Mainly, I base my blogs on girls and girl products. However, I understand that guys, just like girls, are always in need of advice, especially when it comes to the dating life. This blog is mainly aimed at teenagers, however, this will work for adults as well…
So, girls (and guys), why should you waste your time on someone when they like someone else? We know, you may think he is Prince Charming or The Most Beautiful Girl Ever and you two are meant to be together, but if your crush likes someone else, then you may want to think twice about what you are doing as you do not need to deal with heartache over someone that is “just not that into you.”
Oh, did you just say that you do not know if he or she likes someone else?
Sign #13
When you are in school and you come across your crush walking in the hallway, what is he/she doing? Are they looking at another person past you? If he/she is looking at you, then this is a good sign. However, if they do not even notice you are in the world and is looking at someone else at that moment, then that is a bad sign.
Sign #12
Does your crush ever stare at you as you are in class? If he/she does not talk to you when they sit next to you in class and they talk to the other guy/girl next to them, then this is also another sign that they are not into you like you are into them.
Sign #11
Does your crush pay you any attention at all? When a crush does not pay attention to you, then this is definitely not a good sign. Especially if they are paying attention to someone else.
Sign #10
Does the crush talk about their girlfriend or boyfriend a lot? This is also a sign that they like someone else.
Sign #9
Does your crush know you like them, but still stays away from you with someone else? Again, this is no good.
Sign #8
Is he or she starting to put a lot of time into their outer appearance, but you can tell that it is for someone else. (on this one, you can just tell).
Sign #7
Do they hand out with the other person at all times of the day in school? This include class, lunch and before school.
Sign #6
Have you seen your crush with someone else in public and you know for a fact that the “someone else” was not a family member?
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my best friend is a guy and when he talks to me he usaully puts his hand on my shoulder and rubs it all the way down to my hand. I like him but does he like me?
hi i have this big crush on this guy in my clas s well few of it. but i’ve only talked to him like 2 times n he is really funny n one of the people you have to get along with. i don’t know what to do cuz i have no excuse to even talk to him or anything.
Bella,
He’s in your class! What better excuse to go up to him and talk. If you can’t think of anything else, just talk about the classes you take together or your teachers…anything! Besides, if he’s the kind of guy who is funny and you just have to get along with, I’m sure he’ll do most of the talking
i like this guy and he knows it and like i only talked to him a few times and he always stares what should i do
Anna,
You’ve already spoken to him so the hard part is done. Now all you need to do is hang out with him and do fun stuff. If he likes you too, he’ll hopefully ask you out. :)
There’s this guy that I like but he has this friend that’s a girl who seems like she likes him, and from my view, it looks like he likes her back. I’ve tried to kick him out of my mind, but it’s apparentlly not working. (Sorry if there’s any spelling errors, but I’m rushing) Yet, I see him stealing glances at me during class, and I think he might like me a bit too, but I don’t want to hurt that other girl’s feelings just because I went out with him, but I don’t want to lose him either. I’m not sure what I should do…I’m at the state of panic. Help!
Jess,
You’re really sweet caring about this other girl’s feelings. It all comes down to who HE likes and he can’t like both of you. You’re basing everything on what you can see and not on what you know. I think you need to become friends with this guy to figure out who he likes. If he likes you, well that’s great. If he doesn’t well that’s ok too.
There’s this boy from my class that I have a crush on, and I really want to become friends with him to see if he likes me, and if not, I want at least to stand by his side no matter what… but I’m too nervous to talk to him. I’m afraid that if I talk to him, there’s going to be an awkward silence, and he’s always with his friend. How am I going to start a conversation when there’s so many things that could go wrong?
~Jasmine
If he’s in your class, use one of your classes or professors as a subject of conversation. Does he play some kind of sport? Maybe you could talk about that.
I’M HOPELESS. Absalutely HoPeLeSs. I can’t talk to him without chickening out at the last minute when I finally DECIDE to talk to him.
He plays a sport;soccer, but I don’t have much knowledge on that subject. His best friend is a girl, and she sticks by his side all the time…well, except for one period (which I have with him) but in that period, we sit at completely different sides of the room, and they’re our ASSIGNED seats, since our class is too loud…>.<
(Sorry if this is kinda long… -.-’)
I don’t have any idea what to talk to him about. I don’t know if he has any professors that I have, and if I ask for what our homework was…well that’s really cliche, and he’ll know for sure that I like him. How do I confront him casually without being blank minded about the subject?
hi! i have a crush, but he’s older than me and we’re not in the same class…i really wanted to talk to him but i don’t know how, i’m always nervous when he’s around…he’s the silent type of guy and sometimes when other people would talk to him he wouldn’t answer…sometimes i would catch him looking at me but im not sure…
PLEASE!!! I NEED HELP!!! WHAT SHALL I DO???!!! I CAN’T BEAR IT ANYMORE!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Anna,
One thing is for sure. Being a distant admirer is not getting you anywhere. So you might as well talk to him. Start off with a smile, maybe a hi. Then you can graduate on to small talk. Being nervous is normal. Just don’t let it show :)
Jackie,
Hmmm why don’t you just start off with a smile and a hi when you see him. A smile is as good a conversation starter as any. Do you know if he’s on Facebook? You could always add him after sometime ofcourse.
theres this guy that i like and he has a girlfriend he did like me but im younger than him he 14 and im 12 the only reason why he didnt want to go out with me is because he didnt want to ruin his rep but i realy like him so much he invited me to his houes but didnt call me back at all so i couldnt go ive tryed to get him out of my head for weeks scince the first day of school and i cant he talks to me sometimes but i have one period with him ands thats choir and hes sometimes on the bus but I NEED HELP BADLY theres a halloween dance and i dont have a date
Bella honey you’ve got to move on! I’ve said this once and I’ll say it again! There are plenty of fish in the sea. Why fall for the one guy who has a girlfriend?!
hi , i just recently found out that the guy i like has been using me to get to my best friend because he likes her right now i dont know what to do please help me
Anna,
You should throw something at this guy or trip him over! What a jerk! Atleast you know his true intentions now. So take your best friend and run far far away not before giving him a piece of your mind ofcourse…
the guy i like said he was sorry for being a jerk. My best friend went up to him to ask him out to the dance but he said no , you Know sarah whats going on with me and anna and he asked me to the dance and i said ill think about it but i really dont know what to say
Anna,
If you like him, go ahead to the dance! Your best friend will totally understand I’m sure :)