Having a crush on someone can be hard and frustrating especially when he does not even know that you exist! I think that every girl has felt this way at some point or the other. Have you felt it before? How did it turn out? Did you have any luck? Well, I would like to lend you a helping hand and give you 10 ways to get noticed by your crush...
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10. Make a Positive Impression
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In order to get noticed, it is important that you make a positive impression. Agreed that it is easy to say something to goof things up when you are nervous but try your hardest to be on your best behavior. Also, acting silly will get you noticed for sure but for all the wrong reasons. Stay away from the things that will make you look bad and shed some light on yourself. Some positive light!
9. Make Small Talk with Your Crush
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There is nothing like some small talk tobreak the ice with someone new. Make sure you put yourself in situations where you can make small talk with the one you have a crush on. When you see him or her, then make sure you speak with them. Say something like hello and ask how their day is going. You know, do that simple chit chat. It may not seem like much at the time but it is an important step in getting to know him/her better.
8. Make Eye Contact
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Your eyes are the window to your soul. It is therefore extremely important that you make eye contact and smile while at it. Making eye contact is usually a good way to get someone’s attention and tolet him know you like him. Just remember not to stare!
7. Be Flirty, but Not Too Flirty
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It is perfectly fine to be flirty. However, it is important that you make sure you are not too flirty. Don’t go throwing yourself at the person you have a crush on and certainly do not cling onto them. You don't want him thinking you're easydo ya?
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Flirting should have a touch of subtlety; let your body language and eye contact hint at your interest rather than spelling it out loudly. A playful joke here, a warm smile there—these small gestures can pique someone's interest without overwhelming them. Keep the mystery alive as it's part of the charm. You aim to stir curiosity, not to unveil the entire plot. Remember, a little tease goes a long way and overdoing it can spoil the allure you're trying to build.
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
6. Become Part of Their Circle
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What do you think about becoming part of their circle? If you find it hard to become friends with him, pick someone from his circle of friends and get to know them instead. This is usually easier as you won't be as shyand will give you a better chance of getting to know the crush.
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5. Let Him Know You Are Available
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Of course, it is important to let the crush know that you are available. Speak with one of your friends when he/she is in hearing distance and tell them how you do not have anyone to go to the dance with or something similar. Also, if you have common friends, make sure you tell them. The news is sure to reach him eventually especiallyif he likes you and is trying to find out!
4. Learn What He Likes
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In order to get noticed, it is important to learn what he likes and what hishobbies are. When you learn what he likes, if you like it too, then let him known that you enjoy doing it. For example, I like playing video games, I love playing Halo 3 on XBOX Live, so if I had a crush, I would invite him to play it with me. In this case, I will be inviting my husband to play it with me tonight.
3. Look Good
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It is always important that you look good. Chances are, if you look your all-time low, all the time, then your crush may not take interest in you. I'm not saying dress like someone you're not but it wouldn't hurt to make an effort. The better you look outside, the more confident you will feel on the inside. Also, look cheerful! You have no idea how much that can help.
2. Impress Your Crush
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Little things can go a long way in impressing him. I personally think this is a great way to make yourself stand out and be noticed.One way to do this is to make the first move. Most guys like a girl who can take control. Just remember to not come on too strong. Stay confident when you talk to him and pick topics that you are comfortable with. A compliment is always a great way to let him know you like something about him and it will melt his heart like silly putty.
1. Have Fun
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Of course, it is important not to forget about yourself. You should make sure you have fun. Show him that you are the fun type of girl. Go out with your friends to places you know he is at andhave fun with them. Just don't land up everywhere or you will look like a stalker.
These are 10 ways to get noticed by your crush. When you are trying to get noticed by the crush, it is important that you do not act shy. You could also ask him for his e-mail address and messenger add so that you can speak to him online. That is what I did! What about you, how do you get noticed? Do you have a problem with shyness? Tell me about it!
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Sierra: This boy is my friend. He and I are both into memes and rage comics and stuff. We talk about that all the time for lack of anything else. I really like him and his friend teases he and I all the time, though I haven't told anyone. I like to lean up against him and flirt. I flirt a little much, but I can't help it! He doesn't seem to mind! Do you guys think he likes me?
Kaya: I really like this guy I see around college. We have no lessons together & none of the same friends, although we do know some of the same people. We've never spoken but one time someone in my art class was using him as a model, so we were in the same room for an hour. I made a point of speaking to the guy who was using him as a model, & my crush would always watch me as I did. We made a lot of eye contact and smiled at each other etc. But then recently I saw him and I was looking really awful and in a bad mood, he was standing by a wall waiting for something and I kind of accidentally glared at him, walked off and did a lot of embarassing things onll to find out he was still watching me. So think I've ruined that a bit. I've added him on facebook and now know we have a lot in common. We havn't spoken on there though (& even if we did, it's hard to transfer facebook into face to face) and I hardly ever see him around college. I really don't know how to approach him, what should I do?
mandy: i like a guy alot..he know i exist.......... but i guess he is not interested we hardly have topics to speak on nd we r in the same school....... same age............ but the problem is he is 1 class junior to me.......... guyzz plz helpppppppppp i need it
toni: Yo well me and my ex bf broke up a while ago and the truth is i still love him when i go to school i cant keep my eyes off him i just cant resist it lol well people sed i should ask him out i would but he dumped me and im sure he hates me i flirted with him once saying hes cute and he said cheers u 2 im not sure if he means it but he is to die for fit... hes a year above me so not in my class dont talk anymore i spoke to him once on fb since we broke up and thats it :(
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