Spotted a cutie by the water cooler? Now it’s time to check that he notices you too. Here are some tried and tested ways to make sure it’s your name on his lips - whether it's your colleague or your boss…
1. Dress to Impress …
Flesh flashing isn’t needed here, as you just need to look smart and sexy. Invest in some classic body shaping skirts and shirts, and he’s sure to notice you. Make sure you look respectable, and you’ll feel ten times more confident too.
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2. Be Efficient …
Don’t be a slacker. Show your independence by making sure you complete your work, as well as chatting to colleagues. I’ve always found that looking competent and in control is a big man magnet!
3. Ask for His Help, and Feed His Ego …
Be cheerful …
Walk around with a smile, and he’s sure to be endeared to you, and your obviously warm personality.
4. Interact with Him as Much as Possible …
Try to get into the same project, to make sure you two spend as much time together as possible. Going on business trips and conferences together can also be a great way to start the fire.
5. Arrange Nights out of Work …
If you are the one planning the night, he'll surely notice you as your name will be on everyone's lips. But before you do so, try to find out what kind of nights out your crush prefers, so that he definitely comes to the event and you get your chance to impress him.
6. Remember People’s Birthdays …
Bringing some cakes for people’s birthdays is very friendly, and shouldn’t cost much unless you work with a huge group of people! It’ll certainly help you catch his eye, and improve office relations too!
7. Flirt! ...
Make sure you flirt a little! Be subtle, but show your flirty, fun side! Don't know where to start? Check out these tips from your humble author/professional flirt - 20 Flirting Rules to Always Get The Guy You Like …
8. Make Him Feel Special …
Do things that will flatter his ego, and make him feel special? This will probably work better out of work, but letting him borrow your staplers always a start…
9. Walk in Front of His Desk …
It may sound very simple, but it works. It’ll catch his eye, and keep him thinking about you… Practice your sexy walk at home in front of the mirror and you'll feel much more comfortable doing it in front of your crush.
10. And Once You’ve Caught His Eye ...
Make sure you put it to good use! Take him out for a drink and make your move, and who knows, maybe your office will become a much happier place?
Have you got a way to flirt at work, or a cute office relationship story? Please let me know!
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Frequently Asked Questions
- How can I get a guy's attention at work without being unprofessional?
- You can dress smartly and maintain a professional appearance, make eye contact and smile when you interact with him, and engage in light and work-appropriate conversation to show your interest.
- What should I do if I want to talk to a guy at work but we're in different departments?
- Try to find common areas like the office kitchen, break room, or during office events to initiate a casual conversation. You can also connect over work-related topics to start.
- Can body language help me get a guy to notice me at work?
- Yes, body language is very important. Stand up straight, make eye contact, and use open and inviting gestures to show you're approachable. Remember to respect personal space.
- What should I avoid doing when trying to get a guy to notice me at work?
- Avoid being too obvious, such as excessive flirting or trying to monopolize his time, especially during work hours. Keep it subtle and professional to not make him or others uncomfortable.
- Is it okay to ask a guy out at work?
- If your company policy allows it and you sense he might be interested, you could consider asking him out. However, be sure to do it discreetly and respectfully, outside of work hours or during a casual moment when you're both off duty.