What’s wrong with wanting to be sexy? Nothing! As long as you are on the right side of the fine line between sexy and trashy that is. And I know a lot of women who want to suddenly turn sexy for a man. But I find that it’s best when you want to do it for yourself. Here are my 8 tips to be your sizzling best!
8. Dress well…
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By dressing well, I do not mean dress provocatively! Find clothes that look good on your body type and that you are comfortable with. And if you have friends whose style you admire, don’t be afraid to ask them for tips. The next time you go to a store, experiment with styles and clothes you wouldn’t try on normally and take along a friend who you know will give you an honest opinion. You can’t go wrong at a store’s dressing room!
7. Unique style
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As for style, this is something that you should develop yourself over time. Sure, it’s fine to learn from idols, models, celebrities, etc. However, eventually, you will need to come up with your own style — a style that works for you and that defines you best.
6. Pay attention to detail.
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You should not use cheap/dirty underwear simply because no one is going to see it. You should not wear dirty shoes or have a purse that is messy. Never skip on the personal hygiene. You see, paying attention to those small details, such as your lingerie and shoes is important because it will bring out your inner confidence and make you feel sexy from within.
so true… smiling makes a world of difference! it can just light up your face, and instant sexy!
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Hey katie, a smile can definitely make the difference between sexy or just .. well a frowning bitch!
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smiling, looking people in the eyes, and applying that sky high mascara!
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:) love the way you think theo
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Although I do agree that dressing well helps with your own confidence, but unfortunately most mens are fashion moron. For example the number one outfit for my bf is a super short skirt and a top with clevage. Or a minidress. Yeah sadly that’s it.
My other guy friends aren’t very different from him. They never get Fashion stuff like gladiator sandals, boyfriend jeans or studs. They just think it’s weird and aka my bf “a waste of the pretty” *rolls eyes*
But I do agree with the “Believe that you’re sexy part”. My best friend once said that he finds nothing more attractive than a woman who knows she’s beautiful and use it to her advantage.
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Hey abbey,
yeah there’s always the stage when your bf wants you to dress slutty (Legs AND cleavage = slutty – no exceptions). But dressing sexy doesn’t always have to be for the guy (like you mentioned) and also even if he doesn’t know what the style is called or whether it is in fashion or not or for that matter won’t even know what it is about the outfit, but a guy will definitely notice a girl who has dressed sexy.
And hey your best friend couldn’t be more right about what he said – confidence goes a LONG way in how others perceive you.
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One of my high school friends had a exceptional sense for dressing. She carried her outfits so well. Things I generally thought wouldn’t look good looked great on her. It wasn’t that she was necessarily the prettiest girl neither did she have the sexiest body. She simply smiled and wore those clothes with confidence.
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Case in point! I guess we doubt ourselves too much generally – the whole ‘am i looking good in this’, ‘am i wearing this right’, etc thought process needs to go!
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Stop being mean? But how? Well does it count if I’m mean only with the guys, they like bad girls anyway. :) The more u reject them the more the are attracted to you…:))
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hahaha Tavia,
yeah some guys just don’t seem to get that no means no! but if you want to be sexy for a guy, it doesn’t work to be mean.
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I love being sexy and feeling good!
I have my own style and my own personality. Waering something new always makes me feel better. Having my hair done, my nails and make up is a + boost. And always, my motto! Do whatever you have to do with a smile!!
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Hey Xannyyy,
I like your motto – and i also like the way you think.. dressing up and looking good is definitely a big boost to my self confidence too!
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this really makes sense! Its amazing how you can be sexy without showing your skin. This will make the men look past those trashy girls, and straight at my sexy,sophisticated self!
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Hey Hannah,
I agree.. in fact just showing your skin makes you far from sexy!
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:) all of this is good tips :)
I think that if you have a good sense of who you are and are comfortable with that, then confidence will come hand in hand, and so will sexyness.. but instead of a forced sexyness, the real, natural one :)
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Hey Tay Tay,
I gotta agree with you there. The more confident you feel on the inside, the sexier you appear on the outside :)
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i try to flip my hair slowly and ive seen pretty good results. it catches guys attention :)
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Lol Arianna,
Infact my gay guy friend confessed to me that it even catches his attention. That makes the hair flip a really good trick me thinks :)
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