21 Signs It's Just Sex and Not a Relationship ...

I'm really confused about this realtionship i'm having and i don't know should i end it or not. I really need someone's help.I've been chating with a guy for a long time. He kind of got addicted to chat with me everyday so we decided to meet eachother.When we met we were only friends. He is a very shy,nice,and a really good guy so we were only friends for a couple of months and we used to hang out. After that we both were too busy and didnt have time to see eachother. He called me and he told me that he missed me alot so we went out but because it was too late we decided to go to a nice view place and stay in the car.in the car he kissed me and im not an easy girl to show everything but sometimes i cant control myself.we only kissed and just simple touch and he asked me about if i want to have sex and i said no. so he calles me each week and we do the same thing over and over and we stay in the car.

Okay so I have known this guy since the summer.We had sex.Its not like we just have sex though.I met his brother before and we done other things such as eat..etc.We stopped talking twice because I decided I wouldn't chase him and look like a fool.He always comes back to me.This is now the third time he has come back to me.I asked him why should I let him back in my life when he thinks I'm a toy.He told me that he was having family problems...I told him to help me understand because i felt as if he was just playing games.What he told me was enough and I didn't want to be a cold heart bitch.I slept over and we talked about what was bothering me and had sex.I eventually want a real relationship.He said that people should really get to know each other....but with all the gaps of time that have passed it feels like hes holding back.I understand that getting to know each other doesn't have a exact number of months and its about when your really feeling you know a person.The thing is I have expectations and I'm starting to feel its just sex and it wont go any where.What do you think???

I have been seeing (i guess you could say) this guy for about 6 months. We have great chemistry, but i use to see his best friend. I am confused as to what is going on. This guy is wonderful and teaches me so much. Yes, we have alot of sex, we see eachother mostly at night (to catch up and have sex, lol). Whenever i need him for any reason he is always there. No matter what. I am just confused as to what this is. Am i a booty call/friend with benefits? We both have children so we don't have alot of free time. Im just wanting clarafication of the situation i guess.

I met the love of my life. As luck would have it, this 'doesn't need a girlfriend' guy fell in love with me in just weeks. We were in a love bubble for some time. I spent mostly every night at his house for 2 years, never fought, had a ridiculously awesome sex life, his whole family LOVES me, as much as he does. We became as good of friends as lovers, just understood one another. Abou a month after my dad died, he told me that he wasn't feeling accomplished enough, fights with his brother too much, doesn't like his living situation, wants to do more with his music 'career', and he wasn't making the choices like these to make him happier and he needed a break from our relationship. I talked to this guy everyday for 2 years and we go six weeks of not talking, he goes on vacation, comes back and wants to hang out. We have sex, great sex, but two days later he confesses he still isn't ready for a commitment. So over the last month and a Half we've been getting together, hanging out and not having sex and hooking up to just have sex. We don't say I love you, and he stresses that he wants me, doesn't think it's fair to ask me to wait until he's ready, I know I matter to him, but I don't know if I am making the right decision. Am I encouraging bad behavior by having just sex with him, when I'm still in love with him? I don't know how to handle this. I see the man I love when it's just us two, but I still feel like he is troubled. He told his brothe that he wants to be 'just friends' with me in a drunken stupor, and he's been making mistakes with me. Then call me and ask me to come over and tell me he likes our relationship. What do you do? Will he realize what he truly wants if I stop having sex with him? If I don't stop having just sex, will it always be just that? Blah! Thank you.

I just got out of a two year long, very intense relationship, we lived together since month one, and we were very close, it just didn't work out. We had terrible fights, and they happened more and more frequently, needless to say, it ended badly, but we're finally starting to become friends again which is good. Anyway, it ended about three months ago, and about two months ago, I started seeing a new guy. NOT dating him, just seeing him. I know I'm not ready to date anyone just yet. We've been "seeing" each other for about two months now, and we haven't ever discussed what it is we're doing, I guess. We have lunch together occaisonally, and I stay over at his house three or four nights a week. We always have sex, but I do stay over, even have a drawer of clothes there and an extra toothbrush, so I can go straight to work from his place. I know he's not sleeping with anyone else, and neither am I. It seems like we're dating, but I'm not sure if he wants to actually date or if I'm ready to date. I've met all of his friends, whom we hang out with regularly, and he's met most of mine, we talk about our families occaisonally, and go camping with friends once in a while. I just don't know, maybe this is just the beginning of a real relationship? Any thoughts?

can somebody please tell me whether it's just sex or something....... there's this guy in my workplace whom i like a bit...we see each other in the office but doesn't exchange a nod nor a a smile until one day when i get to sit beside him he asked for my email(since it's the only way me and my workmates chat to each other). i gave him my email then did not give a damn about it, until i got a smiley on my chatbox from him...our conversation started there....he sked for my number and fb account....it took me a while to think if i am to give him my number but he gave me his'. we consistently chat and he consistently asked for my number...i said what if your gf caught you...he said why? we're not doing anything wrong and haven't done anything wrong yet...so from there i knew he has a gf...i gave him my number he consistently txt and call,tell me stories about his life and family...i don't take him that seriously at first but it felt like he's really into something real...as days gone by he asked me to go out...i asked him where to go....he said some place where we can be alone together...so i knew from that time that he wants to hook up...i said to him straight if that's what he wants and he said yes if possible...i didn't replied to his messages after that...but he consistently messages me with short messages like gud morning or a smiley and emoticon...until this day that we've had a chance to talk personally and privately on our office...he said he's serious about asking me to go out...so i said yes and told him nothing special about it and it's just casual...he asked why...i said because your already taken but still wanted to hangout with me so i already know what he wants...he said he wants a friend "with benefit"...we went out and have a great sex...he texted me first after that and still consistently chats and be together in the office...until now we're doing the same routine..he never failed to tell me stories of his life events so i'm confused whether it's a hook up or am i really his friend giving him the benefit he needed...SEX