So you like this guy. Call it a crush, butterflies in your stomach or love at first sight, bottom line – you like him. Now the question is how do you get HIM to like YOU enough to ask you out? There is no sure shot formula. But do not despair! Here are 10 easy to follow suggestions for you to experiment with and trusty Cupid will do the rest!
1. Be yourself …
No one likes deception. Think about it. If a guy was extremely gentlemanly on the first couple of dates (opened doors for you, pulled the chair out et all) and all of that magically disappeared when the two of you got a little more serious, you would feel cheated right? So don’t do the same thing. Yes, we all tweak our normal selves to impress the other person but there is a fine line between tweaking and being downright fake. So listen to him when he talks about his favorite sport but don’t pretend to be a born fan if you’re not just to get him to like you.
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Okay so I have a crush on two guys, one I’ve known since the first grade and we are best friends but I think I love him. The second one I met after Halloween and I really like him, we always talk but the only time we do is during the foods class we have together. I always catch him glancing at me and whenever I see him doing it I smile but then I look away embarresed. I don’t know which one to ask out. My best friend knows I like him but like we always talk, whenever we talk I look into his az he looks into mine. God everything is so difficult. Can someone please help me?! I’m mostly afraid to ask either out because in my other relationships I’ve been cheated on or lied to. AHHHH HELP!!!!
Hey harper,
honey i know it’s easier said than done, but you don’t have to go through life worrying about getting lied to or being cheated on by your significant other. Sure we go through bad experiences that sort of reprogram the way we think, but it’s really important to not get stuck in that mold. And just a word of advice for the future – though cheating is not often the fault of the victim, but it’s not really fair to your boyfriend(s) if you don’t trust them to be faithful just because your previous one’s weren’t!
oh and maybe it’s just because i’ve ALWAYS wanted a story like that, but I think you should go with your best friend sweetie!
Ok please help me
There is a guy I realy like
I got out of it with my exboyfriend
The current biatch at my school made him get over me
Thank goodness that he didn’t like her
But he is currently dating a chick named Michelle
But enough about that
So there is a guy I like
Really like
But let’s see
About 3 of my really good friends like him
2 people used to date him
Technically one
And then the other was a little hoe
And about 5 of my friends used to like him
He knows I like him because I told him
Because I didn’t want him to find out
And so he had already told me who he likes
I know that and we still talk
But I am supposed to be helping one of my friends get him
But I lie to myself all the time and say that I don’t like him but really I do
It’s killing me
What do I do?
Hey crazychickuluv,
now to me this sounds like a really complicated situation with 6 girls trying to vie for the attention of this one guy – and that too 6 friends! I think the first thing you should do is stop lying to yourself and confront your feelings. Secondly, you need to talk it out with your friend whom you’re supposed to help and let her know that as much as you would like to, you can’t do a good job of helping her since you stil like this guy – whether or not something works out.
Also, thirdly I think you need to take a call on whether you’re really planning to go ahead with this entire deal of trying to get him to like you when he clearly has said he doesn’t and he does have so many more girls to choose from – since so many do like him already! i’m not one to advice people to run away from problems, specially love problems – but in this case, you need to take stock of how things are and your chances and it’d just be prudence!
i am soooo in love with these 2 guys valentine’s day is coming up what do i do?????
Well there’s this guy. We talk a lot on msn and he is really outgoing on there and asks a lot of questions about me but in real life he acts like he doesnt even know me. Because at school i sat next to him today and i tried to start a conversation but he would just reply with one word answers. His friend tells me that he likes me but he hasn’t got the guts to let me know that he likes me. Valentines Day is coming up so what do i do?
~Cheers, Confused
Hey Confused.. looks like this guy is a personality twin of mine. I know how it can be really difficult to be yourself in person whereas online it is very easy to open up. Maybe you should ask him online when you meet him next, why he won’t talk to you in school. You could joke about how you two could carry laptops to class and sit next to each other and chat online…
it takes a while for some people to get over their shyness in person.. that has no reflection on whether he likes you or not..
im really into this boy, but he lives 2 hours away!
its possible for me to see him every week though :S
anyway, i reeeeally like him, i can’t stop thinking about him. neither of us have confessed our feelings yet, so im just praying something happens soon! i would love for him to be my boyfriend, but i don’t know if i should tell him how i REALLY feel. HELP!!
i like this guy sam, we both like the same stuff. i sit next to him in my art lessons and we have other lessons together. he’s told me when he goes to america in august he’ll get me something, and when he goes to london on his sisters birthday he will too. he mate knows i like him. whenever i say ‘hi’ to sam and his mate is there, his mate yells ‘ he doesn’t fancy you back!’ it’s really embarresing. i want to go out with sam but i think he won’t go out with me cos his mates don’t really like me. he’s invited me over this half term and i don’t know what to do. ANY ADVICE PLEASE!!!!!
Ok so theirs this guy i like a whole bunch, and all my friends say that he likes me back. weve hung out a couple times and we talk on the phone and over text all the time, and we’ve even held hands a couple of times. but he still won’t ask me out. i don’t know if im doing somthing wrong or if he just isn’t ready yet, but he always brings up how he wants a girlfriend and how he would never treat a girlfriend in a wrong way. im really confused about what to do and i need help!
i think you should take the lead. ask him. its obvious he likes you but is nervous youll say no…
well.. that’s what i think
Well, i moved school recently, and after a week i had a boyfriend .. but i mean, i realllyyy liked him !! But we broke up because we rushed it .. and we are still dead close, he is dead nice, funny, and we get on so well !! If im down, he is the one who notices, and he gives the nicest hugs .. :) And everyone thinks we should go out again, but i dont know if i like him or not. When i think about it, i guess i do like him, but i wouldnt want anything to get in the way of our friendship !! What do you suggest i do? Cuz i dont know how he feels about me or anything, and im not one to ask out .. i wast for them to ask me out !! Just, some people are saying he still really likes me .. !! Im stuck .. !
i rekon u should give it another shot. u know each other better now. Give suttle hints tht u still like him the rest will follows
Hey y’all
I’m falling for two guys. One of them, is thinking on weather we should go out or not, he likes me, and once said he loved me, and this morning he said that we should go out next year, but he really wants to go out with me. I said that by next year I might not like him anymore. Now he’s thinking again. How do I get him to say yes to this year? What do you think he’s going to say? Yes to this year, or never? If he says no, there is this other guy that I think I’m falling for. He has a girlfriend right now, but we have a lot in common and his girl friend is starting to like someone else and might break up with him. I don’t know what to do!! Please help me!!
From, Loves-to-laugh
I am sooooo ttly in love wiv these 2 guys- michael and eddie. Now they both make me laugh. Eddie once blocked my way out of a room, and during an event at my skl Where we WERE ALLOWED TO SIT WHERE WE WANT he SAT NXT 2 ME. and didn’t tlk 2 any1 but me. The other guy, michael tlks 2 me a lot, listens 2 wat i have 2 say, has my mobile number and i go round his house a lot cuz our brothers are m8’s. they aren’t both in my class. wat do i do. do they like me???
they ARE both in my class soz
ehhm, well. this guy who really annoys me (sean) said this guy (i am confused if i fancy him), well he said this guy fancies me.(lewis) and im like, no he doesnt (as i hadnt noticed before.) so this guy said the person who fancies me is going to ask me out on valentines day. and now i realised he likes me more then i thought, but im still confused. sean keeps saying he’s going to ask me out. he hasnt and valentines day is coming soon, so should i ask him out or not? the problem is.. quite a lot of other people fancy him, anna and ronnie. and theyre my friends. they might get a bit jealous if i go out with lewis. anna doesnt admit it but she so fancies lewis and ronnies been hinting for ages that she fancies him (she invited him to the cinema) so she’ll be gutted! what should i do????? :0 :O :o
hey guys :) I REALLY REALLY NEED YOUR HELP . PLEEEEEASE :(
i have a crush on a boy of my class his name is TJ . but we are just good friends. and i think or maybe i’m sure that he has a crush on another girl of my class. but she has a boyfriend and he knows that. but now she has some troubles with her boyfriend and i’m worried if they break up that TJ is going to date that girl. cuz the girl also likes him and that’s all so stupid :( i’m thinking about that the whole time and i could cry the whole time . please help me :( :( :(
Ok I like a guy, and he likes me, and we were talking about wether we should go out or not. He made up his mind and decited next year or maybe sooner. I know he wants to go out with me, because I said, I might get bored of waiting, and might like someone new. Now he is thinking wether it’s now, or never. What do you think he’s gonna say? After school (i’m home sick) I’m gonna talk with him. I want to go out with him, so how do I get him to say yes to this year? If he says no what should I do? Go after someone else? If I should, there is this guy, and we have a lot in common. He’s funny, and I had to play soccer with some younger kids, and when he wasn’t busy (I didn’t tell him to come up and hang with me and the little ones) he sat by me and we were talking. He makes me laugh alot. The problem is, he has a girlfriend. BUT i know his girlfriend and know that she wants to break up with him soon, because she has a crush on someone else. Which one should I go for? The one who does like me but can’t decide, or the one who makes me laugh and his feelings towards me are unknown. If I should go for the one who likes me, what if he says no to this year? If I go for the one who makes me laugh, does he like me and how do I get him to ask me out? PLEASE HELP ME!! My love life is a mess!
to be honest just WAIT see wether or not the girl breaks up with her bf then report bk
oh and plz answer my problem it’s just a little up the page
ok there is this guy that i have liked since 6th grade( and i am now in 11th) well we dated in 6th grade and he asked me out again in 9th but he didnt outright say it so i was dumb and didnt realize it but anyways we have classes together again this year but he has a girlfriend who treats him terrible and he always looks and me and smiles but wont talk direstly to me but talk to everyone around me but me first, then me. but he always smiles at me and listens to my conversations when i am near him. i think he knows i like him still but is there a chance tht he might still like me back?
please tell me wht u thnk and wht i should do.
I like this lad, lets call him Taylor. Me and Taylor used to sit next to each other in one of our classes, and we get on really well. We talk on facebook alot, and in another lesson we know sit next to each other, and weve been getting alot closer. But in One of our classes he got moved because we talk to much. And ever scince then we didnt talk that much, but we still talk on facebook alot. In our lessons we kinda flirt alot, and he plays like jokes on me were hell tap me then turn around, and be like oh that was ____ when it was him. I was gonna ask him out like in a couple of days when i found out hes a bit of a player and he cheated on his now ex girlfriend. Like a day later, I found out this girl who is known for being a bit of a Sl*t and that, likes Taylor. And she said he likes her back. And We were talking abou how he can be a bit of flirt and she was like you should see the texts he sends me. And there like about how big you know his ‘thing’ is… and stuff like that. And now there like flirting all the time, but there not going out… But me and him are sometimes doing the same, but I dont wanna get in the way of what might be there relationship, but i really like Taylor, so I dont know what to do.