There is often a fine line between flirting and coming across as annoying, at least that’s been my experience. I’ve seen women practically throw themselves into the lap of a guy they think is extremely good looking. Some guys might be flattered by this type of behavior, but most aren’t looking for a meaningful relationship with women who act in this manner. If you want him to realize you exist and want to get his attention in a respectable fashion, then take a look at the list below. Here are 7 flirting tips to make him notice you.
7. Be Mindful of Your Appearance
It’s important to not only look nice, but to also carry yourself with pride. You don’t have to be loud and obnoxious to get a guy to notice you. Dress smart and be confident in your actions. Having good posture never hurts either. This also helps you to feel better about yourself too. Most guys notice a nicely dressed female who holds her head up high with confidence.
6. Lavish Him with Compliments
What guy is going to ignore a compliment? People in general enjoy receiving compliments, even a subtle one. I’m sure you’ll stand out in his mind if you start offering a plethora of praise to boost his ego. Try to flatter him with words that are true though, don’t fill him up with false admiration.
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5. Smile Whenever He Looks at You
Whenever you catch his eye, don’t forget to smile. The smile will let him know you acknowledge his gaze and welcome it. There’s so much that can be said with a smile and most guys take even the smallest grin as a signal that you are interested.
4. Invite Him to Dance
There’s no rule that says a woman can’t ask a man to dance. I think most guys would be flattered by a woman asking for a dance instead of vice versus. This would be a quick way to get to know the guy you are interested in, at least a little bit.
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3. Lean in Close and Ask Him a Question
You might freak him out if you lean in close and don’t say anything at all. Maybe. If you are worried about this happening then think of a question to ask him before you lean in closer. Try to come up with a legitimate query, so it won’t seem like you are just asking random questions so you can get close to him.
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2. Touch His Hand or Arm
If you have a reason to get his attention, try making contact with his arm or hand when you do so. This tactic will cause him to take notice of you more quickly than if you simply speak to him from afar or smile when he looks at you. There’s something about making physical contact that causes a person to become more aware of the person they are connecting with.
1. Make Strong Eye Contact when You Speak with Him
Combining good eye contact with touching and leaning in close will not only make him notice you, but this combo of flirtatious behavior will definitely show him you are interested too. If he doesn’t get the hint from this behavior, then he must be blind!
Maybe you can successfully use some of these 7 flirting tips to make him notice you. What techniques have you used in the past that have gotten a guy’s attention?
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Anonymous: I really like this one guy, and my friend told me that his ex- gf told her while they were still dating that he liked me. Right now he is single but idk if i should make the first move. sometimes i look at him and he looks at me back, but i dont know what to do. MY friends tell me that he is a player but he is really nice to me and super funny. I hope he actually does like me and makes the first move cuz im tired of dreaming!!!!
katrina: i like a guy .he has a girlfriend .everytime they break up they get back together the next day .what should i do to get him to ask me out ?he always stares at me .whats going on
Rani: So I have this really huge crush on this guy! He is really funny, smart, sporty, and just my type! In Science he site a table away from me and when ever I look up I see him looking at me, but i dont know if he knows i see him. Today i went into his class to make up a test for a teacher and he was shapinging a pencil i think to get my attention. whenever i looked back at him he just laughed and i smiled! I really like him! And i want to date him! I text him occationaly but just about sports and stuff like that nothing really interesting. Im worried that he likes another girl who is pretty. He dated her once last year but didnt work out. What do i do? I want to date him! He is the sweetest guy at my school its crazy!
rebecca: Complimenting a guy does wonders :)
Anonymous: UGH. All of this is exactly what I did with this guy last year, and I totally thought I was getting signals back until he started dating one of our friends. I mean, he and I were really close friends, but I was so sure there was a hint of something more. I had the biggest crush on him, too. Oh, well. He's gone now, so I get to focus on other guys and other goals.
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