Okay so there is this guy i used to like but deep down i know i still do. We used to go to school together, which is where i met him and he was younger than me a few years younger. We became friends because we had mutual friends. Anyways i started to like him because he was so cute and a flirt. At the time he had a gf and i was jealous but he always gave off this feeling towards me and even other people would ask if we liked each other because we both would flirt with each other all the time. Well i got to know he more and my liking just went alway slowing also because i found someone else. And i thought he would never like me because i was nothing like his ex gfs. we became really good friends, i mean he told me about his first time the same night it happened !! My friends new i had a crush on him so during a dare game they told him to kiss me and i was like no but it happened and it was an innocent kiss. Time went by and we ended up in his room alone one night and things got heated and we were making out like crazy. thats all that happened but then weeks later we almost had sex but i didnt want to go there and he sorta got mad and things happened. I moved and the next time i saw him we hooked up again. My friends think im crazy and they always ask how can i see him and talk to him like nothing is going on and i just tell them that its just fun and i have no feelings and hes just a friend that has more to offer and they tell me that i will develop feeling but we never see each other. but the feelings i had for him sometimes come back because i did love him even though he had no clue. One reason i couldnt go through with sex was that people said he just wanted to add me to his list of girls he could get especially because i am older. I dont know what to do and i cant stop wanting to keep hooking up with him but i know it will at one point ruin our relationship as friends because it almost did but i forgave him because i love him. I just dont know how to move on hes been the last guy that ive kissed and i feel like i wont find someone who will love me. Im going crazy

just tell him that u like him as more then friendship......and wait for his reply....

MY story There’s a young woman whose path often cross with mine at the bus stop, while we are waiting. She is sweet and her soft-spoken never fails to greet me. Sometimes we talk about the weather, when the day is too cold to speak about other things, but I never dared to ask her name, although I long for knowing it. I sense it’d be a musical name and delicate songs will have it in their lyrics, and if I ever my shyness would be cornered or curiosity would subjugate me, I would hear an unusual name that would please me. I know she feels safe by my side, because she always come smiling where I am and there she remains silent until the time to leave arrives. And I suspect part of her calm resides in my apparent indifference on conversations invaded with questions. I am glad when she’s close and I like to watch her when she seems not to notice. And I love her stillness and her absent happiness that invited me to crave for her reserved friendship. And that’s maybe why, because her quiet charm is haunting me, I guess I never desireth her name. Such is her charm as she now is, that I could not bear that, because of me, she could one day change.

is anyone here over 25 years old? I really need advice.

Being in love is a beautiful feeling. I know because I have the love of my life.

Okay, so I'm 15 almost 16 and right before summer vacation I met a guy at my school, he was a senior so I knew he would be leaving for college in the fall. We started talking a lot but he had a girl friend, a few days after we hung out he broke up with her then took me out to a movie later in the week, but once I got home I got a text from him saying his family didn't think it'd be a good idea dating me when he was going off to college and he agreed, I took it pretty hard but the next day something click and I texted him saying that I know college is pretty scary and that i'll be there for him and how if all he wanted was to be close friends right now and see how it goes in the future then that's what i'll be. After I told him that he told me he really liked me and that he hoped something would happen with us in the future. So a little over a month before he was leaving for college he started coming over every other day till the night that he left... he spent most of his last night here with me.. It was so hard when he left because I have a ton of family problems and he was my rock, i was so... I don't even have the right words to explain it, so we talked a couple times after he left, mostly over the internet. After the first week or so he wasn't really online a lot and he never texts me back when I text him. So I thought he's probably just busy with homework or he's just hanging around with friends, because I know no one is going to sit in their dorm when they got a whole campus to explore for the first time. Two days ago I was at a football game and his friend was there and he said he was down for the weekend, so I texted him and still no response... so when I got home he was online and i started talking to him and i told him his friend told me that he was home for the weekend and he said he was and how maybe he could drop by the next day to see me and all the animals (I have a ton of animals and he is a really big animal person, another reason why im so head over heals for this guy) so I said i'd be home if he wanted to come over, and so i texted him yesterday morning and he texted me back.... weird because he never texts me anymore. so he came over and everything was like it was before, he teases me, and we just hangout and talk like we did over the summer, so when he leaves he gave me a hug, and a while later when I knew he was home I texted him saying Thanks for visiting and he said anyyytimmee and I said I missed seeing you and he said it'll be a while till next time because he only comes down once a month since he has to find a ride with friends.... when he left the first night he was leaving for college he told me he was going to miss me.... and now he said it's going to be a while till next time? It drives me crazy not knowing why he doesn't text me back or why he didn't say he missed me or at least hinted it because I really think he does miss me a lot he just doesn't want to talk to me a lot because he's scared he's going to really really start liking me and it's going to get in the way of homework and college. Does anyone have any advise because i've been so depressed ever since he left and i've been trying to make the best of it but it's so very hard to not see someone you really really really really like after being with them every other day and having the best time of your life. I also failed to mention in the blog that I'm graduating high school early and going to the same college and he is right now... kinda funny how that one worked out... He is just the most perfect person I could ever ask for and I can't ever think what my life would be like without him, I don't want to lose him and even if we can never be more then friends i'm okay with that because I would probably die without him. Can someone give me some advise here? Thanks

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