This is some inside baseball here ladies, so pay attention. If you really, and I mean really, want to get a guy to like you then take this advice to heart. Men, whether they be teenagers or older, are not nearly as complicated as you like to think; so read along with me and learn how to use this to your advantage!
1. Keep your thoughts zen …
Guys like girls that they can understand. I don’t mean dumb yourself down, but rather un-complicate things when you can. Don’t play head games and don’t turn everything into an episode of Oprah. If a guy thinks you’re too much trouble it will be very difficult to get them to like you.
2. Be yourself (the real one) …
Everyone hands out this piece of advice; yet it is the one that you ladies seem to ignore the most. Don’t be who you think the guy wants you to be, just be yourself. Guys can see right through the fake bit, and if you are attracted to the type of man who wants a phony then you might want to reevaluate your standards.
3. Don’t be afraid of letting your hair down …
Now this one can be a little specific depending on the man, but in general (myself included) we like women who are not afraid to get a bit dirty. If it’s summertime and you invite a guy to go hiking with you, for the love of god wear a T-shirt not a tube top. Repeat after me, lip gloss is okay for outdoor activities lipstick is not. Know the difference.
4. You have a brain, use it …
If I have to date one more woman whose depth of conversation only includes celebrity gossip I may need to reevaluate my gender preference. You don’t need to be a rocket scientist to attract a man, but you do need to at least have something of value to say. If you’re interested in sports, that’s great; politics, even better. Just remember number two, say what you want to say not what you think he wants you to say.
5. An interesting hobby …
Everyone needs to have something interesting that they like to do. When you let a guy know that you are passionate about your hobby it lets him know that you are an interesting and dynamic person. This is also a great way to meet guys who have similar interests.
#2 is so important. Why would you want someone to like you for someone you’re not? Be yourself – always!
your blogposts arer my favorite for sure! ;) you always have these great tips and it’s very organized i like it!
If you have to get this guy to like you, then he’s not you guy, babe
waz up
that is hard
well theres this guy that i have liked for along time and its hard because sometimes he will flirt with me and everyone around notices and then another day he could just go on and hardly talk to me and I dont know if he likes me or not. Please help!!
Bridget: I have the smae problem, why do guys like you one minute and not the next? Then change back again? I think he might not be sure whether you like him back or not. So, try subtly flirting with him.