So I'm in some need of serieus advice... To start with a quote from Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet: "If love be rough with you, be rough with love" Love is so rough for me right now! I'm not sure about anything but that I want to be with him and this is when I find out I mess up his live... He totally messed up my live a lot, but in a good way I thought. I'm so unsure what to want or think or even to blame anyone. I love him, that is all I'm sure off, but maybe love isn't enough. Maybe I should focus more on other things in life, maybe I should do so many other things that will give me back my single life. If it wasn’t for him I would have not been working where I am now, I would have left months ago, looking for something different. He changed my life so much and I put so many thoughts behind me, giving it all up for him, for my first ever love. There is a reason I never loved anyone before. I don't share emotions, don't want to be vulnerable like I am now. I just want to be reckless and enjoy every moment of my live. But then again, I never found as much joy in someone’s arms I as do now. I love to just stare at him for ages and love how he teases me about not answering my phone while I was working. He brought so much more joy into my life, so why not love to love? I'm in doubt about which way to go, and I fear so is he. The only difference between us is that he has loved before. He said himself, he easily falls in love to get lost in love. That scares me. Am I just another love in his live to forget? Am I number #Idunwannaknowhowmany of the many more to come? But whenever I doubt his motives, I have to see his point as well. I've told him, I never had a serious relationship, never have been in love before. So maybe he is scared to be number #waymorethenyoudareimagen of the list of broken hearts I've left behind. Maybe once we reach the point past my longest ever relationship and we are still together he can finally see that this is for real. But should I be worried until then? Should I talk, should I want to know what causes him worries? Love is rough with me, but I don't want to be rough with my love. It's already rough enough, let’s not make it any harder. Or maybe I should and it will get me the answers I'm looking for. If I only knew which way is best to go... If anyone has any advice, please share, I’ve been considering all options for days now and just can’t figure out what’s best to do. Linde

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okay so... i think i love the guy im with right now, we've been together for 1 year now, when we started going out i didn't think we would end up where we are now. He didn't trust me being with friends ( when guys were involved ) and now he says he does but i don't really think he does... we tell each other everything, we almost do everything together, we hate being apart. We have done alot together, physically..he wants to have sex with me, and i would like to, i just don't want something to go wrong after we do it , like he gets tired of me, although he says he wouldn't do anything to hurt me, and i trust him...im just not sure what to do... ?!

im a guy and that means hes nervous you wont let him you gotta make the first move and work up his confifdence

I never wanted soneone to take care of me, only truly loves me!do they exist?