There are many ways to get a guy hard, some obvious and others subtle. Knowing how to turn on your man is important; you’ve got to keep a lot of tricks hidden up your sleeves to keep the spark alive between the two of you. Everyone knows the obvious ways to arouse a man, so today I’m going to focus on the subtle points. These are just some of the less obvious ways to get a guy hard, so take a look and tell me what you think!
1. Blow in His Ear
The ears are an erogenous zone on men and women, so blowing in his ear is an excellent way to get a guy hard. It’s subtle but thrilling, a maneuver that’s sure to send shivers down his spine. You can add in some nips and nibbles if you want, because those are sure to sizzle his libido that much more!
2. Tempting Texts
Text messages are a common means of flirtation these days – as is “sexting,” which is like the new, improved edition of cyber sex. Everyone knows that there are circumstances where you should never do this, but when you want to make your man wild, it’s perfectly acceptable. A well time, scintillating text message will do wonders for his arousal.
3. Nibble His Neck
The neck, like the ears, is an enormous erogenous zone. Giving your man attention in this area will definitely capture his attention. Don’t start out biting and sucking, though. While things might progress to that point (if you’re both into it, of course), it’s better to start out subtle and teasing. Make use of your lips and tongue, but save the teeth for later.
4. Touch Yourself
One almost sure-fire way to get a guy hard doesn’t even involve touching him. Many guys go wild when they see their loves, whether they’re female or male, touch themselves. If you’re comfortable with it, give it a try. Show him what turns you on by doing it to yourself, and then get ready for the fireworks.
5. Tease with a Touch
You can tease in many ways, and touching is one of them. There are several ways to go about this. For instance, you can keep things light and almost innocent, by running a hand up his leg or over his chest. You can also get downright dirty, and touch him in all the places you know he likes.
6. Talk Dirty to Him
A long time ago, before texting existed, couples just talked dirty to each other. It might seem a little archaic now, but trust me, this is still a great way to get both of you aroused. Texting is easier, I know, because sometimes talking dirty is difficult, it gets a little embarrassing. If you’re secure with your man, though, you’ll know just what to say – and he’ll appreciate the effort!
7. Tell Him What You Want
Men like women who know what they want. Men really like it when women tell them what they want. Let your man know what turns you on, be as explicit as you can be, and then stand back, because the odds are very good he’s going to break his neck trying to do it – and it will excite him at the same time.
8. Give Him a Peek
A lot of men are extremely visual, so another tantalizing way to get a guy hard is by showing him what he likes and what he wants. You don’t necessarily have to go the full Monty, either. Sometimes, a glimpse of thigh or a slow bend can spark his imagination even more than the most explicit images.
9. Flirt with a Promise
Flirting is extremely underrated. No matter what, it will always have a place in intimate relationships. When you’re with your man, make sure to flirt – but do it with a promise. Let him know that it’s a sure thing; the anticipate will definitely excite him!
10. Touch Him Everywhere but There
Like say, sometimes you don’t need to take the most obvious route. You know that if you touch your man’s stuff, he’s going to get excited. Rather than going right for the hot button, though, touch him everywhere else. Again, the anticipation will get him hard in no time.
11. Display Some Affection
Most forms of PDA is pretty innocent like hand holding or a quick peck on the cheek. A sure way to get his engine running is to engage in some PDA that's racy yet private. Stroke his leg or some more private areas underneath a tablecloth or somewhere you can share a private moment.
12. Browse around
Take your guy to a lingerie store to browse some of the super sexy undergarments. Pick out some items that the both of you like and try them on for him or buy it and give him a private show at home.
13. Massage Him
Surprise your guy by giving him a nice, relaxing massage when he gets home. Start off with his shoulders or back and then venture off into more private areas. Touching his lower regions is guaranteed to get him going no matter how tired he is!
14. Go Commando
This has to be one of the oldest tricks in the book, but it always works. The next time you go out with your guy somewhere, skip the undies. While you're in the middle of your evening, nonchalantly mention to him that you're not wearing any undies and watch him go crazy!
15. Send a Sexy Pic
Another sexy way to surprise your guy is to send him a racy pic while he's at work. Show some skin or leave it all to the imagination, either way it's sure to make him go wild with desire.
If you’re looking for some sure ways to get a guy hard, I hope these have helped you. You don’t always have to go with the obvious choice – and sometimes the fire you light in his system will burn hotter and longer if you choose a subtler approach. If you don’t mind sharing, how about letting us know what you do to arouse your lover?