I myself have been through many breakups, but in the end, I knew that everything would be just fine. Now that I look back at those breakups, which seemed so harsh at the time, they do not mean anything to me because I am happily married.
You too will be happily married one day and those breakup blues you are suffering from right now will be nothing. Below, I am going to give you 10 ways to overcome a breakup quickly. Many of these things are what I did in order to get over that guy…
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10. Cry
This is something that you are going to do at first, so just go ahead and cry. Get it all out. There is nothing wrong with crying. This is only you letting out your emotions. During this time, scream at the universe, sob along to sad movies or breakup songs, do anything to get it off of your chest…
9. Treat Yourself
Go shopping and have a manicure. Shopping and treating myself out always seemed to get those problems off of my mind. You do not have to buy much, if you do not have much money at the time, then just buy a simple outfit or a shirt that you think is cute. If you have some extra cash, then treat yourself out to your favorite restaurant. (Avoid any restaurant you went to on a date.)
8. Avoid the Rebound
I know that it sounds like a good idea to try to substitute that relationship with another, but this is definitely not what you need. It will lead you to nowhere except even more hurt when you snap out of it and find that you do not like the “rebound” guy or girl. Save the other from being hurt…
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6. Hug up on Your Pet
Do you have a pet? It is a known fact that pets help relieve stress. Hug up on your pet as that is what they are there for. Dogs sense when you are sad and will try their best to make you happy. Even if you have an iguana or bearded dragon, let him/her sit on your lap and talk. That’s right, those pets will listen to everything you have to say. I have found that pets are very good listeners…
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5. Volunteer
Instead of sitting at home thinking about that lost relationship, go out and do good things for others. Volunteering at the local animal shelter, homeless shelter or anything else that helps someone would help to relieve that sadness that you have inside…
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4. Get a New Hairstyle
This is a great tip for girls. This can include something as simple as a touchup or something as drastic as dying your hair. When you have done this, look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself that this is the new you and you have moved on…
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3. Get Rid of ...
Any pictures of the ex boyfriend or girlfriend that you have. This way, you do not have to look at them ever again. If you want to be even more rebellious, then rip the picture up into little bitty places. Take your anger out as you are doing this. Tell yourself that when that picture is ripped up, you will move on…
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2. Go out with Your Friends
Sometimes, going out with your friends and spending time with others is the best way to get over those breakup blues.
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1. Be Cool
When you see your ex in the same room as you, act as if you do not care about the breakup. Don’t let him or her see that it is bothering you. In no time, this will come natural and you will find that you are completely over your ex.
What about you? What do you do during those breakup blues?
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Elsa, Well it surely helps for the moment but for me it would be a double heartbreak when I see those carbs adding up into fat :S LOL!!
yeh my bf broke up with me cause he wanted to save our friendship but by breakin up with me he not only ruined out relationship, and friendship he also broke my heart and i kno he was lieing to me lately too so rele he tried to protect our friendship but he rele just ruinedd it
The chocolate ice cream does work :)
Indira, When I used to have my dog I did just like you. Even if they can' talk to us back I feel better hanging on to her and crying on her tummy. Poor dog used to understand me so much. It's like she knew cause she always stayed there liking my tears and wagging her tail. :)
Wow this was a really helpful post. Thank you so mcuh!!! It really brightened my day and I will definitely be trying a few of these ideas. Thank you!!!
this post I love love love! these are many of the things I have done in the past to get over those horrible relationships! and thanx for making me feel like im not crazy for talking to my dog, because I love my figi!!!
Well Mel, You hit every point there! Every girl who's going through a break up should really read this blog , cause it's really quite helpful. I used all of these through my break ups. First thing I cried so I got all the tention and sedness away, I hung on to my pet which I did most of my cryings with and never kept untidy meaning I always made my hair and still tried to look my best even if at that time nothing Mattered. And Most important I hung out with my best friends which thanks to them I passed those breakups. Pouring out all your troubles can help alot with a pearson at heart!! Thanks God now I finally found my perfect mate! Guees I'm really lucky!
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Xannyyy:Elsa, Well it surely helps for the moment but for me it would be a double heartbreak when I see those carbs adding up into fat :S LOL!!
Rose:yeh my bf broke up with me cause he wanted to save our friendship but by breakin up with me he not only ruined out relationship, and friendship he also broke my heart and i kno he was lieing to me lately too so rele he tried to protect our friendship but he rele just ruinedd it
Elsa:The chocolate ice cream does work :)
Xannyyy:Indira, When I used to have my dog I did just like you. Even if they can' talk to us back I feel better hanging on to her and crying on her tummy. Poor dog used to understand me so much. It's like she knew cause she always stayed there liking my tears and wagging her tail. :)
Madison:Wow this was a really helpful post. Thank you so mcuh!!! It really brightened my day and I will definitely be trying a few of these ideas. Thank you!!!
indira:this post I love love love! these are many of the things I have done in the past to get over those horrible relationships! and thanx for making me feel like im not crazy for talking to my dog, because I love my figi!!!
Xannyyy:Well Mel, You hit every point there! Every girl who's going through a break up should really read this blog , cause it's really quite helpful. I used all of these through my break ups. First thing I cried so I got all the tention and sedness away, I hung on to my pet which I did most of my cryings with and never kept untidy meaning I always made my hair and still tried to look my best even if at that time nothing Mattered. And Most important I hung out with my best friends which thanks to them I passed those breakups. Pouring out all your troubles can help alot with a pearson at heart!! Thanks God now I finally found my perfect mate! Guees I'm really lucky!
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