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7 Ways to Draw Him Closer ...

By Melanie

When you are dating a guy and love is in the air, there are some things you can do in order to draw him closer to you. Love is something you have to feed. If you let it just sit there and expect it to grow on its own, it won’t happen. Below, I am going to give you 7 ways to draw him closer …

1 Don’t Be Money Hungry

Some girls out there are just so money hungry. Some track guys down and use them just because they have extra money to spend. Ladies, more and more guys are starting to catch on to this little trick. While some will fall for the trick, there are others who knows the game. So, if you would like to draw him closer to you, make sure you do not use him just for his money. In fact, feel free to pay for some date nights here and there.

2 Let Him Know He’s the Only One

Guys enjoy hearing that they are the only one. They enjoy hearing that you do not plan on going out and finding any other guy. So, if you want to draw him closer to you, remind him how he is the only one on Earth for you.

3 Tell Them How Hard They Work

When a guy works hard, they enjoy hearing that they work hard. So, I believe it would be a good idea to tell the guy how hard they work.

4 Tell Him How Proud You Are

Let him know just how proud you are of him. It pays off to say this more than once. Some guys really like to be reminded every now and then that their girl is truly proud of them for doing the things they do in life.

5 Tell Him How Lucky You Are

Tell him the truth – that he makes you feel as if you are the luckiest girl in the world. There are phrases like this that always flatter guys. Of course, like I said, make sure it is true and you are not just saying it.

6 Show Him Respect

If you want to draw the guy in closer to you, then you need to show him respect. Show him that you are not using him. Cook him a good dinner and let him know that you truly care for his needs. Of course, I’m not insinuating that you need to be his slave, but I am saying that you should be respectful to him.

7 Tell Him How You Love Him

If you really want to draw him in, let him know just how much you love him. Don’t just tell him, but show him how deep your love is for him. This is a great way to draw him closer to you.

Those are 7 ways to draw him closer. If you are in love with the guy, then you should definitely do these things on my list. This is also great for those that are always married! So, what are some things you enjoy doing for your guy?

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