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8 Tips for Sexually Active Teenage Girls ...

By Melanie

Sex is a good thing. It is something two people do in order to express their love for each other. Whether that love is real or not is something you will see as time goes on. However, it sure does feel like love, doesn’t it? That is what matters. Right? As long as you have thought everything through and have determined you are ready, then that is what counts. Just don’t let guys take advantage of you. Below, I am going to give you 8 tips for teenage girls that are having sex …

8 Use Protection

When you are having sex, you need to use protection. They make condoms for guys, but there are also condoms for females. Don’t forget protection!

7 Get on Birth Control

Are you having sex? Do you use condoms? Well, it would be double protection if you got on birth control as well. I heard that birth control can actually help your skin – depending on the brand.

6 Be Ready to Take Care of a Child

When you are having sex, you should know there are consequences to face. You should be ready to take care of a child – because even condoms don't offer 100% protection.

5 Who Should Bring the Condom?

Okay girls, guys tend to be forgetful (sorry guys) and it is your body. To lower the risk of having sex without a condom, you should bring your own. You know, just in case he forgets his. When things are getting hot and you find that he does not have a condom, you can just break out with yours.

4 What Does an Orgasm Feel like?

When one reaches an orgasm, sexual tension builds and then it is released. You have a combination of mental and physical stimulation that is like nothing else. You will have an increase in heart rate. Basically, when you have an orgasm, you will know it.

3 When You Talk to Your Mom

When you talk to your mom about sex and tell her you’re having sex, you need to think from her point of view. You need to really listen to her and hear what bothers her the most about it. Let her know that you have already thought everything through and you have thought about the consequences.

2 Don’t Move Too Quick

When you have sex with a guy, it should be because you are in love with him and have feelings for him. If the relationship with the guy you lost your virginity to does not work out, then you are eventually going to get another boyfriend. Don’t jump into the bed with him on the first date, just because you can. I know you’ll be feeling hurt if your relationship comes to an end, but take things easy, okay? I don’t want you getting hurt.

1 Don’t Have Sex with an Older Man

We have laws. If anyone above 18 has sex with someone under 18, then that equals trouble. If you care about the guy, then don’t have sex with him until you’re 18. Now, if you’re 14 and a 26-year old wants to have sex with you, because they love you – this isn’t possible. You’re still a little girl, he’s a grown man, even if you've had intercourse before. If he loves you, he’ll wait for you to grow up.

There you have 8 tips to teenage girls that are having sex. Many of you may already know this stuff, but I know there are some girls out there that just need all of the advice they can get. Is there anything else you need to know?

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