Top 10 Tips on How to Get a Girlfriend for Boys ...

Top 10 Tips on How to Get a Girlfriend for Boys ...
By Kati

Every guy wants a special girl to cuddle up with after a hard day, but what if it’s just not happening? Well don’t sign up for speed dating yet! There are much easier ways to get a girl. Here are my top ten tips on attracting a girlfriend!

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1. Take Pride in Yourself

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Make sure you look like a potential boyfriend! Get a good haircut, keep your hands and feet clean and shave occasionally, so that when you see Miss Right, you look the part!

2. Think about Her

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Make a list of all the qualities that are important to you, and which ones are negotiable. Having a list makes it much easier to see who matches and who doesn’t, and is a good way to check you are actually compatible!

3. Resolve Old Hurts

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Let go of old relationship problems, and stop hating your ex-girlfriends. Taking conflict into a new relationship isn’t a good idea, and she’s likely to think you still have a flame for your ex if you talk about her a lot. Get over your ex and wipe the slate clean!

4. Emphasize Your Best Features

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Make the most of your best features, whether they are physical or mental. Wear clothes that make you feel confident, pick a pair of great jeans that accentuate your behind, wear cologne and always check to see if you look presentable. If you have a special ability, show it off. You never know who's watching!

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Learn How to Make Her Feel Good

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When your guy friends talk about their girls, pay attetion. You will learn a thing or two about girls and that will help when you get a girlfriend of your own. Sure, every girl is unique but knowing the basic rules of how to make her feel fabulous will help!

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6. Think about Girls You Already Know

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That cute girl from the gym or dance class might be your dream girl in disguise. Think about all the girls you know, and compare them to your list of qualities. It’s amazing how many people already know their perfect partner but don't quite see it so pay attention!

7. Get Involved!

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Join a gym, a language class or a hobby class. Not only is it a good way to boost your confidence, it’s also a good way to meet new people, and expand your circle of friends. While you might not spot Miss Right in the class, she could be the best friend of someone there...

8. Drop Hints!

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Once you’ve found someone you are interested in, check them against your list of qualities, and if they match, tell mutual friends that you like them. While this might seem immature, you can bet that her friends will tell her, and so you’ll be able to gauge her reaction.

9. Be an Admirer!

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If you think she is interested too, send her some anonymous flowers with a small hint about who you are. Every girl loves flowers, and she’ll be charmed! Just make sure you eventually tell her it was you, or you won’t get the credit.

10. Be Yourself

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Remember that the girl has to know the real you, or how can she love you? Avoid the temptation of building a fake ‘perfect’ image, and let her learn who you really are. It’s important!

It might take some time to find her, but when you do, it’ll be worth it! You’ll also be more confident, and have a wider group of friends. And an amazing girlfriend!! Have you got a tip for getting a girlfriend? Please let me know!

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some shy guys just need to man up and grow some balls and ask that girl out!

hi im a boy great tips thats really going to make my futyur life easyer theres tow more tips make freinds with the girl and just act normel

Nice post! These are good tips, especially #10. A girl likes a man who is unique and shows her that side of himself. It's intriguing and sexy.

I went on a date with this girl that I like and it went pretty well. Just had lunch and saw a movie together, but at the end of the date she didn't show much emotion it was just a simple "it was fun, bye..." and I have been talking to her often and give her a bunch of hints of hey I'm interested in you, but she doesn't react much. :/ any other tips? (I don't fake my personality btw) plz help!

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