The handsome man who smiles at you on the train every morning, or the cute guy at the sub shop. There is always someone whose number you're longing for, but how do you get it? It's a minefield of do's and don'ts, so here's my top ten tips to get his phone number in the simplest way!
1. Be Confident...
Act like you know you want his number. List your good points in your head, and wear your sexiest work clothes. He'll pick up on how confident and happy you are, and is much more likely to give you his number!
2. Work Him out...
Does he text someone all the time, or is he wearing a wedding ring? His behaviour will give away clues as to whether he is single or not, so make sure you pick up on them!
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3. Smile...
People are 80% more likely to talk to you if you are smiling, and you are much more likely to get what you want, too! Practise your best smile, and go for it!
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A genuine smile can be your greatest asset—it's a universal symbol of friendliness and approachability. When you flash those pearly whites, it not only boosts your own mood but also makes you more attractive to others. It sends a signal that you’re open to conversation and positive engagement. So, while you're out there making eye contact and showcasing your approachable demeanor, let your smile break the ice. It might just be the nudging hint he needs to feel comfortable sharing his digits with a cheery new acquaintance like you.
4. Flutter Your Eyelashes...
Bite your lip, touch his arm, expose your wrists, flick your hair...whatever your trademark move is, flirt! It's a flawless way to get his number, and to win his heart!
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Engaging in a bit of innocent flirtation is both fun and effective. Twirl your hair around your finger or laugh heartily at his jokes—it sends a message without saying a word. If you feel a spark, make those fleeting moments count. Light touches can create a connection that prompts him to reach for his phone, eager to make sure this isn't your last encounter. Remember, confidence is captivating—be sure to lock eyes to show you're genuinely interested. After making such a memorable impression, you might just find him asking for your number instead.
If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.
5. Be Feminine...
Show off your girly charms, and you are sure to catch his attention. Whether you show off your legs or use your brightest pink lipgloss, show him that you have the feminine side that all guys love.
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Embrace your soft and nurturing qualities, too. A gentle touch on the arm or a caring smile can speak volumes about your compassionate nature. Remember, femininity isn't just about appearance; it's also about demeanor. Display your empathetic side by listening to him and showing interest in what he has to say. This thoughtful attention might just be the thing that encourages him to share his number without you even having to ask.
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6. Feed Him!
Its true, the way to a mans heart is through his stomach. So take some homemade cakes on your journey, or offer him a sandwich. Just make sure its the best!
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Sharing food is not only nurturing but it also creates an opportunity for conversation. Whip up something that you're really good at, whether it's a batch of cookies or a special savory treat – your culinary skills may impress him! When you offer a homemade snack, you not only fill his stomach but also show your caring and thoughtful side. Make sure to engage him in talk about food preferences or fun cooking stories as you eat. This way, he's more likely to remember you, and who knows, he might just offer his number in exchange for the recipe!
7. Make Him Laugh!
If you can't feed him, make him laugh! Tell him your favourite joke, or about your nightmare date last week. Laughing is very bonding, and men rated women's laughs as one of the sexiest things about them!
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Laughter truly is the way to a man's heart. Share a hilarious mishap that happened to you recently, or even better, find common ground in a shared sense of humor over a viral meme or a classic comic. When he sees that sparkle in your eyes as you chuckle together, it creates an instant connection. Plus, a witty sense of humor suggests intelligence and confidence—traits that are highly attractive. Just remember to keep it light and fun; a hearty laugh can leave a lasting impression that makes him eager to see you again.
8. Make up a Story...
Okay, so you've been dared to get phone numbers. Or to kiss him on the cheek. You need to bring the sexiest man to a bar....Use your imagination, and you've suddenly got a reason to talk to him, and to get his number and meet again!
9. Make a Promise...
Does he wear a football shirt, or listen to a certain band? Notice something about him, and get hold of some tickets. Offer him your spare, and you've got a very sexy date, without all the stress!
10. Ask for Help...
Is your bag extra heavy today, or have you got no free hands to open the door? Ask him for help, and his ego will ensure he helps you. Then, of course he'll have to give you his number so you can pay him back...
So there are my top tips for how to get his phone number, and how to make the best impression! Remember to be classy, flirty and fun, so that in years to come, you can tell your family how you met your other half!
Have you got a good way to get his number? Please let me know!
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Xannyyy: Be Confident! Is manly what I believe would stard the whole story... By being confident you'll achive more and always wearing a dazzling smile :) Laugh is what I search once I'm getting to know the guy as I'm one who laught to have a good laugh and jokes all the time!! :)
Tavia: Hi Kati! Well I was never in a situation where I had to ask his phone number, better said I was in many situation where I didn't want to give mine. Can you pls make a post about that. I'm already blank cause I dunno what excuses I can make :)
Serena: That smiling bit really works. And saying hello, looking a bit friendly.. and being a bit of a jokester. Find that it breaks the ice when he laughs at something you say (hopefully) and you can turn and flash him pearly whites
Tavia: You welcome Sheila, and I really hope someone will do that post someday :)
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