There aren’t many things scarier than meeting a new boyfriends parents.
However, with the** **right attitude and outfit, you are very likely to win his parents over. Just follow these 5 tips and before you know it, they will be joining your fan club!
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1. Don’t Ask Him ...
Men have no interest in fashion, and won’t understand what the fuss is about. He’s not being unhelpful, he simply believes that if he likes you his parents will too. Whatever he says, put an effort in to getting it right.
Remember that he is still their little boy, and they want to see that you can look after him and make him happy. So while dressing like a stripper might make him happy, it’s probably best to save that until after and dress a bit conservatively.
Opting for attire that is classy and tasteful is the way to go. Think of a charming blouse paired with a knee-length skirt or slacks. Definitely steer clear of anything that spells out provocative. You want to present yourself as someone who respects herself and the occasion. It's all about first impressions, and you're aiming for appreciative nods, not raised eyebrows. Remember, elegance never fails to leave a lasting impression.
3. Go for Knee Length ...
Knee length skirts always look classy, and can be teamed with a cami, a T- shirt or a jumper to make a casual yet very elegant look. Wide legged pants are also very flattering and parent friendly.
Wear nice underwear, for confidence, and comfortable shoes. Remember that there is nothing wrong with showing your figure, but you aren’t on the pull!
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Pick your accessories carefully, to show hints of what you are like. A conservative outfit allows you to make an impact with everything else, so pick carefully. If you have an unusual bag, take it. It’ll be a good talking point should you need one, and it’ll highlight your style.
I chose a black knee length skirt, and a white T-shirt. I curled my hair a little, and wore simple yet fascinating jewellery. Me and my boyfriend are still together, and his parents later confided that as soon as they saw me they knew that they’d like me.
So, use your outfit to show off what you are like.
Wash your hair, tidy your nails and use a natural make up look. These things are common sense, but you’d be surprised how many people forget. Look presentable, and you will make a good impression.
And the last, but not least, remember, although it’s important to make an effort, if you make their son happy, it will show, and most families will welcome you for that alone.
So, pick an outfit, give yourself enough time to pamper yourself, and you’ll do fantastic!
If you’ve got more tips for meeting the parents, or a funny story to tell, leave a comment. It’s great hearing from you!
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Hello all! I am twenty and my boyfriend is thirty, we've been dating for quite some time now and I am meeting his whole immediate family this weekend and I have no idea on what I should wear. It's an all day party at his mom's house. Some help would be much appreciated.
my boyfriend just invited me to his nans house fir dinner and im very shy and afard to eat what do i do/
I met my boyfriend's parents entirely on accident one time. But, thankfully, it was at a church function. His dad was the church pastor but he hadn't told me that. So when he invited me, I was all for it. He told me it was a "jeans and t-shirt kind of thing" so I wore jeans and a t-shirt and some Airwalks. But because he was there, I made sure I looked good. So when I met them, I was very thankful. It was a great night too; lots of fun. (:
Ok girls I met with his sister.She is 30 and I'm 25 so I picked jeans and a white shirt and a long pretty neckless.I made my hair silky straight.İt was a brunch and we had such a good time,now after 3 months he is taking me to his parents and I'm so nervous.Should I wear a dress or a black pant with a cardigan on top!?
I met my boyfriend through the Internet. I live in New Jersey (USA) and he lives in Puerto Rico. Last year I went to Puerto Rico and I met him for the first time in person after 1 year of talking on the phone and getting to know each other through the Internet. I'm 20, he's 19. We fell in love. Now I'm in Puerto Rico and I'm gonna see him tomorrow, and I'm gonna meet his parents as well. Its very nerve wrecking because he always talks to his parents about me, but they have never seen me. I know I'm gonna be nerveous, but since I live in a completely different place and atmosphere, there will be lots of things to talk about with them.
Honestly, am really nervous and scared, all kind of worried feeling cuz am going to meet my boy friends family for the 1st time and it is so difficult for me to choose which appropriate to wear.....my boy friend is an Arab, and am asian...., not only the dressing thing but also so many other things like culture, life style....etc, i love my boyfriend very much and we have been together over 3 years, and now for the BIG step.....he is also my first so i have no experience in this at all....we have to fly over 13 hours to see his family and i am going to stay in his country 1 month( also for my job)so i think i have to see his family not only one time......so worried, please help me out......many thanks.......
Ok so I am really nervous. The very first time I am going to meet my boyfriends parents is this Friday. Not only is that scary enough but I am also getting in their car and driving to their country house for the four day easter break. I am very excited because I love my boyfriend and I know his sister but so many thoughts are going through my head. He keeps saying oh they will love you but I just dont want to do anything wrong.
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Anonymous:Hello all! I am twenty and my boyfriend is thirty, we've been dating for quite some time now and I am meeting his whole immediate family this weekend and I have no idea on what I should wear. It's an all day party at his mom's house. Some help would be much appreciated.
moomoo:my boyfriend just invited me to his nans house fir dinner and im very shy and afard to eat what do i do/
Sarah:I met my boyfriend's parents entirely on accident one time. But, thankfully, it was at a church function. His dad was the church pastor but he hadn't told me that. So when he invited me, I was all for it. He told me it was a "jeans and t-shirt kind of thing" so I wore jeans and a t-shirt and some Airwalks. But because he was there, I made sure I looked good. So when I met them, I was very thankful. It was a great night too; lots of fun. (:
Delicate:Ok girls I met with his sister.She is 30 and I'm 25 so I picked jeans and a white shirt and a long pretty neckless.I made my hair silky straight.İt was a brunch and we had such a good time,now after 3 months he is taking me to his parents and I'm so nervous.Should I wear a dress or a black pant with a cardigan on top!?
Jen:I met my boyfriend through the Internet. I live in New Jersey (USA) and he lives in Puerto Rico. Last year I went to Puerto Rico and I met him for the first time in person after 1 year of talking on the phone and getting to know each other through the Internet. I'm 20, he's 19. We fell in love. Now I'm in Puerto Rico and I'm gonna see him tomorrow, and I'm gonna meet his parents as well. Its very nerve wrecking because he always talks to his parents about me, but they have never seen me. I know I'm gonna be nerveous, but since I live in a completely different place and atmosphere, there will be lots of things to talk about with them.
Thuy:Honestly, am really nervous and scared, all kind of worried feeling cuz am going to meet my boy friends family for the 1st time and it is so difficult for me to choose which appropriate to wear.....my boy friend is an Arab, and am asian...., not only the dressing thing but also so many other things like culture, life style....etc, i love my boyfriend very much and we have been together over 3 years, and now for the BIG step.....he is also my first so i have no experience in this at all....we have to fly over 13 hours to see his family and i am going to stay in his country 1 month( also for my job)so i think i have to see his family not only one time......so worried, please help me out......many thanks.......
mich:Ok so I am really nervous. The very first time I am going to meet my boyfriends parents is this Friday. Not only is that scary enough but I am also getting in their car and driving to their country house for the four day easter break. I am very excited because I love my boyfriend and I know his sister but so many thoughts are going through my head. He keeps saying oh they will love you but I just dont want to do anything wrong.
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