12 Signs Its the Right Time to Say I Love You ...

When He/She Understands • They Show You • They Listen • They’re Always Happy around You • Compliments • More ...

12 Signs Its the Right Time to Say I Love You ...
By Melanie • May 28, 2026 MD

You look over at your partner and say “I love you” and they just stare at you like you just told them that the world is about to end. The stutter amongst what they are trying to tell you while your face is turning red. You start to feel the embarrassment come over you, your tongue gets twisted and your chest tightens as you are fighting the tears. Saying “I love you” to the love of your life when the time is not right can ruin everything that was in store for you. The right time to say I love you is…

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12. When He/She Understands

No matter what, does your partner always try to see your side of things? When he/she sees you upset and crying about something, do they try to understand and calm you down to make you feel better. This is a sign that they love you.

11. They Show You

Some people, especially men have trouble expressing their feelings with words. So, sometimes, you just have to watch the way they act around you. Understanding you and taking you to dinner because you have had a long day is a sure sign.

10. They Listen

When you talk, do they listen to you? Do they always look interested in what you have to say? Or do they have the television going while you are trying to listen? If they listen to what you have to say and always look interested in you, then it may be good timing.

9. They’re Always Happy around You

Do they smile? Laugh? Do they get excited when you are around and would rather spend time with you over their friends? Then this is a good sign that they love you too.

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8. Compliments

Whenever you change something about your appearance, do they notice and compliment you? Do they tell you how good you look, even when they catch you at 4am after waking up?

7. Baby You when You’re Sick

Do they care that you are ill and goes out of their way to baby you? If the answer is yes, then we’re pretty sure you have something good going for you.

6. The Family and Friends like You

If the circle of friends like you, then this is a good sign. You can usually tell how a person feels from the way the circle of friends and family treat you.

5. They Appreciate You

If they tell you how proud they are of the achievements you have made and brags about you to the friends and family, then this is a lovely signal. It is a sign of deep appreciation of you.

4. Your Opinion Counts

Asking your opinion and advice is wonderful news. This means he or she cares about what you think and obviously plans on having you around for awhile.

3. They Are Interested in What You Want Too

You both are sitting down watching television and you would like to watch House while he wants to Watch the gaming channel. If they let you watch your show without grudging over it, then it is because they want you to be happy. If they sit through that show with you, then they deserve to have some extra points!

2. They Make You Feel Special

Do they bring you flowers and show that they really care about you? If so, then this one sounds like a keeper.

1. When He/She Says I Love You

The right time to say I love you is definitely when they speak those three words before you!

Finding the right time to say I love you can be tough, but sometimes, you can’t fight back your feelings and it just pops out of your mouth. If this happens, then it is your heart telling you that it is time to say it and you should listen to that heart. Have you ever been let down after you spoke those three words?

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  • Djeef

    2011-01-11T23:03:18.000Z

    Omg your right I love her and am going to her how I feel about her, I guess I was really afraid of her reaction when I tell her but am not going to late fair decide what love is.
  • Anonymous

    2012-02-29T21:32:17.000Z

    i have a question why would a man want to take you to meet his man bring you to events take you out introduce you to friends and do all that could they be just doing this to mess with your feelings but why waste time to do that and they also stick around when you give it up and when you talk about the future and you say as a joke to see there feelings saying o i wont know you from 5 years from now and they get hurt
  • Amanda

    2011-05-29T22:10:17.000Z

    I have been dating a man for just over two months. We have been taking things slow, but in the last week I caught myself thinking about him and the words I love him popped into my head. Its true, too, but I'm so afraid to say so. He has given me all the signs, but I know he's scared of commitment, even though he is open to the possibility, and I don't want to scare him. Do I wait for him to say it first, or do I just tell him how I feel? Is there any good answer to this question?
  • Myra

    2010-04-28T07:10:27.000Z

    All actions speak the words, "I love you and your family" However, I am scared shitless to say anything. I have been happier and more carefree in the last 6 months than I have been in years. I don't know how to express that without knowing what the response is going to be! I am consused and lost. I want to tell him how I feel right away, but I am afraid I might lose him over that......But this man is wondrful and I couldn't ask for a better one!!!!!!
  • Bianca

    2012-01-23T08:36:53.000Z

    Hi der, Im 23 years dating with a 29 year old guy, and He is a Policeman and im also working. The problem is that its almost 3 months dating now but we seem to have more different thingz about each ada but at the same time we,ve got common thing which are the values ive been looking for in a man. But sometimes its hard for me to ask him what is wrong cause his attitude wow it freaks me out and i just keep quiet just to avoid some arguments, cause Ilove him, and even thou i know for sure im not the cause i always apologise and say it was not my intention. is this really the perfect relatinship or im forcing it??
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