14 Telltale Signs That He's Crushing on You ...

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14 Telltale Signs That He's Crushing on You ...
14 Telltale Signs That He's Crushing on You ...

There are so many ways to tell if your crush is crushing on you back! Guys like to think that they're being subtle when it comes to girls but we all know they're the worst at that! LOL. Here are some telltale signs that he's totally got a crush on you:

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1

You Run into Him Everywhere

I mean, everywhere. Outside your class after English Comp. At the grocery store. At the coffee shop. At Home Depot. At the mall, where you work. If you’re seeing him everywhere, he may be trying to make YOU notice HIM. Yup, he's got a crush. Smile a little. It will drive him crazy.

2

He Makes Sweet Gestures

Little gestures can mean a whole lot. If he's leaving you notes on the windshield wiper of your car, meeting you at your locker after class, or just trying his best not to be nervous around you, yeah, he likes you.

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These sweet gestures are not just limited to notes and meeting you after class. He may also go out of his way to do small things for you, like getting you a coffee or offering to carry your books. These thoughtful actions show that he is thinking about you and wants to make you happy. Additionally, he may also show signs of nervousness, such as fidgeting or blushing, when he is around you. These are all clear indicators that he has a crush on you and is trying to show it in his own way.

3

You Catch His Eye — a Lot

This means he’s looking at you a lot. The next time you catch him looking, smile. He’ll probably either smile back, or blush a little because he got caught.

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Another way to tell if a guy is crushing on you is if he goes out of his way to be near you or talk to you. This could mean choosing a seat next to you in class or joining a group conversation you're a part of. Additionally, pay attention to his body language. If he leans in towards you, makes eye contact, or mirrors your movements, these are all signs that he's interested in you. He may also try to impress you by showing off his talents or knowledge. These are all subtle yet telling signs that he's crushing on you.

4

He Compliments You — a Lot

He tells you that you have the prettiest smile, the shiniest hair, the nicest smile, he loves that skirt. If he pays you a lot of sincere compliments, that’s another sign he likes you.

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It's not just compliments on your looks, either. He'll notice and appreciate your quirks, the way you laugh, and how you light up when talking about your passions. Whether it’s your sense of humor or the way you handled a tough situation, he's paying attention. His compliments are deep and meaningful, showing he’s really tuned into who you are. When he sees the best in you, even in moments you might not notice yourself, it’s a sure sign he’s got his sights set on you.

5

His Friends Know Your Name

If his friends all know your name, that means he’s been talking about you, especially if his friends aren’t in your own circle of friends. If he’s talking to his friends about you, he almost certainly likes you.

6

He Asks Questions

He wants to know your opinion, your likes, your dislikes. If he asks a lot of questions, rather than just talking about himself, that means he wants to get to know you better and that he likes you.

7

He Remembers Details

Asking you questions is a good sign but what's even better is when he remembers everything you said. He's already shown that he has a genuine interest in you but you'll get further confirmation of this if he remembers all the little things you tell him like the name of your first pet, your favorite color, etc.!

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He Comments on Your Facebook/Twitter — a Lot

If he follows you on Twitter or always leaves a comment on your status on your wall, he likes you, and he’s not afraid who else knows it.

9

He Invites You to His Game

If a guy likes you, he’ll want to show off. If he’s in a band, he’ll invite you to a show. If he plays sports, he’ll ask you to his game. Cheer the loudest and he’s yours.

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He's not just showing off his skills; he's also testing the waters to see if you're interested in his hobbies. Remember, guys often communicate their affection through actions rather than words, so his inviting you is a big step. Whether he's on the field or strumming a guitar on stage, your presence means a lot. And if you're equally enthusiastic about his passions, it further fuels his attraction. Don't be surprised if he glances over to see your reaction during the pivotal moments. Your support could be the sweetest victory of all for him.

10

He Makes an Effort with Your Friends

If he takes the time and effort to chat with your best friend, he’s probably just trying to find out more about YOU. Perfect! You can always find out exactly what he said later. What else are BFFs for?

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A guy who digs you wants to ingratiate himself with the people you care most about. After all, your tribe is a reflection of you, and he's keen to show that he can jive with your inner circle. When he's asking your friends about their interests or recalling little details from previous conversations, it's a subtle sign that he values your world. Bonus points: He remembers your friends' birthdays or special occasions, proving he's invested in maintaining those friendships, just to see you smile. Trust us, he's not doing that for everyone.

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His Body Language

Body language can tell you everything that you need to know. If you notice that he mimics your own body language, it means he’s trying to connect and is completely focused on you! Other things to look out for is if he maintains eye contact and leans in whenever he's talking to you. That shows that's super comfortable around you and feels safe with you!

12

He Makes Physical Contact

One of the most obvious signs that a guy is into you is if he tries to make physical contact! This could mean pulling you in for a hug every time he sees you, putting his arm around you, or trying to hold your hand when walking down the street or school hallway! He clearly wants people to know that he's interested in you!

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Physical contact is a clear indication that a guy is interested in you. It shows that he wants to be close to you and is comfortable with physical intimacy. This could also include small gestures like brushing your hair out of your face or playfully nudging you. Additionally, studies have shown that physical touch can release oxytocin, the "love hormone," making him feel more connected to you. So if he's constantly finding ways to touch you, it's a sure sign that he has feelings for you. However, it's important to note that consent is always necessary before any physical contact.

13

He Finds Common Interest

If a guy is really into you, he'll make it his duty to find common ground with you. Having the same classes isn't enough, he'll try to connect with you on different levels! This could mean that he'll finally start listening to that band you love or watch that rom-com he swore he'd never watch. Whatever it takes to spark up conversation!

14

He Asks You out

BINGO! This is the best way to tell if a guy is interested. Why else would a guy ask you out? And if he is too shy to make the first move, go ahead! You can do the asking. If he does like you, and you like him, enjoy the thrill of the chase. Sit back, relax, and flirt a little. It’s just a matter of time.

Are there any other ways to tell if a guy is interested? Please, let me know!

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Hey guys! Its me lol well im giving you guys an update like you asked:) So we havent seen each other for 2 weeks and we texted but not all the time b/c he was going thru some stuff so like 5 days would pass before i heard anything from him bt i had stuff to do too so i couldn't rlly talk to him but i sent him nice txt that said have a good day or your probably tired but hope your day was good, stuff like that every once in a while. So on Thursday this week we finally talked and we were talking about what he was up too and how he was feeling before he goes i miss you. (Aww) I was like i miss you but i can deal with all the stuff un til your thru i'll just send you little nice txts and stuff that make your day. And he was like Aww well thank you sweetheart;). And i was just wondering that just means he thinks im sweet and thats his way of saying it right? But anyway so i invited him to have Thanksgiving with me and hes is, lol he was pretty excited but my mom and grandparents im sure will make it to where we can't b near each other. Grandma said lets hope he makes it out of this house alive lol. But the worst we've done was hug blah blah okey im done. Once again thanks guys:)

This guy has had a very obvious crush on me for the past year or so...he practically stalks my Facebook, has introduced me to his parents and to his friends who I am friends with now, seems to hang on to my every word, has made an effort with my friends, and so on. Only problem is that he's one of my best friends and I just don't see him that way :/

Hi everyone! My name is Jackie, and I'm in high school. This year I met a gorgeous new classmate. Although he is a bit introvert, he quickly fit into our company,and since then he seems to be one of our friends. He likes playing jokes and making us laugh often. We also went out all together once. In the end of the night, me and my best friend (a little older than us) stayed out longer and chatted for hours. He really told us things that not many know about him and we realised that we shared a lot of common experiences in our lives. We all felt better. Now, when we are all alone, he talks to me a lot and makes me laugh... Once he left back his old company to stay with me. He is always gentle and kind and likes conversating about our common interests. Also, when I expressed a doubt about my appearance he told me that I should definitely not worry about it. Or, when I'm a bit sick, he asks me how I feel. I forgot to mention that he has given to me his cell phone number, his fb and mail address. Sometimes, when we're talking, he may touch me friendly on the shoulder or arm. However, when we are in a group of people, he acts differently. Sometimes, when I speak to him, he seems distracted, and almost always I have to say for example, ''hello'' first. The same in messenger Or, he may sit away from me in class. I really don't know if he likes me. One of my best friends, who claims he has seen us and watched every move, says he does like me. My other friend says that she hasn't noticed anything. Does he like me, or not? Thanks in advance!

oh and he also used to like me a while back but i didnt like him but now I do and its frustrating ^^

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