If you are a celebrity, then the publicist is more than likely the one to tell you when it’s time to break up. However, if you are just a normal person caught in the web of love and you are not being snapped down by the paparazzi, then there are a couple of warning signs that it is about to end – or at least, there should be. Below, I am going to give you 13 (there’s that number! Is it a sign?) that it is time to breakup…
13. You Are Drifting Apart
The two of you have started drifting apart. You no longer feel the same about him or her as you first did when you met them. You do not care to see one another each night.
12. You Make Excuses
You make up excuses when he or she asks you out on a date. You no longer want to spend time with the partner (soon to be ex partner in this case) like you used to.
11. Caller ID
You went out and got yourself a caller ID just so you do not pick up the phone when they call you. This is a definite note that it’s time to breakup! So, stop hiding it…
10. Fighting
Sure, every couple has disagreements, but your fights are more frequent, dirty and downright ridiculous. If this is the case, then it is time to leave and not keep leading the other one on.
9. No Sex
You have not had sex with him and her for over two months and you have a 2-month long headache. Sure, sex is not everything, but come on, two months? Something has got to be wrong…
8. Nothing Nice to Say
You do not have anything good to say about the other one. Your friends and family members are tired of hearing the complaints and are wondering why the two of you are even together.
7. Other Attractions
If you are frequently looking at other people – You know, the cute boys or girls that pass you by all of a sudden, then this is a definitely sign.
Yikes, these are definite relationship hellish situations. Number 9 is a bit funny. Haha
Oh gosh, yeah these are real reasons to break up. Especially the cheating one, if you’re doing things with other people, then you obviously don’t love this person anymore. Also number 2, i know that i just can’t wait to get some time alone with my boyfriend, its like my highlight to the day (:
These are definite reasons to break up! I guess a lot of us know at the back of our heads that it’s time but it’s hard to accept it and do something about it. It took me a year to finally break off with my boyfriend of 4 years.
*uGhhh*
I hope this never happens to me and my boyfriend…
Great points tough and very useful.
Thanks Mel
OMG these were all things I experienced with my ex.
I could swear I’ve done every single thing.
something my friend’s ex gf did to him was make him feel like he was insignificant, like she was too good for him. Nasty and it hurt a lot!
Amy,
That’s dreadful! :S