1. You run into him everywhere.
I mean, everywhere. Outside your class after English Comp. At the grocery store. At the coffee shop. At Home Depot. At the mall, where you work. If you’re seeing him everywhere, he may be trying to make YOU notice HIM. Smile a little. It will drive him crazy.
2. He remembers everything.
You happened to mention you really like daisies, and a few days later, he tucks one into your hair or leaves one under the windshield wiper on your car. Yeah, he likes you.
3. You catch his eye — a lot.
This means he’s looking at you a lot. The next time you catch him looking, smile. He’ll probably either smile back, or blush a little because he got caught.
4. He compliments you — a lot.
He tells you that you have the prettiest smile, the shiniest hair, the nicest smile, he loves that skirt. If he pays you a lot of sincere compliments, that’s another sign he likes you.
5. His friends know your name.
If his friends all know your name, that means he’s been talking about you, especially if his friends aren’t in your own circle of friends. If he’s talking to his friends about you, he almost certainly likes you.
6. He asks questions.
He wants to know your opinion, your likes, your dislikes. If he asks a lot of questions, rather than just talking about himself, that means he likes you.
7. He comments on your Facebook/Twitter — a lot.
If he follows you on Twitter or always leaves a comment on your status on your wall, he likes you, and he’s not afraid who else knows it.
8. He invites you to his game.
If a guy likes you, he’ll want to show off. If he’s in a band, he’ll invite you to a show. If he plays sports, he’ll ask you to his game. Cheer the loudest and he’s yours.
9. He makes an effort with your friends.
If he takes the time and effort to chat with your best friend, he’s probably just trying to find out more about YOU. Perfect! You can always find out exactly what he said later. What else are BFFs for?
10. He asks you out.
BINGO! This is the best way to tell if a guy is interested. Why else would a guy ask you out? And if he is too shy to make the first move, go ahead! You can do the asking.
If he does like you, and you like him, enjoy the thrill of the chase. Sit back, relax, and flirt a little. It’s just a matter of time.
Are there any other ways to tell if a guy is interested? Please, let me know!
Hi Jennifer,
I’m currently in high school and I have this big crush on guy in one of my classes. I’m kind of a nerd, so I love how he’s not only cute, but smart. I sometimes see him look my way in class, but I’m not really sure if it happens that often. I don’t really have that much experience with guys, but I don’t think he’s been giving me that many “signs”. I’m not sure if this is because he’s shy (he pronounces certain words differently at times) or if he’s just not that into me.
Any advice on how I can figure out which reason it is?
From one J to another,
Jessie
Jessie,
You wont really know unless there’s more interaction between the two of you. I mean yeah he’s not giving you enough “signs” but maybe that’s only because he isn’t so sure you’re into him. So if you do like him, make it a little more obvious and maybe he’ll be more forthcoming. Good luck :)
Jessie,
Remeber something, even if he’s not giving you enough signs, that doesn’t mean he’s not interested.
You’re shy but have you thought that maybe he’s shy too and he’s afraid to take the first move case he’s not seeing enough signs from you.
Make up some courge and show him some more signs or you can even try to talk to him ;)
Good luck with that!
This post is so true!!
Tonight I’m ging to show this to my boyfriend cause actually what’s written here is what he did to catch my eye ;)
Heyy, so I like one of my best friends friends. She introduced him to me, but we go to different schools and stuff. He is in high school and im in gr 9. I really really like him, but i have only met him in person once. i usually just text him. Usually every morning i get a text saying ” Goooood morning :) ” and when he has to go he puts :( but i really want to know if he likes me. how can i tell ? I dont see him in person that often.
Meeee
Meee,
If you don’t see him that enough, you need to change that. You already text him and stuff, so why not go ahead and ask him out for a movie or something? Or you could ask your best friend to bring him along the next time the two of you are hanging out.
Meee,
If your texting and the way he say things to me look like he’s sending you some signs. At least you have a beginning here!
You already talk to him!
If you’re shy in person send him a message if he would like to watch movie together or maybe go for a hamburger. Begin with small friendly invitations and see how he reacts.
If there isn’t any interest I don’t think he would loose time sending you.
Make some courage, you have the basis! :)
I know this doesnt go with your thing but i had a question the guy likes me and i like him but when i asked if we were bf and gf he said no but im a likely candidate. is that a good thing? does he stil likeme?
Hi Jennifer,
I’m in high school, and I have a huge crush on a guy who’s not in any of my classes, because he’s 2 years older than me. I know that this is not a big difference and my friends have dated people in his grade, and I’m friends with A LOT of people in his grade… And they all know him.. but I can’t seem to get introduced. I am even friends with his little brother who is in my grade, and just yesterday I was sitting with his brother and my best friend outside HIS house, with him coming in and out constantly, and we didn’t even get introduced.. My best friend thinks I should tell his little brother, because we’re friends with him, and he can keep a secret.. But they’re brothers, and I know they’re pretty close.. would he tell him? I have caught him looking at me a couple of times, but he didn’t smile or anything, he just kept walking… I’ve tried getting closer to the people around him, but it’s not working so far.. and I’m way to shy to just walk up and introduce myself.. Any advice? I desperatly need it.
Hope you can help me :)
there is a boy in yr 10 and im in yr 9 we keep flirting on facebook chat but i dnt know if hes just joking around i havent seen him in school for 2 weeks now i have heard he is quite shy! hes quite a bad boy tho when we chat he always sends me kisses and says i look lovely and calles me babez and hunnie but i dont know what to do! hes really buff but i dnt know why he would want o go out with me im not very good with boys! HELP? From lovesick gurl
Love Sick Gurl,
Boys are so hard to figure out sometimes! If it was me, I would just play along for a while and see where it goes. Don’t get too attached. Thanks for writing to us hun :)
Hey nobodyhastoknow,
I’m with your best friend on this one! The easiest way to get introduced to him would be to tell his little brother especially considering you’re such good friends with him. Don’t sound too desperate. I hope it wont complicate things in anyway. It’s worth a shot though! Good luck and please keep us posted on how it goes :)
Lala,
Umm that’s a weird way to put it but a “likely candidate” means he still likes you. Atleast that’s what I think!
Lala,
I think he likes you.
Some guys feel uneay to begin a realtionship and feel better to call them selves friends.
But in my opinion he likes you. Just give him some chance!!
Love Sick Gurl,
You have a good beginning there!
If he’s that shy maybe he’s sending you signs that he likes you but wouldn’t take the first step.
Make up some courage and ask him out as friends for a humberger and a movie and see what he says and how he reacts.
Always begin as friends so you’ll get a better idea of what he wants when you meet with him.
Good Luck love :)
Nobodyhastoknow,
My first advise is don’t get your hopes high!
React in a very friendly and normal way when you’re around him. Ask his brother to introduce you always react friendly. Make his brother feel like you want to get to know his brother cause your friends with his little bro. See how things go when you begin you friendship. Good Luck love :)
thank you so much:)
u guys r so helpful!:)
Anytime Lala :)
Keep us posted on how it all works out for you…
No problem Lala & Good luck :)
1. You run into him everywhere.
3. You catch his eye — a lot.
4. He compliments you — a lot.
5. His friends know your name.
6. He asks questions.
9. He makes an effort with your friends.
i’ve got them going for me so far :)