10 Signs He's Gay ...

Im dating a guy who has a soft voice dress very well and sometimes he says weird things that a masculine man wouldn't say but he is obsessed with performing the act of oral sex on me. Sometimes he makes me wonder when he wears a leopard scarf in his belt loops. *shoulder shrug*

Ok! Gay or not gay... that is the question: Super nice hair, dresses well... house is cleaner and better decorated than mine. Single dad and boy is he ever good at it. First 2 dates we chatted about his gay friends and how they are always putting the moves on him but how HES NOT GAY. He complimented my Tiffany blue nail polish! hmmmm... lets hear it girls!

Found this thread while searching for answers and decided to share my experience. I have been dating a guy for 2 years. My boyfriend goes into another room to get dressed or just to tuck in his shirt. When he takes a shower, he always closes the door before he taking his clothes off and after his shower he puts on clothes before coming out of the bathroom. I have never seen him naked nor has he ever stayed in the room long enough to see me naked. He keeps his eyes closed when I'm giving him oral sex, but loses his erection as soon as I get on top. The first couple of times we had sex he motioned me to stop talking dirty and stop making noises. He never touches me and we rarely kiss passionately. I have to tell him to keep the light on in the bedroom so I can use the butt plug on him which he loves. He will allow me to use this sex toy on him 3 times times in one night, but on the rare occasion we have straight sex he's good for one time only. He puts his arm around my waist when his family or friends are around. I looked at his browsing history several months ago and saw where he had visited craigslist. When I asked about it he said that he was searching for golf buddies. He told me a story about how much fun he and his ex wife had at a bar that they went to not realizing that it was a gay bar. When I first met him he told me about a former brother-in-law who made a move on him. He also mentioned other men who have made a move on him at bars. I see him texting or typing but when I ask who he is chatting with he says he was deleting unwanted emails When men make advances toward me my boyfriend doesn't say anything. Men have handed me their phone numbers and it doesn't seem to have any affect on him. He won't ask questions nor does he show any interest in what the other guy said to me. On youtube I searched grooming for men and the next day he went out and bought himself his own eyebrow pencil, mascara and an eyelash curler. He told me that before me he had been in a two year relationship with a woman whom he never kissed or had sex with. I didn't believe him then but I do now. He has no male friends and relates better with women. He wants me to see him crane his neck when a busty blond walks by. His yearning facial expression looks so fake that he can't fool anyone. BUT when he thinks I'm not paying attention, he glances at handsome men and always looks at a man's crotch. His eyes don't follow the man but with his peripheral vision he keeps an eye on where they are then discreetly glances in that direction. He supports same sex marriages and gay rights. He has commented that he would like to see the day in which gay men can walk side by side without having people point at them. One day I stated that gay men risk getting HIV because they don't wear condoms when they have sex with strangers and I was taken aback by how quickly he responded, "Yes they do!!" I said not always and he repeated, "Yes they do!!"

MySpace lol

That helped a lot see my friend likes "Justin bieber" (gay) he likes soaps he takes forever to get ready mostly with his hair and he doesn't like to is other peoples toilets he always wants to go home

This list is a confusing mess of paranoid stereotypes and just oddness. 1. I'm pretty sure the whole term "metrosexual" came out specifically due to men like this. 2. Clearly, straight men are scared of gay men celebrities. *rolls eyes* 3. I generally worry about anyone who watches "female" programming (including women) so I'm unable to comment. 4. I think this one might be the only thing on the list that makes sense. If he's lusting at men, he might be at least bi. However, that's the thing. He might be bi. Bisexuals do exist and I resent the idea that one is either straight or gay, with no other options. 5. I know a lot of women like this. 6. Now this is just insulting. Men who care about gay rights are clearly gay? Maybe they have gay friends who they have seen have troubles or maybe they're just actually compassionate human beings. 7. Gamers often like to experience the game from a different character than usual. And some guys pick female avatars in games because other players give them more or because they have to stare at their character's asses for hours at a time... 8. *facepalm* Are we living in a word of stereotypes here? 9. That might actually make sense in some odd way. 10. Even if that's not a sign he's gay, that is a sign he may be a jerk. Dating homophobes should never be done.

Social media-most people prefer people of their own gender apparently/not a reflection of their sexuality unless the guys are obviously hot and homo