right over our heads. And I understand being nervous, but unlike guys, girls are even cuter when they’re nervous.
Jordan,
“girls are even cuter when they’re nervous” Aww that’s sweet. Hopefully this advice should give our readers the guts to go and ask out whoever they like. Thanks a ton :)
These are good tips, but my motto is to always be your self.
When I like a guy, if I never talked to him I just keep walking in front of him, for exapmple we’re in a disco and I pass several times to the toilet or for a drink. When I see him look at me it means that he noticed me, than I find my surviving exsuse. I go for a lighter so he can match my cigarette.
It may be a very regular and easy way which it is but for me it always works. And Even if you’re saying, ” and if he doesn’t smoke?” Well girls if surely he like you he will as for one and bring it to you.
Times changed alot and nowadays girls are approching boys and it’s no shame. Its perfectly normal for girls to court boys. I myself tried loads of times and at least maybe there will be a bit of shame but if you’re really nuts about this person once you approach him and things go well you surely forgot the shame for doing your first move with him!!
Xannyy,
Times have absolutely changed. My grlfriends do it all the time. I still have to work up the guts because I’m generally a shy person but I’ll get there :)
Good Luck with that Sheila,
You can do it don’t worry ;)
Go Girl!
Thanks Xannyyy :)
i love this guy and i say hi to him evryday but imm too shy to talk to himm helpp me i dnt evn knoo wt to say !!i love himmm
Hey Ola,
Have you read this post?
http://allwomenstalk.com/ten-ways-to-get-a-guy-to-ask-you-out/?preview=true&preview_id=47373&preview_nonce=f2fb2e1b09
That should help you! Good luck hun :)
Ola,
You should boost more your self confidence and try to make your first move. I always say one thing: If maybe I make the courage to ask him out and he says no, I would still be the way I am and if he says yes you gain alot.
Maybe you can even enquire him email adress and chat with him on msn. Maybe that way you cans send him some messages on how you like him indirectly ;)
Good luck Ola.
Remember always, by trying once you’re going to succeed!
Hey,
I really like this guy. The problem is that he is in the year above me, and I hardly know him! I know this sounds crazy and stuff, and my friends don’t understand, but it’s just the guy that takes everything inside me and chucks it out so I’m left with NOTHING..(in a good way:P)
But the problem is I’m really shy and I’m not as outgoing to try all these tips. He is also not very popular so that i don’t even know his name from that!
It’s really odd.. but I can’t seem to get away from this guy.. help?
Thaankss. x
C. Charles,
Wow! You almost sound like a poet there :) And it DOES sound crazy but I guess that’s what crushes do to us. Atleast you’re not proclaiming that you love him so there’s some hope left :p No but in all seriousness, does he even know that you exist? Because if he doesn’t get out there and make him notice you. Dress your best and the next time you see him smile! You’re not too shy to say hi I hope. Pretty soon, I’m sure you guys will become friends. Oh and if you haven’t already go read this post: http://allwomenstalk.com/ten-ways-to-get-a-guy-to-ask-you-out/
Xannyy,
So true! I mean what’s the worst that can happen. He’s probably going to say no and that’s no big deal! It probably wouldn’t have worked out anyway. You move on. So does he. End of story.
Yes you’re right Sheila.
I always say that if something don’t go my way maybe it wasn’t meant to be!
Some guys aren’t even worth your tryings but to know that, you’ve got to show some signs and maybe even make your first move.
Come on guys this is 2009!
C.Charles > What Sheila told you is a good advise I would only add that of at least you smile and he smiles back make up some courage and as him his name. Even if it turns out you don’t like each other, it would maybe mean a beginning of a new friendship :) And you would have gained something for sure!!
Good Luck
Thanks Dudes.
Thats really helpful and you have given me a lot of self confidence(i hope. :P). Yeah. he does know i exist but i dont know him THAT well. ive said hi and thats just about it. But like i said he isnt that popular and only has a couple of friends, so it will be easy to talk to him alone.
Thanks guys xx