Mainly, I base my blogs on girls and girl products. However, I understand that guys, just like girls, are always in need of advice, especially when it comes to the dating life. This blog is mainly aimed at teenagers, however, this will work for adults as well…
So, girls (and guys), why should you waste your time on someone when they like someone else? We know, you may think he is Prince Charming or The Most Beautiful Girl Ever and you two are meant to be together, but if your crush likes someone else, then you may want to think twice about what you are doing as you do not need to deal with heartache over someone that is “just not that into you.”
Oh, did you just say that you do not know if he or she likes someone else?
Sign #13
When you are in school and you come across your crush walking in the hallway, what is he/she doing? Are they looking at another person past you? If he/she is looking at you, then this is a good sign. However, if they do not even notice you are in the world and is looking at someone else at that moment, then that is a bad sign.
Sign #12
Does your crush ever stare at you as you are in class? If he/she does not talk to you when they sit next to you in class and they talk to the other guy/girl next to them, then this is also another sign that they are not into you like you are into them.
Sign #11
Does your crush pay you any attention at all? When a crush does not pay attention to you, then this is definitely not a good sign. Especially if they are paying attention to someone else.
Heyy …
Ive likeed this boy since i started high school a year and a half ago.
everyone always used to say he liked me, but i never was brave enough to ask him out,
Then i liked another boy for quite a few months and was very close to asking him out as we get along really well and he was my best male friend. But then my bestfriend asked him out.
So i decided to go back to liking the original boy.
Over the last few months i have really realised how much i love him.
So i got one of his friends to ask him who he liked , But he said it was this really horrible girl at school.
I am heartbroken
I don’t know whether to just tell him how i feel or keep my feelings hidden away and move on ?
Some of my friends have been telling me that it’s now or never and i should tell him my true feelings, But some of them have said it is a bad idea to tell him as it could ruin our friendship.
Please help ASAP as i need to know what to do at school tomorrow !!!
Thanks ,, Abbey
Hey Abbey,
I don’t think it will necessarily ruin your friendship if you tell him. I mean sure if you put him in a spot where he’s got to like you back or ask you out or something like that, then it possibly could. However, if you just let him know that you like him and that you wanted him to know that, without really expecting much in return (and truly mean it), then I think things should play out.
Also, just because he likes some other girl, doesn’t mean he can’t start liking your or doesn’t already like you a little bit! I say you should tell him!
A friend of mine has the potential to be something more with me. But there is this other girl who he has been friends with for a long time, and they are both in a band together, and on the tennis team together. They made a pact before prom, that if neither of them could find a date then they would go with each other. He found out that I was going to ask him, and he wrote me saying that he felt bad, and asked if it was okay if he asked me instead. Now we are going to prom together. But is that where it ends- just going to prom together? Are they more involved than we are? Should I just give up and let bygons be bygons?
Sincerely,
Helen
Hey Helen,
it really depends on how things at the prom honey. It really doesn’t have to end there. And as for how involved the two of them are, it sounds to me that they are far more involved – but only as friends. I know i’ve had my guy bff accompany me as my plus 1 to many events just because we’re comfortable with each other and it’s convenient. That doesn’t mean that there’s anything between us.
hey..
Ok im in need of some help here… My best guy friend is Bi, going striaght but of course will always kinda be Bi. i have had a crush on him since i met him the begining of this year of 9th grade. we have been great friends, Had fun moments making jokes, laughing. He gets mad easily in ways and has had bfs and gfs. hes been honest with me and my other friend which of course hes friends with too. But i havent completly told him everthing i want to tell him, i want to tell him i like him but it will only make me look stupid and i luv him as a best friend. we have been in little fights and wont talk for 2 days but thats the lonest we ever went without talking, and now we havent talked for 2 1/2 weeks, but im getting ahead of myself let me tell me story. we skip lunch and walk around talking pretty much every day in school. and we have fun doing it… but one day he said to me that we should just go out and stuff bc were always together and stuff. i think i almost faintd hearing that from him and i paused and ws silent for a minute then kinda gave him a “haha” and we quickly moved on to another subject to get off of what he said. we talked and laughed the rest of the day but never brought up what he said again. i txted my best friend later that day and paniced and told her everything and asked for advice.. i soon found out he was txting her at the same time about the same thing and he was asking her for advice to.. i was happy to hear he liked me bc i liked him to. but it soon went into a fight bc he found out my best friend told me what he was telling her and he then denyed he said all that stuff to my friend and posted a real nasty msg on my facebook. i deleted it the second he posted it. i cried bc i had lost the best friend i loved. but in all that i gave up and told him i liked him he never replied to my txt and blamed me for spreding a rummer of him liking me when i only told my friend. but that never ends up well. i know what he said and im sure he knows what he said and i can see he struggles the same as i do each day we dont talk to eachother. i dont want to be the one to talk first and get rejected in a nasty way. im affraid. hes my only crush and will be intill we talk about whats going on and find out whats in his mind. my friend was like hes a boy and boys say things. forget him. and im like i cant. i cried for him i just cant stand without having him even as a friend. PLEASE HELP ME i need advice asap… idk what to do.
Dnt worry it’s just a guy thing they hold grudges for a while longer than girls and if he
is going to cause you this much pain because he can’t fess up to what he said then he’s not werth your love
Hey Amanda,
in all possibilities, your crush over-reacted to things and just doesn’t know how to apologize. Maybe you should talk to him or write him a note saying that you really miss him and that though you’re sorry for what happened, you really do like him. And that if he doesn’t want to go around with you, you are fine with that and understand, but you don’t want to lose a best friend just because of some lousy misunderstanding.
I work with this guy and I reelly reelly like him. I like evryone part of him. Except for the fact that I can’t tell him because of fear of rejection. I mean wetslk and he makes me laugh. Heven let’s me call him dairy queen and he doesn’t get mad. I call him dairy queen cause he has a d and a q in his name so yea. Can anyone help me sincerely
naketa
Naketa,
Not knowing how old you are, From understanding you dont want to get rejected i understand how that is. I think you should tell him but not look like your exspecting any feedback of feelings for you, give him a chance to know you like him. tell him you like him a lot and just wanted him to understand you like him like that and im sure if anything you two should still be good friends.
Thanks I’m 14 n we tutor kids together I love being around him but I get so nervous mii hart starts to race I think about him all the time and my feelings for him are so overwhelming they make me want tocry