Falling in love is a wonderful thing that nearly everyone out there gets to experience at some point. I admit that it is hard to tell when a guy is falling in love with you. They can send such mixed signals! Below, I am going to give you 12 signs he is falling in love with you. These are 12 of the things I noticed about my husband before I married him and as you know the rest is history …
12. He goes out of his way for you
Does he go out of his way for you? Sure, he could always take a shortcut, but does he go that extra mile just because it is something that will make you happy? If so, then this is a sure sign that you have a guy who is falling for you!
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11. He loves spending time with you
It just goes without saying that when you’re in love, you enjoy spending time with the person you are in love with. Instead of going out with his buddies, does he decide to spend time with you? Instead of doing one of his favorite hobbies, would he prefer spending time with you doing one of your favorite hobbies? If so, then watch out…he may just be falling for you!
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10. He smiles at you
Sure, guys smile…especially when they are trying to get some and I put that one lightly. However, you can tell a caring smile from a flirty smile. Does he smile at you with that twinkle in his eye? That smile is definitely something to look into.
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awww. This is too sweet. It almost makes me sad that I don’t have anyone at the moment. I love the last one. ” You can just tell”.
All the things you have mentioned matched my male best friend (except for the make love part ofcourse) rather than my ex who still claims to be in love with me. Sad!
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awww Fatima, don’t you worry .. we single ladies shall find our knights in their shiny armors too! Soon someday. And as for your guy bff, there are just some friendships that grow to be as strong as the best of love relationships! i’m sure you’re extremely glad for having him! (and thanks for the idea on the girl version)
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for sure girl me tooooooooo hhhaha lol but hope we find those special ones coz some seem to be lucky…..
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This article was great! I could match a lot of the signs to my own life right now which is reassuring because i was confused about one of my guy friends. Oh and I love the pictures that went along with each sign.
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Heya there hummingbird..
isn’t it wonderful when suddenly you see things more clearly :)
and like both Amy and you have pointed out, the pictures are just perfect!
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You should also do a girl version of this. 12 signs you’re falling in love with him. I always seem to hold back on my feelings. I could use those tips :)
Thanks!
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I second that! :)
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Great post! Even though I’m an old married lady (har har) I still enjoyed reading this. Guys can be so hard to read sometimes!
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Hey Sonya, glad you enjoyed it…
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This is soo true.. love the chosen images– too cute!
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Thanks Primrose,
Along with all the constructive criticism, we even like hearing from our readers when we do a good job. ;D
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I love the pictures chosen! They-are-gorgeous!!!
Lovely article as well
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Amy,
Me tooo! Especially that boy with that gorgeous smile!
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These signs are so true, especially the cuddling one!
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Hey lisa, the cuddling sign is true for sure.. it’s so hard to get a guy to cuddle up otherwise.. and even if they do, they’re so cold and rigid if they’re not in love with you!!
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Falling in love is one of the best things that can happen to a person! It fullfills you and gives you that pease in heart!
But boy those guys get us all mixued up with signs and feelings that at times we feel we’re gonna explode!
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Yes Xannyyy,
you’re right.. at times it can be frustrating trying to understand what the guys are really trying to convey!
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You know I knew that my boyfriend is in love with me but reading this and being able to shout YES to all of them is just a great feeling :) I love the cuddling one because before we fall asleep he always spreads out his arms and says: “Do you come and cuddle with me, please?” Great post!
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:) Hey Skye,
Nothing like being in a reciprocating love right!
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Awww…so nice….but unfortunately I don’t have anyone….There is a guy I’m completely in love with, but he’s just not interested…I mean he speaks with me, we laugh, but it just doesn’t feel like he has feelings for me….:-(
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Bobs, don’t you lose hope. Once you two become better acquainted with each other, he’ll be squirming to ask you out! and hey, you never know, he already might and just doesnt want to show it yet!
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Very sweet article, I’ve experienced some of these things myself. But why do most of the guys tend to be so perfect in the beginning of a relationship and after they get worse? If you can believe I had strange relationships. In the beginning was hell, we were fighting all the time and disagreeing on everything and after some time things were going for the better. With each year that passed we were like other couples were in the first days of their relationship. I call that the Wine Type of relationship. :)) It gets better with age :))))
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Hey Tavia..
I love your term ‘Wine Type Relationships’… brilliant! and yes that IS a weird route for a relationship to take. As for why do guys become bigger jerks as the relationships progress, I really don’t know. And even having this conversation with my guy friends doesn’t help, cos they either don’t agree with it or those who do, claim that even girls do the same!!
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My now ex-bf had all of these signs and then all of it just went wrong in the end. It’s been just over a month, and I’m hurt and confused, because I thought he really did love me ,and then he broke my heart. I don’t understand how someone could change so much, and it hurts because I still care for him but I know he isn’t good for me.
I hope I can find all these once again with the right guy, I really do miss cuddling and having someone there for me quite a lot. x
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Hey Evie,
I’m sure you will find someone who’s even better than your ex and who will be there to cuddle you when you just need a comforting embrace
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hey there is this guy and he asked me out and im 13 and he is 15 i dont know what to tell him helppp
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this just made my heart swoon. i wish my life was a romantic comedy with the happy ending of course! :)
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Hey theo,
don’t we all wish that! and yet, don’t give up hope sweetie – it just might turn out to be one!
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these are so sweet, and i think me and my boyfriend are involved with all of the ;)
love you jeff xxxxxxxxx
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I’m happy for both you and Cara-Anne.. glad that you girls could relate with this post!
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I absolutely loved this!
I could relate to all the points to me!
Love, love, love it!!
xxx
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knock on wood, Sheila, knock on wood! may we all be blessed with happy endings :)
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Amen to that Theo!
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