There is often a fine line between flirting and coming across as annoying, at least that’s been my experience. I’ve seen women practically throw themselves into the lap of a guy they think is extremely good looking. Some guys might be flattered by this type of behavior, but most aren’t looking for a meaningful relationship with women who act in this manner. If you want him to realize you exist and want to get his attention in a respectable fashion, then take a look at the list below. Here are 7 flirting tips to make him notice you.
7. Be Mindful of Your Appearance
It’s important to not only look nice, but to also carry yourself with pride. You don’t have to be loud and obnoxious to get a guy to notice you. Dress smart and be confident in your actions. Having good posture never hurts either. This also helps you to feel better about yourself too. Most guys notice a nicely dressed female who holds her head up high with confidence.
6. Lavish Him with Compliments
What guy is going to ignore a compliment? People in general enjoy receiving compliments, even a subtle one. I’m sure you’ll stand out in his mind if you start offering a plethora of praise to boost his ego. Try to flatter him with words that are true though, don’t fill him up with false admiration.
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5. Smile Whenever He Looks at You
Whenever you catch his eye, don’t forget to smile. The smile will let him know you acknowledge his gaze and welcome it. There’s so much that can be said with a smile and most guys take even the smallest grin as a signal that you are interested.
4. Invite Him to Dance
There’s no rule that says a woman can’t ask a man to dance. I think most guys would be flattered by a woman asking for a dance instead of vice versus. This would be a quick way to get to know the guy you are interested in, at least a little bit.
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3. Lean in Close and Ask Him a Question
You might freak him out if you lean in close and don’t say anything at all. Maybe. If you are worried about this happening then think of a question to ask him before you lean in closer. Try to come up with a legitimate query, so it won’t seem like you are just asking random questions so you can get close to him.
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2. Touch His Hand or Arm
If you have a reason to get his attention, try making contact with his arm or hand when you do so. This tactic will cause him to take notice of you more quickly than if you simply speak to him from afar or smile when he looks at you. There’s something about making physical contact that causes a person to become more aware of the person they are connecting with.
1. Make Strong Eye Contact when You Speak with Him
Combining good eye contact with touching and leaning in close will not only make him notice you, but this combo of flirtatious behavior will definitely show him you are interested too. If he doesn’t get the hint from this behavior, then he must be blind!
Maybe you can successfully use some of these 7 flirting tips to make him notice you. What techniques have you used in the past that have gotten a guy’s attention?
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Rileigh: well, I really like this guy I met at a dance. I was at the dance and my friend started messing with him. not knowing that she knew him i played along. we only talked once and that was just cause we needed to find my friend. Since then she told me what he was like and how he was just like me. I had no intrest in him untill she told me that, but it turns out he likes my friend but she has no intrest in him. One day i told her i liked him and she told him! after that we started looking at eachother at lunch the only time i get to see him we had wierd akward eye-contact. One day i declared i did not like him but, that same day i caught him growing more intrested in me. He looks at me all the time and i have noticed he has moved closer to me. Wich then i started liking him again. Now i have no clue what to do. I WOULD TALK TO HIM BUT IM VERY SHY! PLEASE GIVE ADVICE.
Kristopher: I would say these would surely work. Now that I think about a girl at work is doing most of these to me :P
So-In-Love: Ok, so I am completely head over heels for this amazing guy in one of my classes. We hardly ever sit together, but we know each other from orientation week and chat every once in a while about homework and things that don't really matter. I REALLY like him. Like to the point where I feel like a stalker. But I just want to hang out and get to know him better. What can I say? We're very friendly with each other, and whenever he see's me he puts on the most amazing smile...
Rileigh: thank you so much. I will try your advice, and see if I really truly like him, again thank you so much.
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