20 Tips on How to Tell if a Guy Likes You without Asking ...

By Kati

20 Tips on How to Tell if a Guy Likes You without Asking ...

How do you know if a guy is interested in you? Just because he hasn’t said those three little words doesn’t mean he isn’t crazy about you, but how can you tell without risking embarrassment of asking? Here are my telltale signs he likes you...

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1

Glances

clothing,footwear,fashion,spring,gentleman, You catch him looking at you, whatever you are doing.

UPD:

He always seems to be around when you're in the same room. He looks at you with a certain intensity in his eyes, like he's trying to figure out what you're thinking. He often smiles when you make eye contact, and he always seems to be interested in what you have to say. He may even blush when you talk to him. He may try to make physical contact with you, like brushing past you or touching your arm when he's talking to you.

He may also try to find ways to be around you, like asking to hang out with you or joining the same activities you do. He may even try to get your attention by doing things like complimenting you or making small jokes. He may also try to find out more about you by asking questions or talking about your interests.

When you're not around, he may ask your friends or family about you, or he may bring up topics that you've discussed in the past. He may also try to keep up with you on social media. He may even try to find out more about you by doing things like searching for your name online or looking you up on social media.

2

Jealousy?

clothing,denim,jeans,outerwear,spring, You catch a glimpse of hurt when you talk to him about a hot man you met last night, or Brad Pitt. Double score if he then talks about a hot woman.

3

Just Saying Hi

clothing,person,man,male,gentleman, He calls and texts you even when he is out with his friends. You know he’ll be getting grief for this, so it’s a sure sign that he likes you.

4

You're Invited

white,blue,clothing,footwear,snapshot, He talks about festivals or gigs he wants to go too, and waits for you to say you’ll go with him. Double points if he actually invites you, especially if they are later on in the year. Making plans with you is a big hint.

5

Getting Personal

clothing,leather,fashion,model,photo shoot, He knows your birthday, and where you live, off the top of his head. Double points if he knows your dress size.

Famous Quotes

If you have a harem of 40 women, you never get to know any of them very well.

Warren Buffett
6

Thinking of You

clothing,footwear,leather,street,boot, He texts you randomly. Messages that have no purpose show that he is thinking about you, which is always a good sign.

7

Pays Attention

person,sitting,human positions,conversation,NII, He listens to your compliments. Maybe he wears the shirt you like more, or he left his hair longer because you like it better like that?

8

All about You

person,clothing,red,woman,photography, He doesn’t notice when pretty girls walk past. While this doesn’t tend to last, it’s a good sign for now.

9

Details

clothing,footwear,fashion,supermodel,photo shoot, When you go out, he pays an interest in where, whose going and what you’ll be wearing. He might try and make himself sound bored, but really he’s seeing if you’ll be dressing up for (hot) Tom from Marketing.

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10

Sweet and Understanding

fashion,hairstyle,formal wear,龜黎む, He understands your mood swings, and doesn’t hold them against you. Double marks if he brings you a hot water bottle, or chocolate.

11

Memory Game

photo shoot, He remembers your friend’s names, and tries to remember all the gossip you share with him.

12

Just Because

spring,fashion,photo shoot,model, He buys you flowers, or a coffee, or anything, just because.

13

Thoughtful Gifts

flower,flower arranging,flower bouquet,plant,floristry, He buys you a birthday present that you actually like, not just the default maltesers.

14

Complimentary

clothing,fashion,supermodel,model,photo shoot, He compliments you.

UPD:

When a guy is into you, he'll often find ways to compliment you, whether it's about your appearance, your intelligence, or your sense of humor. It’s his subtle way of showing that he appreciates you and pays attention to the details that make you unique. Note the sincerity in his voice; genuine compliments come from someone who truly values your qualities. And if his words make you feel special and seen, it's a signal that he’s not just being polite—he's interested.

15

Touchy Touchy

dress,leg,fashion,photo shoot,model, He’s not afraid to touch you. Whether it’s a cuddle when you’re feeling down, or just touching your hand or arms while you’re talking, he’s showing you a big sign.

16

Right by Your Side

wedding dress,clothing,gown,dress,bridal clothing, He cancels his plans for you. Arranging after work drinks? Suddenly his meetings been rescheduled, and he’s there by your side.

17

Up for Anything

clothing,person,human positions,lady,sitting, He is willing to do girly things with you. Double points if you can make him sit through Sex in the City.

18

Exposes Himself

hair,beauty,hairstyle,fashion,model, He talks about his family. Men are fierce protectors, and he’s exposing himself to you.

19

Flying Solo

photograph,person,woman,photography,beauty, He stays single, despite Gemma from Admins advances...

20

What's His is Yours

photo shoot,interaction,kiss,romance,gentleman, He lets you borrow his stuff, like a stapler, or his meeting room, or his spare toothbrush...

So give him a mark out of 20, and see how high he scores. If it’s over 15, try some mild flirting to test the water. If it’s fewer than 10, try to include him in your life more, from talking at work to going to the pub. Spending time together will increase his chances to impress you!

Have you got a sure-fire way to tell if he’s into you? Please tell me!

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OK theres this realy cute guy and hi is very quiet. How do i get him to open up or even better like me? REMINDER: Im in 8th grade

Hey :) so im 17 and obviously having boy problems like most girls on this site so i was hoping for some advice sorry its kinda long but I kinda felt that I needed to explain the whole situation... heres my situation: Background 1. Met in 6th grade, always thought he was cute 2. He dated ex bestfriend in 8th grade 3. MAJOR DRAMA between the two of them soon involving everyone 4. we become close friends after exbestfriend backstabs me and im always there to cheer him up 5. we continue to grow closer in freshman year always hanging out outside of school 6. we grow apart due to not seeing eachother daily and date different people 7. I started to crush on another guy who was always facebooking me, hugging me, teasing me, or just always putting his arm around me 8. he turned out to be a flirt who liked someone else. 9. reunite with original crush in senior year through rotc Current Situation: 1. he has turned into my ideal guy, muscles and everything 2. I realize I still like him 3. he seems to be flirting with me but not too sure if genuine or not 4. he winks at me a lot and is always there to “protect me” from those I say are picking on me 5. he offered to let me sit on his lap when there werent any space left in the back seat 6. he acts sad or hurt when I dont agree that hes cool, say I dont love him, or dont invite him out when I know he already has plans 7. he doesnt stop until I say I love him back most times 8. hes been texting me nonstop since thursday. 9. first few days I initiate it but starting saturday he does now 10. he always responds back almost instantly no matter what hes doing 11. asked what he was doing, he said playing games → continued to text him and he still reponded back within 2 minutes 12. its 4:09am on sunday now and we havent stopped texting eachother nonstop since 11:55 am on saturday. 13. he keeps asking me to go over to his house despite the time since I know how to drive and he cant 14. I cant tell my friends because of the major drama that happened in 8th grade. 15. I have a really bad time telling the difference between a flirt, player, or someone who actually like me 16. he had a reputation as a player/flirt in middle school I dont know about now... I really need advice on what to do..... I think he likes me too but then I think about #15 and 16

Help? This boy asked me out last week and i accepted.. But now we dont even talk to each other. Im like way too shy to go up to him. Any tips to get over my shyness?

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this boy named blake sits behind me everyday at lunch and pretty much looks behind me when i laugh and in the good flirty way! but i can never tell when he's about to ask me out,i wait then he leaves and i think he gets freaked cuz his friends r there! so he flirts with me everyday and i smile and laugh and he acts like all big and strong and i sat 'yes you r i mean u r a amazing football player!' and he haz gloss in his eyes and says i have pretty eyes! but he NEVER ASKED ME OUT!!!!!!!!!!!

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