Have you ever asked yourself how you could get your friend fall in love with you? For many, it seems like a complicated situation and depending on the person, maybe it is. I never made my friend fall in love with me as I didn’t like any of my friends that way, so I got advice of one of my good friend who didn’t mind sharing some of her tips with me. While it’s hard to get someone to fall in love with you when the chemistry just is not there, if the chemistry is there, then these 10 tips will help you make that friend fall head over heels for you!
10. Your Appearance
You should work on your appearance. Whether you admit this or not, men are generally interested in the way a woman looks. In fact, they almost always consider looks first when it comes to asking a woman out on a date. With this thought in mind, make sure your hair has been properly kept and your teeth, skin and nails are taken care of. Get your friend fall in love with you by first starting with your appearance.
9. Learn Interpersonal Skills
If you have better interpersonal skills, people are going to naturally like you. You will need to know how to handle people in different situations. To give you an understanding, some of those skills include making others feel important, being friendly, avoiding conflicts when possible, never criticize, telling someone they are wrong without being blunt and thinking of the other person.
8. Be a Good Listener
When the friend speaks with you, you should show them just how good of a listener you are. Give him or her your full attention as they are talking to you about something.
7. Talk about Problems
Do not talk about things that are boring. Talk to the friend about things that are going on in their life. Figure out what is bothering the other person. By doing this, the other is going to want to open up to you and that is a definite way to start.
6. Be Yourself
In order to get your friend fall in love with you, you should not try being someone else other than yourself. Yes, I know, you would like to act like a TV star, but by doing this, you are not showing your true self. How can someone fall in love with you fully if they do not see you for who you are?
5. A Sense of Humor
When it comes to certain things, it is always good to have a sense of humor. Watch how the other person responds when you are trying to get a smile to sweep across their face. If you are dealing with a serious matter, then do not annoy them with your efforts. However, in order to change their mood, do some flirting.
4. Dress Nicely
Guys and girls love it when the opposite sex dresses up nicely. It is a great idea for you to find clothes that accentuate your style and make you look great.
3. Be Someone Who is Happy
I like people who are cheerful, but not too cheerful. You should not overdo this one.
2. Do Not Play Games
The worst thing you could possibly do would be to play games with the other person’s heart. You do not want to be a friend and a lover at once, so you should choose between the two.
1. Do Not Push Yourself
You may think it is a clever idea, but pushing yourself on your friend is a big no-no, especially when it is clear that they are not into you. You will look dumb doing this very thing.
By using these 10 tips to get your friend fall in love with you, if the chemistry is there, then the he or she is going to fall in love with you. Take note that this is going to take time. This is not something that is going to happen overnight. You may look at the calendar and see that it took a total of three months. It is all about getting the other to fall in love with you. It just goes without saying that sometimes, the best is worth waiting for. What do you think? Do you think it is possible to get someone to fall in love with you? Do you have any additional tips that you would like to share with us?
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