Yeah, there’s a lot that one could say aboutbad boys. I just wrote a blog on why girls love bad boys so much – make sure you read that one as well. However, you shouldn’t fall too far into this bad boy trap. Below, I am going to give you 7 reasons not to fall in love with a bad boy …
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7. They May Cheat
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Any individual out there has the potentialto cheat. However, I think it is more likely for a bad boy to cheat. How many of you would agree with me on this one?
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When looking at the typical traits of a bad boy, one sees a pattern of thrill-seeking and nonconformity, which often extends to their romantic life. They thrive on adventure and, sadly, sometimes find monogamy mundane. Many cling to the excitement of the chase, which can spell heartbreak for their devoted counterpart. Remember, trust is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship, and without it, you're building on shaky ground. It's essential to consider whether a fling with a renegade heart is worth the potential emotional cost.
6. They do Bad Things
Well, duh, of course they do bad things. Otherwise, they would not be called bad boys! By bad things, I mean drugs, partying all night, mysteriously disappearing and the whole nine yards.
5. They’re Not Safe
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Bad boys may be protective, but do you really think they are safe? Even if they are good to you, bad things lurk around them and you never know what is going to happen. What ifhe gets jealous when another guy checks you out and gets into an ugly fight?
4. They’re Not Marriage Material
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While some will calm down and want to be with you forever, there are plenty of them that are not marriage material. They will even tell you that they do not want to be married. They can’t see themselves being “tied” down, so to speak.
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3. They’re in It for a “Good Time”
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I am sure you know what I mean by good time, girls. I don't think I have to explain it any further. Some of them will use you or the sole purpose of sex. You'll know when it's just sex and not a relationship.
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2. They Don’t Care about You
Yeah, like I said in number 3, they are in it for that good time. Now, I know that it would be cool if they actually started to care about you, to want only you and fall madly in love. Just think of how that would feel – out of all the other girls they have been with, they only want you. I know that would be cool, but you will be risking a lot in the process.
1. They Could Break Your Heart
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Having abroken heartis no fun. I know this. Broken hearts cannot be avoided. However, if you want to decrease your chances of getting an even bigger broken heart, you may want to steer clear of those bad boys.
Those are 7 reasons not to fall in love with a bad boy. I know that many of you girls out there are going to agree with me on this. So, why shouldn’t you fall in love with a bad boy, in your opinion?
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Comments
randomm: but bad guys are hot! i always like the bad guys...
Teresailene: I fell for a bad boy. He promised me the world tho, marriage, kids, the whole nine yards. He had to relocate for his job and his true colors showed. He stopped calling as much and finally I havn't heard from him in 3 weeks. IT HURTS SO BAD!!
Teresa: It happened to me, although initially I didn't see his true colours, and I don't want to go back there ever again! I'm done with bad boys.
Shakti: I will not fall for a bad boy because I am married. LOL
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