12 Insider Tips on How to Make a Guy Like You …

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12 Insider Tips on How to Make a Guy Like You ...

First of all, I understand that surviving high school can be veryhard, especially when it comes to those relationships. Don’t let anyone tell you that they are only schoolyard relationships. Sure, they may not always be serious, but for those of you that do get into serious relationships in high school, you should know that they will actually leave an impression on your life, whether they last or not.

So, are you a girl and you are in need of tips on how to make a guy like you?  Then you came to the right place!  Of course, you will never be able to “make” a guy like you, it is either there or not there.

However, there are some things that you can do that will open up those eyes and let them see the “true” you.  Girls, since there is no magical wand that we can wave around, we have to take the hard route. However, I have decided to cheat just a tinsy winsy bit…

I decided to turn to one of my favorite guy friends who made it through those high school relationships. Take note that he was a super nova when he was in high school (lol).  Anyways, I got him to personally give me 12 insider tips on how to make a guy like you. He said that those girls who used these technics on him, captured his attention every time…  So here we go:

12. Get His Attention

In order to get a guy to like you, he has to first notice you. You need to try to get his attention first. If he looks past you each time, then just speak to him. Say “hi” and send him a smile. May be even a little “wink” before you walk away. When you walk away, he will be standing there wondering if that was a wink. He may think of it and try to figure out what that “wink” meant.

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  1. December 20, 2011 at 3:47 am Permalink
    Jessie says:
    I’m a freshman in high school too. I have a crush on the cutest guy ever and I think he likes me back. We talk and laugh and have a really good time together. Problem? ... See more My friend recently decided to crush on him too. Even though she knows I’m head over heels for him. Last time we were all together she gave him a big hug and was trying to get his attention every way possible. So mad. So depressed. Help me!
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    • April 26, 2012 at 4:29 pm
      Porter says:
      @Jessie, Im A Freshman To And I Let Something Like That Ruin My Previose Relationship So Try To Cool Down If He Really Likes You He Will Under Stand That You Friend Is Trying ... See more To Be In Ur “Relationship” But Just Keep Your Head Up And Always Keep Yur Options Open :)
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    • May 8, 2012 at 4:02 am
      Anonymous says:
      @Jessie, Ask him out. It doesn’t matter if you’re a girl but you might as well ask him now before she gets him.
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    • January 5, 2012 at 3:38 pm
      Anonymous says:
      O GOD that is sooooo annoying. Well i think you should just be yourself around him and enjoy freshman year!! Its not like hes moving. You dnt need to be his gf right away. Be ... See more friends first then act. Your friend will not get him by hugging him…. dont worry. Thats just stupid….. where has this world come to? good luck, i hope this helps!
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  2. September 19, 2011 at 11:48 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    SO i like this guy but he two years younger and im 17. he says im cute and is soooo sweet and kind and just a good kid but i dont know if i should ... See more be safe and play the big sis role to him or do what i really want and go for it and flirt… this might destroy our little relationship friendship whatever and do i really wna risk that.. help
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    • September 20, 2011 at 2:40 am
      Denise says:

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    • April 26, 2012 at 7:02 pm
      taylor says:
      try to get him to like you its better than no one if it dose rewin your littel relashen ship apolegs and tell him what you were doing
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  3. September 15, 2011 at 10:09 pm Permalink
    cassy says:
    hi, theres a guy i like and i dont think he likes me, and im to shy to talk to him, how shouldni start a conversation with him? Im really akward too…
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    • September 21, 2011 at 12:10 am
      Anonymous says:
      same here id been crushin on this guy for a year then i found out he was going to be on my track team. just say hi and talk a bit (also asking to borrow ... See more a pen makes guys like you more dont ask why)
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    • April 26, 2012 at 6:53 pm
      taylor says:
      @cassy say hi then try to find stuf in comen
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  4. April 26, 2012 at 4:35 pm Permalink
    Porter says:
    So I Kinda Slowly Falling For This Guy And Im Worried He Wont Like Me So Im Slowly Trying To Get Closer To Him :))
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    • April 26, 2012 at 4:36 pm
      Porter says:
      How Do I Get His More Attintion??
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  5. April 5, 2012 at 1:31 am Permalink
    Tyson says:
    Hey I’m a guy right so we don’t care if your shy or what ever just tell us how u feel about us
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    • April 26, 2012 at 6:54 pm
      taylor says:
      @Tyson, ya but your not the guy we like
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    • April 5, 2012 at 2:32 am
      Denise says:
      Awwww… that is so sweet, Tyson. Thanks for taking time to let girls here know.

      We hope to hear from you again!
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  6. January 20, 2012 at 9:42 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Hey I’m in 10th grade and the guy i like is in 11th. We have only one class together and sit on opposite sides of the room. We will flirt one day and not even ... See more talk the next. In the morning when I get to school we stand together and talk. I think he likes me but I’m not sure. What should I do? How do i get him to ask me out?
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    • April 26, 2012 at 6:58 pm
      taylor says:
      stare at him in class and when he looks at you look at the teacher let him catch you a copel times it works
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  7. September 13, 2011 at 9:02 pm Permalink
    Jessi Valentine says:
    hi there’s a guy i like and hes always with his friends and i see him a lot around school but never have enough courage to walk up to him and chit-chat. he also has ... See more a girl friend so i dont want to be one of those girls that is a big flirt. what should i do? how can i spark up a good conversation to get him to notice me?
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    • September 17, 2011 at 7:21 am
      Anonymous says:
      What i would do is just talk to him if you bump into him and start a conversation or be like omg im so sorry and if you see him at lunch just happen to ... See more sit next to him or close to him and try flirting with him a little bit and maybe hell notice you hope this helped!! ;)
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    • April 26, 2012 at 7:05 pm
      taylor says:
      @Jessi Valentine, just say hi and intorduce your self and if they breck up then you can flirt
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  8. September 3, 2011 at 9:11 am Permalink
    Hailey says:
    So this guy that I really like told me he likes me to and junk. But he hasn’t asked me out yet and I really like him a lot but for some reason I dnt really believe him??
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    • September 3, 2011 at 9:19 am
      Denise says:
      Hello Hailey. Why don’t you believe him?
      Hope to hear from you again.
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  9. September 2, 2011 at 10:36 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    so i was dating this guy and hes a senior and im the freshman and it was great til his mom flipped bc i was too young. so were still flirtin and cant be together.so ... See more he starts messsing with other girls that hurt him when ik hes still intrested in me. how do i get him to realize he shouldnt care what his mom says bc we were happy
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    • September 2, 2011 at 11:05 pm
      Sheila says:
      Hi there,
      I think that’s a little selfish of you. Obviously his mom has her concerns and I think he should take that into consideration and if he’s already flirting with other girls, I think ... See more it’s him you should be worried about, not his mother!
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  10. September 2, 2011 at 8:43 pm Permalink
    May says:
    Hoping to get some advice! I’m almost 15 now and I’ve never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone, and I’m starting a new school soon. I definitely want to get a boyfriend but I become ... See more a nervous and a bit shy whenever someone I like is near me (I’m getting a bit better at this now), I almost had my first kiss a few months ago but I pulled away and barely spoke to the guy again, I always only get so far with someone then ruin it at the last minute. How can I impress some of the new guys I’ll be meeting at my new school so one will hopefully ask me out (or make it so I know they like me so I can take charge and ask them out)
    thanks :) x
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    • September 3, 2011 at 10:18 am
      Denise says:
      Hello May. You really don’t need to go out of your way to impress people. You want them to like you for who you are. Just be yourself, introduce yourself to people, and socialize at ... See more your new school. If someone likes you, you will surely find out. And if you like someone, then you have a choice to let them know.

      Thanks for stopping by the site!
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  11. September 1, 2011 at 2:26 pm Permalink
    Clueless says:
    Hi, so I have a problem: whenever I like a guy I have a tendacy to always keep it a secret, no matter how much I like him. I’m just afraid of him finding out! ... See more I don’t know how to talk to guys and I’ve never gone out with a guy I’ve liked so far. I really have no clue on how to flirt. School starts soon and I would really appreciate some tips on how to flirt.
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  12. August 30, 2011 at 11:54 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Hi, there is this guy and he is really nice and cute but i only met him once through a friend because i dont have any classes with him. When i told my friend that ... See more i thought he was cute she told me i should friend him on facebook so i did and he accepted, but i dont know what to do next. please help :/
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    • September 1, 2011 at 12:58 am
      Denise says:
      Hello. Chat with him or comment on his posts. You can also ask your friend to invite him to events you’re attending. That way, you can spend more time with him. Are you willing to ... See more ask him out? If so, do it!

      Thanks for stopping by AWS.
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  13. August 30, 2011 at 12:09 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    hello, im not really righting about me here its for my friend and i really mean that its not like “its about a frien” but really about me its legit bout my friend. shes ... See more in a relationship with a guy and hes got like anger probs i mean he would NEVER hit her, but he gets mad at her alot, but then they say there in love which is cute but it bugs me caue he tells her who she can and cannnot talk to, and gets mad at her for some of her friends. but she wont telll him off or anything so shes always apolgising, and saying sorry to him and everything but then she feels bad about herself, for what she did, but she really didnt do anything. but idk like iv talked to her and she wont listen to me so i need help on what to tell her like i cant turn around saying i dont like your bf cause she will eat my head of, but i cant sit down and let him treat her this way and shes always sucking up to him cause i feel bad about it :s help?? (:
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    • August 30, 2011 at 9:31 pm
      Denise says:
      Hello. Before anything else, let me just say that you are such a good person for looking out for your friend! Her boyfriend seems to be a possessive, insecure, and controlling person. And to be ... See more honest, your friend won’t see that until it’s too late. It’s hard to show someone the reality of things when they have rose-colored glasses on. For now, just continue to be her friend; look out for her. Remind her of her value as a person. Remind her to stop apologizing for being herself. Don’t let her do anything stupid for that guy. I don’t know what else you can do. Sometimes, people see what they want to see.

      Thanks for dropping by!
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  14. August 30, 2011 at 12:02 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    kso heey (: i have/had idk wuts going on but this guy use to like me i think but when hes with his friends he treats me like crap! but when were on our own ... See more hes kinda nice and hes even admitted to liking me and everythig but shud i like him cause of the way he treats me? cause it makes me feel bad when hes infront of his friends? :$ BUT i also really like him….i think idk im confused :s
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    • August 30, 2011 at 10:48 pm
      Denise says:
      Hey there. Welcome to All Women Stalk!

      First, I think that you should talk to him about his behavior. Give him a chance to change. But if some time passes and he still makes ... See more you feel bad, then maybe you need to walk away. Don’t stay if you don’t like the way he’s treating you. If he really likes you as he says he does, then he will come around.
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  15. August 29, 2011 at 1:04 am Permalink
    Morgan says:
    Hey, so last year I dated this guy. He was totally perfect in a band on the hivhschool football team plays guitar and he sings. I could not believe he’d asked me out concidering I’m ... See more so ordinary and there’s plenty of extraordinary girls at my school. Well after about 18 weeks I guess all the talking got to him (anytime we were together people would ask why he was with me they couldn’t understand but neither could I so really it was an unhealthy relationship but I love him) anyways he finally did break up with me and its been a year now and I have dated others so has he but I cannot get him off my mind. We share the same friends so it doesnn. Help that we are always together. I have pretty low self esteem and being with him almost made it worse. Well he started texting me this summer. Should I get excited? Help!? I think I fall way to fast and I don’t know how not to!
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    • August 29, 2011 at 7:25 am
      Sheila says:
      Hi Morgan,
      You definitely need to hold your horses sweetie. It’s okay even if you are excited on the inside. Just don’t let him see that. All I can say is take it slow, really ... See more really slow so you wont get hurt again. And play a little hard to get. It never hurt ;)
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  16. August 28, 2011 at 3:34 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    hey i realy need some help!! im going in to tenth grade and i’ve never had a guy tell me he likes me or ask me out! i always feel really sad because all my ... See more friends either have/had boyfriends excpet me! and school is starting soon and i really want this year to be different!! i always get nervous so i act really awkward around guys and i have trouble finding a guy i really like! help please!
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    • August 29, 2011 at 4:11 pm
      Sheila says:
      Hi there,
      You need to cut yourself some slack sweetie. Some girls are just better and faster at these things but we all get there eventually. The more you work yourself up over it, the ... See more worse it’ll get. So look at it as a positive experience and don’t put much pressure on yourself. Someday youll look back at this and laugh :)
      Thanks for stopping by!
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  17. May 14, 2012 at 7:46 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Hey. So I’ve liked the same guy for about a year now. We are close friends, but sometimes he pulls away from me and seems mad at me for no reason. I really like him ... See more and I first got interested because I thought he liked me. Now I’m not so sure if he likes me because he has had a girlfriend since then. I want to tell him because its hard not to be around him and watch him with other girls. But, if he doesn’t like me back, I don’t want to ruin our friendship. He is very shy and I don’t want to risk anything. He is 2 years younger than me (I’m 15) and he will be coming to my high school as a freshman next year (I will be a junior). Any advice on what to do?
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  18. April 22, 2012 at 6:45 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Me and my crush talk all the time In school and I don’t know If I should tell him that I like him
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  19. April 17, 2012 at 9:57 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Hi, so I really like this guy and we sit next to each other in class and talk alot.. But outside of class we never talk and he I catch him looking over at me ... See more all the time and he always smiles and if I go outside to read he always goes to..I wanna tell him how I feel but I’m afraid..
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    • April 18, 2012 at 11:11 am
      Denise says:
      Hi there. Thanks for joining us on All Women Stalk!

      Why don’t you ease into it, hun? Try talking to him outside of class first. Then maybe see if he wants to hang out ... See more outside of school. And when you’re finally feeling brave and confident, you can tell him how you feel.
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  20. April 7, 2012 at 11:51 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Hi I really really like this guy, but he is a grade ahead of me. I am in 7th grade and he’s in 8th. School is about to end in 3 months and I have ... See more been trying to talk to him. I know a few of his friends but I don’t really know them well and they don’t know him well either. We have the same elective but he has it a class before me. I had a few methods for him to notice me and he knows that I exist. I tried to carry on a conversation by complimenting him but before I could day anything he just said “thanks” and walked away. Please help me! I just want to at least become friend and have his phone number and every thing. How could I talk go him! And I see him passing by in the hallways a lot btw. HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!
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  21. April 2, 2012 at 12:05 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    see i usually ram the guy tht i like to get his attention. and guess what??! he is now my bf!
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    • April 2, 2012 at 2:53 am
      Denise says:
      Hi there. By ram you mean bump into him really hard?

      I hope to hear from you again!
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  22. April 2, 2012 at 12:04 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    if u walk up to the guy u like and try to tlk to him but hes never met u before, hell think ur a freak. it doesnt work tht way honey
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    • April 2, 2012 at 2:55 am
      Denise says:
      Hey there. That’s why you introduce yourself first. Some people might think you’re a freak, but there will be others who will think you’re brave and incredibly gutsy. There are people who like those qualities ... See more in a girl. You just have to take a chance sometimes.

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us!
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  23. March 31, 2012 at 12:09 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Hi I really really like this guy, but he is a grade ahead of me. I am in 7th grade and he’s in 8th. School is about to end in 3 months and I have ... See more been trying to talk to him. I know a few of his friends but I don’t really know them well and they don’t know him well either. We have the same elective but he has it a class before me. I had a few methods for him to notice me and he knows that I exist. I tried to carry on a conversation by complimenting him but before I could day anything he just said “thanks” and walked away. Please help me! I just want to at least become friend and have his phone number and every thing. How could I talk go him! And I see him passing by in the hallways a lot btw. HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    • April 1, 2012 at 1:56 pm
      Sunshine says:
      ok, so i use to like this guy and we got to be pretty good friends, good enough to carry on a decent conversation, for like 2 years. i didint want to ask him ... See more out beacuse i was shy and afraid he would say no, but our friends kept pushing me to ask him out so i did. it ended up just making everything all aqwerd and now he wont talk to me really. i think it is beacuse he dose not like me like that, but dose not want to hurt my feelings, or he is shy (which he is not). so i think the guy you like is the same. ps. could you leave some advice for me please, im a few comments down. thanks!
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  24. March 25, 2012 at 7:19 pm Permalink
    Virginia says:
    Hey I like this guy and we are both in 9th grade. I have liked him for a long time and i dont know if he likes me. We talk sometimes at school but not ... See more a lot…i sometimes catch him staring at me. He is in a few of my classes but i always see him hanging out with his other friends who i dont really know and i always feel awkward…what do i do to get him to talk with me more?
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    • March 31, 2012 at 3:30 pm
      Anonymous says:
      Try to become friends with his friends so it is less awkward. And try to talk to him about anything really. Who knows, maybe the conversation could drag on for a long time. But don’t ... See more talk to him too much because guys need their space too. If seems uninterested, it is either because he is shy or he does not like you back. Hope this helps and good luck!
      ps. Could you give me some advice too? My question is right on top of yours
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  25. March 17, 2012 at 3:19 pm Permalink
    Sunshine says:
    Hey, I REALLY like this guy who is a sophmore (im a freshman). and I think he likes me back, but it might just be me. we dont have any classes together but we talk ... See more and hang out during lunck almost every day. also, our classes after lunch is in the same direction so we walk together and then we hug before we go to class but he will pick me up and keep walking like five feet (i love it!). we were bolth in wesrling (season ended) and so on the way to class we will pretend to wrestle. also someone asked yesterday if we were going out, and we just looked at eachother for like 2 seconds, then said no at the same time. it was weird. i asked him if he wanted to come over and he said yes, but the next day he said he could not beacuse he was leaving that weekend to see family in seattle and he had to help out with cleaning the house before they left. :( please help me. dose he like me? should i ask him out? thanks!
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    • April 2, 2012 at 9:18 pm
      Anonymous says:
      He totally likes you! If people think that you guys are going out then you guys are probably meant to be. Most guys think that it is weird when they hug a girl but the ... See more guy you like does not mind And that is a good sign! Try to make sure that he likes you for sure so it won’t be awkward or anything in case you ask him out.
      Thanks for giving me some advice btw :)
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  26. March 13, 2012 at 11:30 pm Permalink
    Hanan says:
    So, I like this senior guy, and I’m a freshman. I only have one class with him every day, and lately I’ve only just started getting up the courage to sorta talk to him (whether ... See more over facebook or in person) I really like this guy and I’m not gonna lie, it kinda scares me that in 10 weeks, the seniors graduate and I might lose him. My friends all say I should talk to him and even in the class I share with him (which is choir) I’ve always got people literally poking me until I’m edging in his direction. I’m not the boldest girl on the planet, but I am never shy in front of my friends, just in front of him. It’s hard to talk to him during class because we’re always practicing or he’s off playing card games or hackysack. Plus he’s always surrounded by people, which….doesnt help with the whole confidence thing. Any advice?
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  27. March 13, 2012 at 5:33 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    What if, say, you’re a freshman girl, and you like a senior guy who you only have one class with. It’s the only time you see him at all besides sometimes talking to him on facebook. What then?
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    • March 14, 2012 at 4:35 am
      Denise says:
      Hi there. You could try making plans with him to hang out.

      Keep visiting All Women Stalk!
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  28. February 16, 2012 at 11:14 pm Permalink
    anonymous says:
    So I like I this Guy trying to get his attention and we talk a little here an there. I just want him to talk to me already. I can’t really tell if he’s interested? ... See more Im starting to think he isn’t. We dnt have eachother number. I try an flirt a little. Idk what works
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  29. February 13, 2012 at 2:04 am Permalink
    Anonymously says:
    Their is this guy I danced win almost the hole time at a dance. We don’t really talk that often,, and we didn’t slow dance together, but we had a really good time. I don’t ... See more have his number,, but I dream that he will do something for valentines day (even though it wont happen) but he is so adorable, what should I do to get him to talk to me more?
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  30. February 6, 2012 at 11:29 pm Permalink
    caine says:
    okay am a guy and am readin this to learn about both sexes and how the feel about date takeing a girls veiw is alot differnt from ours when i like a girl i look ... See more at her in the eyes to make that moment happen if it does not then i look at other things is she smilein at me does she like what am wear am i her type what is her type but it bigs me when am talkin to a girl i like and then other guy trys some thing if you like who your talkin to then the steps up top can show it…caine cyrus
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