Hi i want to share my story here and get advice....I have friend who i like a lot, respect him, adore him, and willing to do anything for him...and when he is sad or in trouble i used to cry and pray god for his good.I started speaking to him exactly one year from now.I first met him 3 years back during a fest of my college when we both were in first year of our college and got introduced to each other by a senior common friend of us.after that i really forgot who he was and i was in my world of problems(academic), again exactly after 2 years i met him again in the same college fest and started speaking and he became really close to me and he had remembered me although i had forgot, that was so sweet of him and later he used to care a lot about me and seems like he was becoming possessive about me.then i dont know how i developed a huge crush on him and i was thinking its wrong thinking about a guy during studies ( i had developed hatred towards love and when that happens to me its obvious i felt scary and guilt coz i had thought love during life is wrong). I couldt even control my feelings towards him, i used to feel is presence everywhere, we usually meet in extracurricular activity club of our college where we both work together, and he is the only one friend i have there, when he doenst turn up for meeting my heart beat goes high and my eyes starts looking for him.We became so close that i used to share all my problems with him,and he did the same. I had no guts to tell me i like him and used to cry thinking of him, i had no guts because i believe first love is best and later loves wont give u happiness , so if this selection is wrong i have to be guilt for life time and my parents hate love marriage.after 6 months or so i told this to my best friend and told all my feelings, later she gave me a good advice and told me this is all common and everything is fine and told me to try to leave thinking about him and talking to him few days, and i did the same and i was bit relieved and later i started speaking to him and realised he is my best friend and love with care exists between us and it is more stronger than love...but some where in my mind i still feel crush for him i dream about we being together and i cant tell this to my friend who had resolved the problem back then coz she have thought i'm fine now.....Please help me how to get rid of this?

I never seem to be lucky in love when it's actually happening. However, I've found that my best friends consist mostly of my ex-lovers. We know each other so well and there are no secrets. I'd like to have a real, long-term love affair one day though.

I was into a relationship for past 7 yrs but after i meet a girl in my post grad college i fell for her and i approached her. i had some feelings for her and after i came to know dat she feel something for me i approached her but i was so much bounded with my previous girl frnd that i couldn't tell her about my new love. My guilt feeling was working so i couldn't. Once i told to her and tried to broke up but her parents threatened to come here i got frightened and i told ok everything is fine i'll not do it again. but again my guilt feeling. i can't do wrong wid the girl i love. i finally made up my mind and told my previous girl friend and her family that i couldn't love her any more as because i love some one else. i lied to my new love as because i don't wanna loose her and i don't wanna loose her. only i myself know that after my exams i'll make this things come to an end. my previous girl friend told me that "come to me come back and i cannot stay without u" she told me that she visited a doctor n the doc prescribed her for low blood pressure and if the thing persists she should be admitted to the hospital and should be given saline. i thought i'm responsible for all this. i took another sim and talked to her for making her normal and talked to her whetehr she had taken food, is she fine, can she sleep now all this. I did this only to make every1 happy n come out in a happy way from her life. But my new love and my prev gf talked wid eachother in phone and discussed all this. now my new gf is leaving me for not telling her a single truth. and only one person knows that wat i have done is only to come out from the life of my prev gf happily that person is me. plz members suggest wat my new girl friend should do.......

Im kinda in love with my best friend, dont worry its a guy. We have been best friends for ages, we talk about everything together... talk about girl/guy problems with each other... but for the past couple of weeks we have hooked up, we nearly had sex but i pulled out of it. He always tells me he loves me, he used to do that from the start, but lately it has been different, like he used to spell it like "luv" now he spells it "love" and he calls me boo and stuff... i dont no what to think about it, and i dont want to ask him what is going on because its going to make it really awkward. I no i have to talk to him... but i dont no how :( i used to like him, and he knows that... and then after a while i stopped likely him cuz of something involving my friend which i dont really want to talk about. and then now he basically talks like we are bf and gf, he hugs me from behind all the time and people think we are a couple. HELP ME... i dont no what to do? i think i love him, but i dont want to get hurt again. please someone tell me what to do.

Hey! Yep im 25 kimmy. What's the issue?