8 Innovative Ways to Approach Your Crush ...

Try a Gardenia • Playlists • Put It in Writing • Do a Balloon Bouquet • Write It in the Sand • More ...

8 Innovative Ways to Approach Your Crush ...
By Lyndsie • Aug 6, 2021 MD

It can be hard to figure out just how to approach your crush. Some options are cheesy, while others have just been done to death. If you really want to let the person you like know exactly how you feel, however, there are lots of other, more unique options – like these really innovative ways to approach your crush.

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1. Try a Gardenia

Every flower has a meaning, and gardenias are no different. They are the covert secret admirer flower. You can give them to your crush to secretly confess your feelings – even if he's a boy, yes. It's a really unique way to confess your feelings, but it might go over your crush's head unless you can find a subtle way to tell him or her what gardenias are really all about.

2. Playlists

This may seem cheesy, but it worked for me when I was courting the Better Half. When we were still in the friend stage but I was developing a crush, I used to send all these mix CDs and playlists that made my feelings pretty clear – and I have to tell you, it worked!

3. Put It in Writing

Writing a note or an email might seem unoriginal, but truthfully, in this era devoted solely to texts and Facebook messages, it can be perfect. You don't need to write a novel – and, in fact, writing anything long is probably going to be a bit too much, and you'll risk saying more than necessary. Keep it short and sweet, because thus far, this is a crush, not a full fledged love affair.

4. Do a Balloon Bouquet

This is pretty cheesy too – but it's also an original! If you want to let your crush know you like him – or her – balloons are definitely a unique way to do it. You can get just about anything written on balloons, so a message announce “Hey guess what, I like you!” shouldn't be too hard at all!

If you're looking to engage your partner in intriguing conversations, why not try some hypothetical questions for couples? These fun queries will not only keep the conversation lively but also stimulate deep thoughts and potentially reveal insights about each other's personality and thought processes.

5. Write It in the Sand

Messages written in the sand – or the dirt; or with rocks; you get the idea – are cute. They're fun and low pressure as well, so they don't seem like this huge, big deal, which you generally want to avoid when revealing a crush. Basically just remember that creativity is always a good thing.

6. Highlighting

I also did this with the BH, because we used to trade books while we were still in the friend stage. If you and your crush read the same kinds of books, let him or her borrow one. The key is, highlight passages in the book that made you think of your crush, or that describe things you wish you could do together.

7. Ice It

Make your crush a cake, or some cupcakes. Why? Because then you can reveal your feelings in icing. Again, a simple “I like you” will do the job nicely. Plus, you both get cake. What could be better? Ice cream too, but that's about it.

8. Just Be Honest

This is a unique approach only because, again, people rarely go this route anymore. I understand it's scary to reveal your feelings to your crush, because they might not reciprocate. But honestly, the worst anyone can say is “no,” and that's better than thinking something can happen when it really won't.

There are lots of ways you can approach your crush, ranging from unique to original. These are just what I think are some of the most innovative ways to approach your crush, so you can be creative but still get your point across. What's your favorite way to tell someone how you feel?

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  • Dara

    2011-06-02T01:33:07.000Z

    Uhm, hi. This is probably the cliche situation, but I really like this guy. We are both "old enough to date" (highschool). Two of my friends have been urging me to talk to him. I try to, but I always chicken out at the last moment. You see, I am a severe introvert. (I believe that is the word...) I am used to being alone and am accustomed to being ignored. I have one class with this guy. I am friends with his friends. (My two previously mentioned friends already told me to 'use that to my advantage'.) I have written threats towards myself (in German) to motivate me, but, alas, to no avail. I am so used to being silent that I can't talk to him. I want to practically beat myself up over this, but somehow I cannot seem to talk to him. Forgive me for wasting your time... and I'm not sure if this is where I'm supposed to post something like this... -Dara
  • coll

    2012-09-02T12:35:15.000Z

    a tiger trap is not an option?
  • Me

    2011-04-27T02:01:04.000Z

    Ok first of all your post was really good for girls who want something more than " I love you " ! But my only request is that you do a post on this for what to do with shy guys. I would really really be thankful for it or if you could do a post on how shy guys flirt I would be so grateful !! I ask you this because I am head over sneakers madly in love but I swear I am going to go insane !!! Ok so here's what been happening for about 2 months ( to my knowledge at least ;) ). He sits somewhat far away and I sit in the corner at school and he's always looking over this way and only people who sit at my table are boys so I think he is looking at me ( then again I need glasses for distance lol ) but I think he is looking at me !!!! But again he's VERY shy so he does the whole " look away because I was looking at the board and now I'm back to doing my work " thing. He has no email txt or anything and I'm 65% ( k 75% percent ) he likes me cause he's always blushing. Any advice on getting him to talk to me or become friends with me ?!?!?!?! P.S. I am the most gutless person I know WHEN it comes to boys so sorry but I'm not really gonna be able to walk up and tell him or talk to him. So any body gestures or eye what not stuff would gladly be accepted. AGAIN NICE POST !!!
  • Melissa

    2011-05-15T20:04:29.000Z

    Cute :)
  • Kristopher

    2011-03-30T17:53:53.000Z

    There are definitely men out there that hate sappy things, but there are many out there that do love the cheese. I can tell you right now that the nice things women do for us men get remembered. Maybe because they happen so little that when they do happen there is not many more for it to compete with. I highly recommend doing these cute things ladies.
  • justatinyelephant

    2012-08-26T17:20:27.000Z

    Well, I'm no relationship expert but I would really like to say... sometimes you should let love find you. I don't mean you should let your crush get away but never be afraid to tell him or her how you really feel. I read some of the situations you girls are in right now and I really wish you the best. It can get tough to put yourself out there but you'll never know if you don't try :) Something amazing could happen if you just conjure up the courage deep inside you... I'm sure it'll be worth it. I wish you the best of luck. - Your friend. Tinyelephant :)
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