19 Signs Your Crush Likes Someone else ...

By Melanie

19 Signs Your Crush Likes Someone else ...

Mainly, I base my blogs on girls and girl products. However, I understand that guys, just like girls, are always in need of advice, especially when it comes to the dating life. This blog is mainly aimed at teenagers, however, this will work for adults as well…

So, girls (and guys), why should you waste your time on someone when they like someone else? We know, you may think he is Prince Charming or The Most Beautiful Girl Ever and you two are meant to be together, but if your crush likes someone else, then you may want to think twice about what you are doing as you do not need to deal with heartache over someone that is “just not that into you.”

Oh, did you just say that you do not know if he or she likes someone else?

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1

Look This Way...

Look This Way... When you are in school and you come across your crush walking in the hallway, what is he/she doing? Are they looking at another person past you? If he/she is looking at you, then this is a good sign. However, if they do not even notice you are in the world and is looking at someone else at that moment, then that is a bad sign.

2

Talk the Talk

Talk the Talk Does your crush ever stare at you as you are in class? If he/she does not talk to you when they sit next to you in class and they talk to the other guy/girl next to them, then this is also another sign that they are not into you like you are into them.

3

Paying Attention

Paying Attention Does your crush pay you any attention at all? When a crush does not pay attention to you, then this is definitely not a good sign. Especially if they are paying attention to someone else.

4

Talks about a Girlfriend

Talks about a Girlfriend Does the crush talk about their girlfriend or boyfriend a lot? This is also a sign that they like someone else.

UPD:

Talking about their significant other frequently can be a clear indication that your crush has feelings for someone else. It could also mean that they are in a committed relationship and not available. Pay attention to how they talk about their partner - if they seem happy and content, it's likely that they are not looking for someone else. However, if they mention any issues or seem distant when talking about their relationship, it could be a sign that they are not fully invested and may have feelings for someone else. Keep an eye out for any other signs that may confirm your suspicions.

5

Ignores You

Ignores You Does your crush know you like them, but still stays away from you with someone else? Again, this is no good.

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6

Appearance

Appearance Is he or she starting to put a lot of time into their outer appearance, but you can tell that it is for someone else. (on this one, you can just tell).

7

Who They Hang out with...

Who They Hang out with... Do they hang out with the other person at all times of the day in school? This include class, lunch and before school.

8

Not a Family Member...

Not a Family Member... Have you seen your crush with someone else in public and you know for a fact that the “someone else” was not a family member?

UPD:

It can be difficult to tell if your crush is interested in someone else or not. If you have seen them with someone else in public, it can be a sign that your crush likes someone else. However, it is important to remember that the other person could be a friend, a colleague or a family member. It is important to be aware of your own feelings and to take the time to understand the situation before you jump to any conclusions. It is also important to remember that it is okay to feel disappointed if your crush likes someone else, but it is important to take care of your own mental health and to focus on yourself.

9

Time to Move on

Time to Move on Have you asked your crush out, but they told you no? If so, then obviously, you should just move on and stop waiting around. If it happens in the future, then it happens.

10

Looking for Someone else

Looking for Someone else When you are in public hanging out with your crush, are they constantly looking behind their back as if they are looking for someone else other than you?

11

Avoiding You

Avoiding You Do they constantly avoid your calls, but does not avoid your friends calls?

12

Hiding a Secret

Hiding a Secret Does he/she sound like they are hiding a secret when you are spending time together? This will include stuttering a lot when they normally would not.

UPD:

Sometimes, you might notice their eyes darting away when certain topics come up, or they become especially evasive about plans and people in their life. Pay attention to whether they're quick to change the subject or include vague details when asked about who they've been spending time with. This could be a sign that your crush is trying to keep their interactions with someone else under wraps, and the ambiguity is their way of keeping you in the dark while they nurture another potential romance.

13

Feelings

Feelings Sometimes, you can just “feel” it when your crush likes someone else. Do you feel as if your crush likes someone? Well, you can pay attention to all of those signs above, but the one true way to really know if he/she likes someone else would simply be to ask them.

14

Just Friends…

Just Friends… Is your crush one of your good friends and has told people on many occasions that you’re, “Just Friends”? Chances are he is into someone else and doesn’t want to ruin the friendship you already have.

UPD:

Hearing those two words can be like a mini heartbreak every single time. It's important to remember that friendship is a precious bond, and sometimes that's all it can be. Don't let yourself be strung along by a thread of false hope. If he's gushing about someone else or changing the topic when you're getting a bit too close, it's a sign to protect your heart. Be brave and look for love where it's given freely, not just where you wish it would be.

15

Like Family

Like Family Do you watch the ABC Family show, “Twisted”? Well Tyler recently asked Danny if he and Jo were an item, so Danny said they weren’t and that Jo was like a sister to him. Oh, what a blow to sweet Jo’s heart that was! Jo had a crush on Danny and really thought there could be something between them, but when she heard him say she was like a sister, she knew it was time to move on!

16

Asks You for Dating Advice

Asks You for Dating Advice This can either go two ways, he may ask you for dating advice because he likes someone else, or he likes you. If you’ve already seen some of these other signs that he likes another girl, then he is probably asking you about her. On the other hand, if you don’t see any of these signs, he may be asking you dating advice so he can get to know more about you!

17

He Suddenly Has New Interests…

He Suddenly Has New Interests… Didn’t he just say he hates country music and now he’s asking you to keep Luke Bryan on the radio? If your crush suddenly has new interests that he used to put down or never talked about before, signs are he likes someone else who enjoys these interests as well.

18

Texts or Talks on the Phone More

Texts or Talks on the Phone More Is his phone constantly buzzing from all of the text messages or phone calls he’s been receiving lately? If he isn’t usually the type to text or talk on the phone all day and is now, well you might want to look for a new crush!

19

He Gets Jealous

He Gets Jealous If your crush starts saying things like, “Why is she with him?” or “She can do so much better!”, it’s a sure sign that he is jealous and really likes this girl. That being said, if you still want to give it a try, give him some time to get over her before you let him know how you feel.

Alright, girls and guys, I just gave you nineteen signs to watch to know if your crush likes someone else. If you find that your crush does like some other person, then you should just move on.

However, if the two of you are dating, then you do need to make sure it is the fact that they like someone else and is not just something bothering them (not pertaining to you).

Also, when you hear rumors, you should know that school relationships are harsh as there are many that will try to break the two of you up. Do not go off of the deep end over those rumors until you have spoken to your crush about them (or in some cases, have let them get to know you better). It’s a tough world out there and you will go through some heartaches, so don’t let this get you down.

There will always be someone great out there waiting for you …

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Hi i don’t know if my crushes friend likes me because he has started to tease me but in a joking way and him and my crush didn’t really like me in the past they ... See more didn’t want nothing to do with me but now i feel as though its changed for example when my crush sometimes and my crushes friend always comment on facebook on my status now when i post something on nearlly everything i post my crushes friend writes no or just yes on them for no reason like it has nothing to do with the post but he still writes it and only once my crush copied him and did that. Like if they really didn’t care they wouldn’t bother to even write that. Then i don’t know if i should but i comment back on my post and say the opposite of what they say to play around with them. Also i heard that if a guy teases you he likes you but i don’t know. When i see my crush say once he was about to hop out of his car and then i was walking by and he did definately see me and as soon as he did he quickly went back in the car and closed the door. Also my CRUSH i heard thought one of my posts to my brother was funny as he said to my brother that he thought what i wrote was funny and when i see him also we kinda have moments but he doesn’t smile he just stares for ages. But these little things should mean something even the slightest bit right? as from nothing to now parts of things do you think he is developing a crush on me too? What should i do? advice would be appreciated thanks

I just met a guy a few days ago in my college. I've seen him a few times and I've noticed that he's always staring at me, so I ended up liking him. I don't know his name yet because I haven't had the chance to talk to him yet. Does it mean anything at all if he stares or is that just coincidental in this case?

Hi ... so I'm 19, my best friend is 21, and I've had the biggest crush on him for a little over a year now .. we met about a year and a half ago. We went from meeting to friends, within a month we kind of became friends with benefits for 2 months (no sex), then we stopped and have been best friends for the past year. I'm not going to lie, I am completely in love with him. for the past year this is how it's been ... - we spend basically all our free time together - he's always play fighting me - he's always tickling me or poking me - we live 40 minutes apart - we talk on the phone at least a half hour every day - he texts me almost every morning - he asks me what i'm doing every day - he knows all of my favorite things - he can tell my mood just by talking to me or looking at me - we can spend hours together and never get sick of each other - he knows exactly how to cheer me up all the time - it seems like he gets jealous if i hangout or talk to other guys - he gets mad if i don't invite him places, when i hangout with other people He's asked me in the past if I liked him more than a friend and I've said yes, so he knows i like him (or liked him at least), but he obviously doesn't like me the same. For the past week he's been on a search for a girlfriend, asking our other friends to find him one, etc. When my name was mentioned he asked why and if i told them to say that, which i guess was basically a no. I'm not supposed to know anything about this search for a girlfriend, but my other guy friends tell me everything lol. Plus the past week he has been a little stand offish, like trying not to call me or text me everyday, which hasn't worked out very well for him bc he always ends up texting me with a random question or something every day. I know once he finds a girlfriend, we will never be able to be as close as we are now and I am not ready for that. We've been so close for over a year now and no girls have been obstructing that so it will suck when one does. I'm not sure what to do with this situation, try to make us more than friends, or try to move on? please help :/

So my crush is a senior and a lot of girls want him. I think he liked me a year ago but not anymore because that was a long time ago. We are still friends and talk sometimes, the thing is I'm not sure if I should let him know that I fancy him through his best friend who is quite close with me.

Love is a complicated matter, it destroys you and at the same time makes you almighty...

#12 is confusing though, how do you know that they don't want you to talk to them? Or that they are too scared to talk to you.

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