Do you suffer fromshynessin the bedroom? A lot of women do, but it’s really easy to overcome! I’ve been collecting tips and quizzing experts, and here are my top eight tips for unleashing your inner goddess and feeling sexier in the bedroom...
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1. Sexy Underwear
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Get somesexy lingerie and wear them under your usual clothes. They’ll boost your confidence all day, and you’ll feel much sexier when he discovers them!
2. New Name
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Think of a sexy new stripper name, like Delicious or Candy and use it as an alter ego. Don’t tell anyone about it, just use it to get yourself into the right state of mind to be sexy and to leave your worries behind and to feel like a confident femme fatale...
3. Wear Buttons
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Taking your clothes off when you are wearing a lot of buttons is a lot sexier and more like a sophisticated strip tease. Deliberately wear something that will take him a while to get off and you’ll both feel the tension and it'll makehim go crazy for you!
4. Have a Bath
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Run yourself a luxurious bathand indulge in some gorgeous scented lotions. You’ll be soft and touchable, and just the smell of you should drive him wild! The best part is you'll feel refreshed and fabulous yourself ;)
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
5. Theme Song
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Choose a theme song, and play it when you need some confidence, even if it’s just playing in your head. Something like “Falling” by Alicia Keys will make you feel good!
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6. Be Competitive
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Whether you grab a tennis racket, a football or a game controller, doing something competitive head to head with your honey will boost your confidence. You’ll be surprised at how much of a rush you’ll get out of it and it’ll instantly make you want to play. So try anew sport this spring and you'll be amazed at how much better you feel about yourself.
7. Flirt
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When was the last time youflirted with your man? Flutter your eyelashes, pout and make him get you a drink... he’ll love it, and you’ll love the attention!
8. Forget Your Towel
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Go for a shower, but forget your towel. Then call your man in to get you one, while all sudded up. Trust me, he’ll either jump in with you, or be waiting not-so-patiently for you once you’ve finished, and your confidence will soar, even if you feel shy at first.
You’ll feel amazing once you’ve followed these tips, and you can use them time and time again so yoursexual confidencebuilds up. Your man won’t know what’s come over you, but I guarantee he will love it. Have you got a tip for building your sexual confidence? Please let me know!
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MissBeatnik: I've got a whole playlist with theme songs. :D Works always. My favs are fever by ray charles, i want you by the beatles, down in mexico by the coasters and i'd like to put my fingers on you by corrine bailey rae. actually i have about 40 songs or so. my first choose when i want to feel sexy. always listening to them before i go out to party.
Meream: A strategically placed full-length mirror always works for me. Haha
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