Currently on the market? Good for you, girl! But make sure you read this post before rushing into a new relationship. Here are ten types of man that are not likely to make you happy, and from my point of view, it’s better to stay away from them as soon as they show one of these patterns.
1. Born complainers …
Nothing will ever be good enough for this man, you’ll always be too loud, too stupid, too happy…..Avoid him like you would the plague, you’ll never be good enough for him and he’ll just kill your self esteem.
2. ‘Damaged’ men …
… Who don’t want to be fixed. On your first date he’ll announce that he is not over his broken heart. On your tenth, you’ll realise that he isn’t just broken hearted; he enjoys it, and has made a solemn pact to never let anybody in again. His armour is so thick that you’ll never get through, so don’t waste your time trying.
3. Guys that love sports more then you …
Most guys will put a sport first at some point, but you know that he’ll be there for you if you need him. Guys who love sports too much, however, won’t care if the house is on fire or the babies crying, he’ll just want another beer and some “peace” to watch the match.
4. Men who analyse you …
He thinks he’s Freud, and analyses your every move, from the flavour of crisp you choose to what you watch on TV. He’ll sit with a smug smile, convinced that by labelling you he’ll be keeping you hooked. Soon he’ll be trying to “fix” you with his weird theories….bin him now.
5. Pretty-Pretty boys …
They will just leave you feeling ugly while he spends his time fixing his hair and acting more beautiful and delicate then you. Find a more masculine man, and leave him preening himself.
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Jimbo: You’re right. But then this is a site for women so we like to give warnings to fellow women. Haha kidding. But yeah, you’re right and I guess, from your comment, us women will make sure to avoid BEING these types of women. :)
Why??? For more male bashing?
Jimbo,
It goes both ways….this bashing business. And this post is hardly male bashing. What’s wrong with a little advice on the wrong kinds of men?
another type to stay away: insecure guys. If a guy is insecure, it’s very difficult for him to change and eventually he’ll become more possessive and expects you to spend every waking moment with him. And he’ll become troublesome to deal with. Believe me. I’m speaking from experience.
JJ,
I’ve been there too! Insecurity. Then the questions. Then the jealousy. Then the obsession. Argh! So if you figure out at the very beginning that your boyfriend has insecurity issues, get out! He will not change no matter how much he says he’s trying!
I just love this thank you…
Hey Sweety,
Use it wisely :)
jockeys. irish jockeys. never, ever, ever go there!
Great Post !!!
I saw Chase Crawford up close a few months back and he was just way too pretty for my liking. Guys with more product in their hair than me deserve to be removed from my MOnday night line up. That and blah season arcs :)
and you got it right with born complainers. everytime I’m like oh I might like this guy I am instantly repulsed by the stuff he complains about and thinks I want him to share. gross. if you need a therapist I’m not your gal. ready to listen not ready to spend all day doing it especially for negative bits and pieces.
sports lovers kind of are attractive though…lol sort of manly? I don’t know!
hehe Theo,
every day i get to know you a little better! i like my men to play sports rather than watch them… watching them is just boring for me!
what about a guy that loves his gym more than he loves you, can you beat that
hahaha Chidimma,
i would say that is definitely a problem.. maybe you could interest him in other types of workouts maybe ;)