10 Signs He's Gay ...

I also suspect that my boyfriend is gay. I tried to talk to him a few times but he always says that it is just not true. I found his Skype accounts where in one of them he pretends to be a girl, and in another he is himself. He says it's just for fun, that he has never slept with a guy and that he never will. He has had highly active sex life and attended sex parties in San Fran. He says that he never had sex with men, even then. I am OK with being bi-curious or even bi-sexual, and I talked to him very calmly even when I found him chatting with guys. I figure it's just him being naughty. I don't know what more I can do to get him to fess up?

I came across this and I had to make a comment. Please take note that I am not saying this applies to all men. I am just sharing my experiences and observations of being with a man who hid the fact that he is either gay or bisexual. I was dating this guy for 3 1/2 years. From the start, I felt like there was something odd about him sexually. Although he is bad in bed, it was more to it than that. I could never put my finger on it, but it was different and odd. He only sleeps in the nude and the First thing I noticed was that when he would lay behind me (spoon) me, he would put the covers in front of his private. This stood out to me because I love to feel a man's private up against me. Well, for some reason he didn't like it. When I was sure he was doing it intentionally, I questioned it. He pretended to not be aware that he was doing it. This went on a few more times and eventually, he wanted me to always lay behind him. It never occurred to me that this was a way to get away from being questioned about him putting the covers between us. I never made a big deal of it because this happened to be just about the only way I could fall asleep if I wasn't dead tired. When he would roll over to lay behind me in the middle of the night, he would be laying half way on his stomach with his arm over me, but NEVER directly behind me. Clearly for some reason he did not want his private up against my rear. At some point I noticed when he would touch me with his fingers between my legs, once he was done he would "slyly" wipe his finger on me. Once I was sure this was done purposely, I said something. I was upset of course because it made me feel dirty. He denied he was doing it intentionally. He had very weak erections 80% of the time for almost three years of the relationship and he could never go past 5 minutes. One night he joke about me coming to his house in a coat and nothing on under neath. That night he called to tell me to meet him at his house, he was headed home from work, I showed up in a trench coat, thigh high boots and nothing on underneath. He had been drinking a little, pretended to be turned on, but went to sleep. Before you assume anything, I'm very attractive and I work out. I'm not bad to look at. Most of the time, he never seemed interested in my body. I never caught him staring at me while I was naked. He never made eye contact when we were having sex, he never talked dirty and we rarely kissed. If things free his way, we would never ever have foreplay, just sex. We went to a sex store 3 times, his suggestion, but he seemed more interested in dildos and fake penis', than I was. We had anal sex 2 maybe 3 times, his request and never ever did he kiss me so passionately as he did the three times we had anal sex. We only had sex when he wanted it. It seemed like every time I initiated it, he didn't want it. I never felt like he was attracted to me sexually. At home he never showed any affection, but around his friends he would. He would often send me text messages talking about how he wanted to give me oral sex, but never ever would he follow through. I finally asked him to stop because I felt like it was all fake. He claimed to love to give oral sex, but he was horrible at it and he seemed to only like to lick my pearl tongue. He has several gay female friends, used to go to gay bars with one of them, before we met and he will go out of his way to befriend gay women, but never gay men, but he will point a gay man out and make comments about them. He is always pointing out things about a woman, like...her shoes are ugly or her weave needs to be done or something about her eye lashes. He even commented on a woman's eye shadow before. When we are watching the news, he will even comment on the woman's hair and talk about how limp it is. His ex wife told someone he was gay and his daughter's mom said she thought he was gay. And they both told other people about his sex being bad and awkward. Months before I left him, he allowed me to use a prostate toy on him and he let me stick my thumb up him also. I ended up getting into his phone and I saw that he had been browsing and possibly meeting up with women AND men on craigslist. Now tell me, do you think he is gay?

I been with my kids dad.for 13y and I know he's gay cause he talked to my uncle nasty

YEA .. it's cool : )

This article is laughable, if not somewhat offensive to gay men. Perhaps it should have been titled "10 signs he's a stereotypical gay". Only a small percentage of gay men fall in to this category and I think most women would be able to identify such men without the aid of this ridiculous article.

they all sound like a few flamers to me however straight guys are weirder than gay men .

I would like to add the this discussion, from the perspective of a gay man. I use gay chat internet sites to find dates, and never cease to be amazed at how many identify as married/bisexual. f we discount to ones who are simply in denial and do not have an female sexual partners in reality, I would stil estimate that 20% of all married/ostensibly straight men in relationships, are having sex with men. A few tips for women to look out for: Check his mobile phone, are there APPS for gay chat sites/ Check his pc, look at the history of sites he has used/visited. Check his phone bill.statement-are there lots of texts shown/ Looks at texts on his phone, are there lots from men? Is he working away a lot? I feel terribly sorry for anyone cheated by a partner, when it is a woman who is sysyematically being cheated on and put at risk that is even worse.

Okay so being a gay guy myself and reading all of these comments is very frustrating and it kind of hurts...honestly ALL of these are stereotypes. Plain and simple. Every person is different and looking at these things will not tell you if the guy is gay or not. I happen to love video games and sports, I don't spend a lot of time in the bathroom and I fucking hate shopping. So please next time you read bullshit like this please take the time to let the ignorant people know they are being very rude. Sorry if this comes off as rude but honestly you can't generalize people like that.