There aren’t many things scarier than meeting a new boyfriends parents.
However, with the** **right attitude and outfit, you are very likely to win his parents over. Just follow these 5 tips and before you know it, they will be joining your fan club!
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1. Don’t Ask Him ...
Men have no interest in fashion, and won’t understand what the fuss is about. He’s not being unhelpful, he simply believes that if he likes you his parents will too. Whatever he says, put an effort in to getting it right.
Remember that he is still their little boy, and they want to see that you can look after him and make him happy. So while dressing like a stripper might make him happy, it’s probably best to save that until after and dress a bit conservatively.
Opting for attire that is classy and tasteful is the way to go. Think of a charming blouse paired with a knee-length skirt or slacks. Definitely steer clear of anything that spells out provocative. You want to present yourself as someone who respects herself and the occasion. It's all about first impressions, and you're aiming for appreciative nods, not raised eyebrows. Remember, elegance never fails to leave a lasting impression.
3. Go for Knee Length ...
Knee length skirts always look classy, and can be teamed with a cami, a T- shirt or a jumper to make a casual yet very elegant look. Wide legged pants are also very flattering and parent friendly.
Wear nice underwear, for confidence, and comfortable shoes. Remember that there is nothing wrong with showing your figure, but you aren’t on the pull!
Pick your accessories carefully, to show hints of what you are like. A conservative outfit allows you to make an impact with everything else, so pick carefully. If you have an unusual bag, take it. It’ll be a good talking point should you need one, and it’ll highlight your style.
I chose a black knee length skirt, and a white T-shirt. I curled my hair a little, and wore simple yet fascinating jewellery. Me and my boyfriend are still together, and his parents later confided that as soon as they saw me they knew that they’d like me.
So, use your outfit to show off what you are like.
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5. Brush up ...
Wash your hair, tidy your nails and use a natural make up look. These things are common sense, but you’d be surprised how many people forget. Look presentable, and you will make a good impression.
And the last, but not least, remember, although it’s important to make an effort, if you make their son happy, it will show, and most families will welcome you for that alone.
So, pick an outfit, give yourself enough time to pamper yourself, and you’ll do fantastic!
If you’ve got more tips for meeting the parents, or a funny story to tell, leave a comment. It’s great hearing from you!
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I met my boyfriend's parents entirely on accident one time. But, thankfully, it was at a church function. His dad was the church pastor but he hadn't told me that. So when he invited me, I was all for it. He told me it was a "jeans and t-shirt kind of thing" so I wore jeans and a t-shirt and some Airwalks. But because he was there, I made sure I looked good. So when I met them, I was very thankful. It was a great night too; lots of fun. (:
hi, when meeting a boyfriends mom and dad. dont freak if he is asking you to go he must like you or he would be your boyfriend.. lol so if the first time dont go so well there always a nexxt time.. if he lves you he would never leave you.. or brake up with you.. so wear what you wear and be your self.:) good luck
Honestly, am really nervous and scared, all kind of worried feeling cuz am going to meet my boy friends family for the 1st time and it is so difficult for me to choose which appropriate to wear.....my boy friend is an Arab, and am asian...., not only the dressing thing but also so many other things like culture, life style....etc, i love my boyfriend very much and we have been together over 3 years, and now for the BIG step.....he is also my first so i have no experience in this at all....we have to fly over 13 hours to see his family and i am going to stay in his country 1 month( also for my job)so i think i have to see his family not only one time......so worried, please help me out......many thanks.......
I'm meeting my boyfriends family tonight. I am so nervous and have no idea what to wear because I really don't want to over dress, nor underdress. Its hard chosing what to wear, but these tips have really helped. They are common sense but totally helpful. Best of luck to all other girls meeting their bf's family!(:
hi, ive met someone whom i am preparing for meeting his parents. He is a mamas boy type, im scared. Im preparing for that...i really like him..thats why i want to make his parents like me too...
my boyfriend just invited me to his nans house fir dinner and im very shy and afard to eat what do i do/
Hi, I have met my boyfriend's parents briefly, but this weekend is his sister's graduation party. I will be alone with his mom the night before the party for like 5 hours before he gets home and will be attending the graduation ceremony with his family. I have no clue what to wear! Help me!
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Sarah:I met my boyfriend's parents entirely on accident one time. But, thankfully, it was at a church function. His dad was the church pastor but he hadn't told me that. So when he invited me, I was all for it. He told me it was a "jeans and t-shirt kind of thing" so I wore jeans and a t-shirt and some Airwalks. But because he was there, I made sure I looked good. So when I met them, I was very thankful. It was a great night too; lots of fun. (:
ashley...:hi, when meeting a boyfriends mom and dad. dont freak if he is asking you to go he must like you or he would be your boyfriend.. lol so if the first time dont go so well there always a nexxt time.. if he lves you he would never leave you.. or brake up with you.. so wear what you wear and be your self.:) good luck
Thuy:Honestly, am really nervous and scared, all kind of worried feeling cuz am going to meet my boy friends family for the 1st time and it is so difficult for me to choose which appropriate to wear.....my boy friend is an Arab, and am asian...., not only the dressing thing but also so many other things like culture, life style....etc, i love my boyfriend very much and we have been together over 3 years, and now for the BIG step.....he is also my first so i have no experience in this at all....we have to fly over 13 hours to see his family and i am going to stay in his country 1 month( also for my job)so i think i have to see his family not only one time......so worried, please help me out......many thanks.......
paulina:I'm meeting my boyfriends family tonight. I am so nervous and have no idea what to wear because I really don't want to over dress, nor underdress. Its hard chosing what to wear, but these tips have really helped. They are common sense but totally helpful. Best of luck to all other girls meeting their bf's family!(:
lileth:hi, ive met someone whom i am preparing for meeting his parents. He is a mamas boy type, im scared. Im preparing for that...i really like him..thats why i want to make his parents like me too...
moomoo:my boyfriend just invited me to his nans house fir dinner and im very shy and afard to eat what do i do/
Hope:Hi, I have met my boyfriend's parents briefly, but this weekend is his sister's graduation party. I will be alone with his mom the night before the party for like 5 hours before he gets home and will be attending the graduation ceremony with his family. I have no clue what to wear! Help me!
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