12 Signs He’s Falling in Love with You …

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12 Signs He's Falling in Love with You ...

Falling in love is a wonderful thing that nearly everyone out there gets to experience at some point. I admit that it is hard to tell when a guy is falling in love with you. They can send such mixed signals! Below, I am going to give you 12 signs he is falling in love with you. These are 12 of the things I noticed about my husband before I married him and as you know the rest is history …

12. He goes out of his way for you


Does he go out of his way for you? Sure, he could always take a shortcut, but does he go that extra mile just because it is something that will make you happy? If so, then this is a sure sign that you have a guy who is falling for you!

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  1. October 4, 2011 at 11:58 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    He did ALL of these things, but turned out he was engaged to be married in less than a month!
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    • October 5, 2011 at 6:02 am
      Sheila says:
      Ugh. That really sucks! I guess there’s no dearth of jerks out there huh? I’m so sorry.
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  2. July 26, 2011 at 3:57 pm Permalink
    Amanda O. says:
    my bf show all of these signs and when he knows im down he always gets me one, single rose with a note that says “you pick me up when im down, now its time ... See more to return a favor”. <3
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    • July 26, 2011 at 3:59 pm
      KatieKat says:
      Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! So cute!!!!
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    • July 26, 2011 at 5:00 pm
      Sheila says:
      Awww Amanda,
      That’s the sweetest thing ever! He sounds like a keeper :)
      Thank you for reading!
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  3. October 31, 2011 at 11:57 pm Permalink
    april says:
    im in love with one of my best guy friends he knows i like him but i want him to notice me like he notice’s other girls how do i do that
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    • November 13, 2011 at 12:05 am
      joseline says:
      just ask him hey can i talk to you in pravite pleas
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    • December 24, 2011 at 10:56 am
      virus says:
      i think you should pay him less attention becuz once somebody losses his or her precious things then they actually realize …..try it
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  4. October 12, 2011 at 5:42 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    guys, helpme with this. first of all, I met this guy 3 years ago, i had a crush on him but it stopped. but then on this 4th yr., he asked me out on a ... See more movie, we had fun, and texts each other, but he stopped texting me, and so do i. and now, i miss him.. after that, my best friend had broke up with his boy friend.. his boy friend and the guy i like our friends.. and so my best friend. and now, the guy i like texts my best friend..im lost. and im sad, i always think of him at night and it hurts me. what am i suppose to do and what do uthink of this situation im in.
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  5. September 26, 2011 at 12:11 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Oh crap! I think my best guy friend is in love with me! We are on teenagers but who says we don’t know what love is because I know I’m feeling it…..only if he wasn’t so shy?!?!
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    • September 26, 2011 at 3:53 am
      Denise says:
      Hello there. Welcome to All Women Stalk!

      Why don’t you take a chance and ask him out? Or at least tell him how you feel.
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    • October 9, 2011 at 9:51 am
      Helena says:
      OMG!! that’s exactly the same with me! my best friends and i were walking together and having a conversation and everyone started to think we were going out! Thank goodness someone’s in the same situation.
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    • September 26, 2011 at 9:08 am
      Anonymous says:
      Thanks, I have a feeling he is going to speak up soon because he is so smitten that all of the people at school even think we are going out!
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  6. December 28, 2010 at 12:53 am Permalink
    Jill says:
    A guy who has really fallen for you will put your needs and desires above his own. He will open car doors for you, and make you feel like you are the most beautiful woman ... See more in the world. He cares so much for you that he knows when you are unhappy and is aware when you have had a bad day and massages your shoulders. He says nice things to you because he means it deep inside his heart. He values his friendship with you just as much as he does a sexual relationship with you.
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    • December 28, 2010 at 2:39 am
      Sheila says:
      Hey Jill,
      Perfectly put :) :)
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  7. February 8, 2012 at 9:08 pm Permalink
    Bethany Morgan says:
    I like somebody 2. His name is Chase. He keeps on looing at me. I stil don’t really know if he likes me though.
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    • February 11, 2012 at 12:43 pm
      Denise says:
      Hey Bethany. It’s great to see you on All Women Stalk!

      Do you and Chase talk? Are you friends? If not, then you should consider introducing yourself to him. Talk to him more so ... See more that you can get to know each other better.
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    • May 6, 2012 at 1:11 pm
      Anonymous says:
      Great advice but the boy I like is engaded he shouldn’t be should I tell him
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    • May 6, 2012 at 4:40 pm
      Sheila says:
      Absolutely not! That’s an awful idea and you should just let him and hi fiance be. Plenty of fish in the sea!
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  8. January 24, 2012 at 11:17 pm Permalink
    Shelby says:
    This is amazing! I’ve been talking to this guy for months now, and we just started dating. All of the things on your list have been completely accurate to my relationship with him, except him ... See more telling me he loves me, because we just started dating. I’ve always been worried [due to a previous relationship where my heart was broken] that it’s not possible for guys to fall for a girl like we fall for them. However, after reading this, I’m really not worried anymore. Thanks!
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    • February 8, 2012 at 9:01 pm
      Sara Morgan says:
      Cool. are you going out yet? if yes, then congrats!
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    • January 25, 2012 at 2:12 am
      Denise says:
      Awwww…. Thank you for sharing your story, Shelby. I hope that you will have a happy relationship with him.

      Keep reading All Women Stalk!
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  9. January 15, 2012 at 4:00 pm Permalink
    bobo says:
    in my sons class there is a teacher who always stares at me why
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  10. January 14, 2012 at 5:04 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    my ex did all the stuff on top and still broke up with me for some other girl….from one day to another….now a bit more tham a month later he suddenly is all over me ... See more again…just after i heard that another guy really likes me….i never told him that…..i still like him but i guess i wont go back with him in a relationship cause he really hurt me a lot even when we were still dating…..just dont know what to think about all hes doing….huggin me wanting to know whats going on in my life etc….it just weird :S
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    • January 16, 2012 at 6:34 am
      Denise says:
      Hey hun. Don’t allow someone to play with your feelings. Who does he think he is anyway? Just ignore him and don’t pay any attention to the things he’s doing and saying.

      Thanks for ... See more stopping by. I hope to hear from you again!
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  11. January 14, 2012 at 3:13 pm Permalink
    hirah says:
    i wann that person but how? i don’t know …… he always shows me attitude… plzZzzZzz advice me how should i’ll be? i wann that person by heart….. :(
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  12. January 2, 2012 at 8:36 pm Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    While studying abroad I became friends with a guy I thought was hot in the beginning…as the semester went by we spent a lot of time together and traveled together and people would always ask ... See more if we were a couple despite the fact that he had a girlfriend in his country plus our friends in our group of friends thought there was at least a spark between us….I always wondered why he got so jealous when I would be with other guys and in my mind we were friends and I only saw him that way…so in the end when we said goodbye he revealed his true feelings and I realized I felt the same way when I realized I would not see him again….at least for a while….then as I was about to catch a bus to leave the city he kissed me goodbye and told me he loved me…
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    • January 3, 2012 at 3:47 am
      Denise says:
      Hey there. That’s a really romantic story…. But to be honest, I’m kind of glad that nothing aside from that kiss happened between both of you. He has a girlfriend that he sorta cheated on ... See more and it’s kind of hard to imagine how he would treat you.

      Thank you for visiting AWS!
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  13. December 24, 2011 at 11:00 am Permalink
    virus says:
    guys there is a guy i think about him and smile and when i listen him and he responces me i get nervous and excited and nervous and i talk about him mostly and dream ... See more about him before i sleep so what is it???? and i know him for 2 and half years ………so is it just an infactuation?????????
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    • December 25, 2011 at 1:15 am
      Denise says:
      Hey Virus. It’s great to see you on AWS!

      Yes, it does sound like you are seriously infatuated with him. But does it really what I think you feel? You know yourself better than I do….
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  14. November 30, 2011 at 12:54 am Permalink
    Shauna says:
    I’ve been dating an amazing guy for almost six months now. It started out as a close relationship since I lived within a half hour radius of him, but then I had to go ... See more downstate to college. Things have been rough, and he’s had all of my firsts, too. I’m a shy kind of person, and don’t take relationship stuff lightly and it’s why I waited so long before I found someone I really liked. Unfortunately, now I’m very attached and I was wondering if anyone might have some advice that might help me make this easier on myself. He’s had relationships before me, so he’s not as strained as I am. Would love some insight. Thanks!
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  15. November 21, 2011 at 11:51 pm Permalink
    rheanna says:
    i love thinking about him “thinking of his voice ” puts me to sleep . in the nightmares he protects me even if it mean dieing to do it one dream he died to save ... See more me i sat by him holding his hand and i dident let go through the whole dream. I just layed there silent “closed my eyes and layed with him until i woke up”. I would die for him if it ment protecting him . i will alwest love u <3 STEVEN <3!!!!

    THANK YOU FOR READING.
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  16. November 21, 2011 at 11:45 pm Permalink
    rheanna says:
    my bf ‘s mom broke his blackops “my fault” i askked him why he dident dump me he said he wont because he loves me “i love him tooooo” <3 steven <3. my babe :)
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  17. November 21, 2011 at 5:03 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    i’m in a long distance relationship and we habe been talking for over six months now and we really like each other. he is a vegan and i’m not.he’s an atheist and im a christian.we ... See more are so different but we get along so well. he has told me that he cares for me and that he feels close to me but he hasn’t said that he loves me yet. i haven’t said it to him either but i have strong feelings for him. we talk for hours almost every night and he really seems to enjoy communicating with me. how can i tell if he feels as strongly as i do about our relationship?
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  18. October 23, 2011 at 10:25 pm Permalink
    Raine says:
    I have been inlove with this guy for about 4 years now….he STILL doesn’t notice me i mean our parents are close friends but when it comes to parties and when he is there i ... See more feel like im invisible because im a REALLY shy girl..so all I do is sit outside or in a corner and just think……I really love him….any advice?
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  19. September 13, 2011 at 2:30 am Permalink
    Katie says:
    Hi i need advice :) im similar to other women on here.. I met a guy online about two years ago, who lived in england.. we talked, skyped and texted everyday for a few months, ... See more we were pretty much best friends and i knew everything about him, we would even flirt. He got a girlfriend he dated for a year, and we eventually faded. About halfway through their relationship everything went back to the way it was with us, except now it was different. He would tell me he missed me, couldnt wait to skype me, how he wished i was there, and even said he likes me more than his girlfriend. He told me as soon as he got money he would come see me. All of his friends would tell me how much he liked me and cared about me and how he always spoke the world of me. We sent eachother “care packages” of stuff we cant buy in our countries that the others could, like candy and food and such. We sent eachother friendship bracelets too, he wears his everyday. Him and his gf broke up and now we skype and text every single day and we say we love eachother. We first started out saying we love eachother just as friends, but now i feel like its more. Is it wrong for me to have feelings for someone im never seen in person, who lives across the ocean? A part of me feels like he is my soulmate, we’re literally perfect for eachother i feel like. Please help!
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    • September 13, 2011 at 6:02 am
      Sheila says:
      Hi Katie,
      I’m a sucker for romantic love stories and I actually have an experience similar to yours, fell for someone in another country. Things didn’t work out between us but I know that what ... See more I felt for him was genuine and I really think we would have worked out if not for the fact that we lived far far apart. It’s been about 8 years and we still talk. We’ve moved on with our lives and I can never stop wondering, what if. Point being that no, it’s not wrong for you to fall for someone who you’ve never seen in person. Love comes in lots of ways. I sincerely hope things work out for you =)
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  20. September 9, 2011 at 7:13 am Permalink
    April says:
    Hi, I need an advice. :) I met this guy online just a week ago. I’m 20 and he’s 21, and he’s from London. We chat 2x a day and we’re on a getting to ... See more know each other mode now. He said he likes my attitude and the way I behave. He said he also find me pretty (from the pic I sent to him). But before I even sent the pic, he said that he would like me even if I told him that I’m ugly, he said that he can feel it. I find him kind and nice, and yes he’s handsome (from his pic). And last night he said “If I ask the question now, will you answer I do?”, just out of nowhere. And now he want me to be his girl and try to work it out. He said he’s still in school, doing his Masters and depending on his dad but when he start earning money, he’ll get me.
    What do you think? Is he serious or what?… and even if he’s serious, should I give it a try?
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    • September 10, 2011 at 4:15 am
      Denise says:
      Hi April. Here are my thoughts on your situation. How long have you been chatting with him? Do you think that you really know him enough to marry him? Have you tried talking to him ... See more on the phone or through video chat? Have you somehow verified the things he’s told you? Trust your intuition on this one. If you’re not ready, then let him know. Take as much time as you want to get to know him because marriage is serious business… especially if you’re marrying someone you’ve never seen in person before.

      Thanks for trusting us with your problem. I hope to see you again!
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    • May 6, 2012 at 1:15 pm
      Anonymous says:
      To April
      April you and him haven’t mown each other that long take it from someone who started dating someone not long after they met and are now broken up
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  21. June 15, 2011 at 6:34 pm Permalink
    Katiana says:
    Wow, I think that he is on his way. I have a dog, a maltese. He hates the dog, told me to sell it because of all the annoying barking. And yes, he was dead ... See more serious. But I love my dog more than any man. Told him so. Since then, he is been making every effort to tolerate the dog. He even played with her. He is laughing more now, texting more, *gigling*
    He has not said the L word yet, I am just patiently waiting with that smile on my face. Well as for me? I like him.
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    • June 15, 2011 at 11:49 pm
      Denise C. says:
      Hey Katiana. Awww…. Your story makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside! I agree that your man is definitely on his way.

      Good luck to both of you. Thanks for reading All Women Stalk!
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  22. August 2, 2010 at 12:50 pm Permalink
    Lenore says:
    i liked this so much!!! this perfectly describes my boyfriend and yeah, the cuddling thing is true. what’s up with them and cuddling? like seriously, who doesn’t like to cuddle!! lol
    buttt could you post ... See more an article listing ways YOU know if YOU AREE or could be falling in love?? idk that’d really help because it’s hard for me to tell..i know you’re supposed to just know these things..but i fear(actually KNOW) i am blocking out my feelings for my bf. i’m trying to put the wall down but still, it makes it very confusing to try and understand how exactly strong my feeling’s are for him and that would help a lot :)
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  23. May 15, 2012 at 1:31 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    My boyfriend of 4 years is a workaholic. He puts his job before everything and everyone. I thought after all these years he would have changed since he keeps saying that I am the one ... See more for him. Sometimes I can feel that he loves me other times I have no idea what’s going on. Should I break up with him. After all this time I don’t think there should be anymore doubts about where we stand in this relationship.
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  24. May 15, 2012 at 12:43 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    I need help. I’ve been with that guy for 4 years. He keeps saying he loves me. But his actions don’t match his words. We met each others family and all. But I still can’t ... See more tell if he really loves me.
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  25. May 9, 2012 at 4:48 pm Permalink
    Halle Berg says:
    cute
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  26. April 19, 2012 at 5:09 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    theres this guy at my school, and i really like him and all but im not sure if he likes me back. i havnt told him, should i tell him or should i wait until ... See more he finds out by people talking about it? and should i flirt with him even though there is a chance that he doesnt like me like that? and i realy really wanna go out with this guy.
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    • April 19, 2012 at 10:29 pm
      Denise says:
      Hello there. Welcome to All Women Stalk!

      It’s definitely better to tell him rather than him finding out from other people. And if you want to flit with him, then do it. There’s a ... See more chance that he doesn’t like you, BUT there’s also a chance that he does.
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  27. April 18, 2012 at 5:31 am Permalink
    Courtney/Chelsie says:
    my boyfriend does all of these things. or atleast he used to. my bf and i are passing notes but we arent aloud to see each other. and well lets cut to the chase. im ... See more in love with him but since what happened to me in the past, i test everything. no kidding. and now since i didnt realize he was in love with me i made a huge mistake. the huge mistake is i tested our relationship constantly, always getting us into fights. and i kinda well lied to him. but he just wrote me a note stating “i might break up with u” he wants to be with me and everything but he doesnt think its a good idea for us to still be together because of all the things we get into because of me, oh and he says alll the fights r his fault. and well i dont know what to do. is the relationship worth saving? is there still hope? is there still time? what do i do? im in love with him, and i want to be with him and everything. and hes the first guy i ever dated that actually treats/treated me right. help!
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    • April 27, 2012 at 1:58 pm
      Denise says:
      Hi Courtney. Welcome to All Women Stalk!

      If you both want to be together, then I do think that the relationship is worth saving. But both of you have to figure out the problems ... See more of the relationship, and then commit to working on them.
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  28. March 10, 2012 at 3:32 pm Permalink
    Jessi Taylor says:
    My Moma says I’m to young for love ( I’m 14 hes 16 ) so we have to hide every thing we do together . She just thinks all he wants sex but he isn’t ... See more like that ! How do I get her to understand and acutally like him and know he s not like that and that we’re really in love ? ! Help me please !
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    • March 11, 2012 at 6:56 pm
      Jessi Taylor says:
      ** she never wanna listen to what I have to say
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    • March 10, 2012 at 4:23 pm
      Sheila says:
      Hi Jessi,
      Welcome to All Women Stalk!
      Well sweetie, you need to be honest about things with your mom, maybe make an agreement that the boyfriend and you will abstain from sex as long ... See more as you can spend time dating each other. I hope she can give you two a shot :)
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    • March 11, 2012 at 6:52 pm
      Jessi Taylor says:
      Thanks but what if she don’t believe us and makes us break up or something ! I can’t lose this boy he means the world to me ! :( my Moma is really strict when ... See more it comes to boys ! She ever wanna listen to what I have to say !
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    • May 6, 2012 at 1:17 pm
      Anonymous says:
      Jessi
      Try to prove this to your mum but just remember try not to fall out with her over it she’s your mum
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  29. February 19, 2012 at 2:04 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    Omg I love this article, book marked it too!
    When you actually take the time to reflect on whether your significant other has all these qualities as whether or not he displays them for ... See more the right reasons or not it becomes so much clearer.

    My boyfriend and I are pretty young (16&17) but I know he loves me and I love him back.
    And we waited a while to say it because we were not sure but now I am just positive :)
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    • February 19, 2012 at 3:35 pm
      Sheila says:
      Sometimes it’s better to take your time to say these things. At least then you know that you mean it instead of it being something you said just because. :)
      I wish you both tons of luck! Keep reading.
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  30. January 22, 2012 at 8:07 am Permalink
    Anonymous says:
    hey i have a crush on a bad boy ….actuallly playboy…i really like him…i used 2 crush on him but tat was b4 he had a girlfriend which was 2 years ago….now he ‘s single ... See more n says hey to me everytime he sees me….tat’s all he did n i liked him….i really wish 2 ignore him n im trying but it seems harder than i thought,wat can i say…teenagers…i feel so pathetic…need advice
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    • February 8, 2012 at 9:03 pm
      Sara Morgan says:
      If you don’t like him then…oh, I don’t know…srry.
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    • January 23, 2012 at 1:28 am
      Denise says:
      Hey. Welcome to All Women Stalk!

      Just talk to him and get to know each other. Maybe he’s changed since then…. And don’t feel pathetic. You just like him.
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    • January 23, 2012 at 6:39 am
      Anonymous says:
      haha hey thanks a lot ….maybe i’ll talk to him….wat would u do?
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